Gustavo Noel Hinojosa v. Steve Paul LaFredo

Court of Appeals of Texas·Decided December 31, 2020·No. 05-18-01543-CV·Published

Opinion

Affirmed and Opinion Filed December 31, 2020

In The

Court of Appeals

Fifth District of Texas at Dallas No. 05-18-01543-CV

GUSTAVO NOEL HINOJOSA, Appellant V.

STEVE PAUL LAFREDO, Appellee

On Appeal from the 302nd Judicial District Court Dallas County, Texas

Trial Court Cause No. DF-15-16693

MEMORANDUM OPINION

Before Justices Partida-Kipness, Nowell, and Evans Opinion by Justice Partida-Kipness The underlying proceeding involved a suit for the dissolution of an alleged

marriage of a same-sex couple brought by appellant Gustavo Noel Hinojosa. In the first phase of a bifurcated trial, the jury determined the parties were not informally married. The trial court rendered judgment on the verdict and entered a take nothing judgment against Hinojosa. On appeal, Hinojosa seeks a new trial based on purported charge error. We affirm the judgment.

BACKGROUND

Hinojosa met appellee Steve Paul LaFredo in November 1997 at a bath house

in New York City. The men began a romantic relationship. After dating for almost two years, Hinojosa moved into LaFredo’s co-op in September 1999. The men agreed that Hinojosa would pay LaFredo monthly rent of $1,200, which was roughly half of what Hinojosa was paying for rent at his apartment at that time. According to Hinojosa, the men also tried to roughly split their other living expenses.

The couple spent Christmas 1999 at a home in the Catskill Mountains with Hinojosa’s friends, Linda Myers and George Wolfgang. LaFredo gave Hinojosa a Christmas card during the trip. On the back of the card he handwrote the following: “Will you Marry (commit) ME IN 2000? PLEASE!!! With all our friends and family in attendance!!!” Hinojosa testified that he took this as an honest proposal of marriage. In his mind, LaFredo asked him to marry LaFredo and he said yes. LaFredo, in contrast, testified that he did not intend this to be a marriage proposal. He was asking LaFredo to be committed, which is why LaFredo wrote “commit” in parenthesis after “Marry.” LaFredo testified that he and Hinojosa knew it was impossible for two men to legally marry at that time, and they both knew LaFredo was only asking Hinojosa to commit to the relationship in a commitment ceremony.

After the holidays, Hinojosa and LaFredo began planning a commitment ceremony. LaFredo testified that they considered having a dinner in New York because lots of commitment ceremonies were happening at that time in New York.

They also considered Vermont because that state had recently legalized civil unions. Vermont was, thus, an option if they “wanted to do something that was recognized.” But LaFredo told the jury that he and Hinojosa made “a very deliberate decision” against having the ceremony in Vermont “because this was a commitment ceremony and not a marriage, we were not looking for a piece of paper.” They ultimately decided to host the ceremony in Italy because Hinojosa spent his junior year of college in Rome studying architecture and LaFredo’s family is of Italian descent.

Hinojosa took the lead in finding a location for the ceremony. The couple invited forty-seven of their friends and family to join them at a villa in Tuscany for a week-long celebration in October 2000. Hinojosa and LaFredo agreed on the language and design for the invitation, and Hinojosa sent the invitation to the guests. The invitation stated that Hinojosa and LaFredo “request your company to celebrate our union the week of October twenty-one to October twenty-eight Two Thousand at The Villa Petrolo Tuscany Italy.” Underneath that information, the invitation stated “Commitment Ceremony on October twenty-six at five o’clock in the evening at The Villa.” By all accounts, everyone who attended the week-long celebration had a wonderful time. In the days leading up to the commitment ceremony, guests toured Tuscany, enjoyed group dinners, and got to know one another. On October 26, 2000, they attended the commitment ceremony. And it is here that the parties’ description of events diverge.

The video of the ceremony shows the officiant, Ariel Sebastian, leading Hinojosa, LaFredo, and their guests into the villa before the ceremony while she smudged the room with burning sage to purify the room for the ceremony. During the ceremony, guests sat in chairs in a circle surrounding Ariel, Hinojosa, and LaFredo. Ariel described the ceremony as an “ancient pagan celebration of unity” during which Hinojosa and LaFredo agreed to take the other as their loving partner. The men exchanged rings, lit a unity candle, and accepted each other as life partners. At the conclusion of the ceremony, Ariel pronounced the men “Life Partner.” She did not use the term “marriage” or “spouse” during the ceremony.

Hinojosa described the commitment ceremony as a wedding where he and LaFredo said vows, exchanged custom-designed rings, lit a unity candle, and shared a post-nuptial kiss after being pronounced life partners. At the reception, the couple cut the cake together, fed each other pieces of cake, and even pushed cake into each other’s faces. He told the jury that LaFredo never objected to him referring to the ceremony as a wedding in LaFredo’s presence, and that LaFredo told him that the ceremony was their wedding on more than one occasion.

LaFredo on the other hand was adamant at trial that the event in Italy was only a commitment ceremony. To LaFredo, the ceremony “was an event to have friends and family celebrate our love for each other, be a part of support. As a same-sex couple, support was something that was important. The entire plan, all of the time, was to have a circle of friends and family that would support our relationship.”

LaFredo told the jury that he and Hinojosa took deliberate steps to “exclude it from looking like a marriage.” These steps included choosing a location that did not recognize same-sex marriages or civil unions and purposely excluding the words “God” and “marriage” from the officiant’s script for the ceremony. Ariel was a friend of a very good friend who oversaw the ceremony and followed a script that he and Hinojosa put together. LaFredo did not know if Ariel was a minister or was licensed to perform any kind of wedding ceremony. He considered her more of a coordinator. LaFredo did not ask Ariel to get a marriage license for him, and he and Hinojosa never obtained a marriage license because “[w]e never talked about getting married.” LaFredo also testified that no one used the word “marriage” during the days leading up to the ceremony in Italy, and no one used the word marriage in any theme or in any response in front of the crowd or group.

LaFredo further testified that when the couple returned to New York after the ceremony, he told coworkers that they had a ceremony and he introduced Hinojosa after that as his “partner.” But nothing changed between he and Hinojosa after the ceremony. LaFredo was consistent in his testimony that he has at no time called Hinojosa his spouse, he never introduced Hinojosa as his spouse, and never heard Hinojosa introduce him as Hinojosa’s spouse at any time. LaFredo also testified that he never intended to marry Hinojosa, and he took no actions to marry Hinojosa after the commitment ceremony. Even though Massachusetts legalized same-sex marriage in 2003 and he and Hinojosa travelled to Cape Cod, they did not talk about

going there to get married. According to LaFredo, he and Hinojosa did not ever talk about getting married. He also told the jury that he “does not honestly know” if he would have proposed marriage to Hinojosa in Christmas 1999 if same-sex marriage had been legally recognized at that time but, if he had, he “would have probably done additional steps if that would have been the case.”

Hinojosa maintained that after returning to New York following the ceremony, he and LaFredo referred to themselves as married in front of others, and he introduced LaFredo to others as his spouse after the ceremony.

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