Gustavo Noel Hinojosa v. Steve Paul LaFredo

CourtCourt of Appeals of Texas
DecidedDecember 31, 2020
Docket05-18-01543-CV
StatusPublished

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Opinion

Affirmed and Opinion Filed December 31, 2020

In The Court of Appeals Fifth District of Texas at Dallas No. 05-18-01543-CV

GUSTAVO NOEL HINOJOSA, Appellant V. STEVE PAUL LAFREDO, Appellee

On Appeal from the 302nd Judicial District Court Dallas County, Texas Trial Court Cause No. DF-15-16693

MEMORANDUM OPINION Before Justices Partida-Kipness, Nowell, and Evans Opinion by Justice Partida-Kipness The underlying proceeding involved a suit for the dissolution of an alleged

marriage of a same-sex couple brought by appellant Gustavo Noel Hinojosa. In the

first phase of a bifurcated trial, the jury determined the parties were not informally

married. The trial court rendered judgment on the verdict and entered a take nothing

judgment against Hinojosa. On appeal, Hinojosa seeks a new trial based on

purported charge error. We affirm the judgment. BACKGROUND Hinojosa met appellee Steve Paul LaFredo in November 1997 at a bath house

in New York City. The men began a romantic relationship. After dating for almost

two years, Hinojosa moved into LaFredo’s co-op in September 1999. The men

agreed that Hinojosa would pay LaFredo monthly rent of $1,200, which was roughly

half of what Hinojosa was paying for rent at his apartment at that time. According

to Hinojosa, the men also tried to roughly split their other living expenses.

The couple spent Christmas 1999 at a home in the Catskill Mountains with

Hinojosa’s friends, Linda Myers and George Wolfgang. LaFredo gave Hinojosa a

Christmas card during the trip. On the back of the card he handwrote the following:

“Will you Marry (commit) ME IN 2000? PLEASE!!! With all our friends and family

in attendance!!!” Hinojosa testified that he took this as an honest proposal of

marriage. In his mind, LaFredo asked him to marry LaFredo and he said yes.

LaFredo, in contrast, testified that he did not intend this to be a marriage proposal.

He was asking LaFredo to be committed, which is why LaFredo wrote “commit” in

parenthesis after “Marry.” LaFredo testified that he and Hinojosa knew it was

impossible for two men to legally marry at that time, and they both knew LaFredo

was only asking Hinojosa to commit to the relationship in a commitment ceremony.

After the holidays, Hinojosa and LaFredo began planning a commitment

ceremony. LaFredo testified that they considered having a dinner in New York

because lots of commitment ceremonies were happening at that time in New York.

–2– They also considered Vermont because that state had recently legalized civil unions.

Vermont was, thus, an option if they “wanted to do something that was recognized.”

But LaFredo told the jury that he and Hinojosa made “a very deliberate decision”

against having the ceremony in Vermont “because this was a commitment ceremony

and not a marriage, we were not looking for a piece of paper.” They ultimately

decided to host the ceremony in Italy because Hinojosa spent his junior year of

college in Rome studying architecture and LaFredo’s family is of Italian descent.

Hinojosa took the lead in finding a location for the ceremony. The couple

invited forty-seven of their friends and family to join them at a villa in Tuscany for

a week-long celebration in October 2000. Hinojosa and LaFredo agreed on the

language and design for the invitation, and Hinojosa sent the invitation to the guests.

The invitation stated that Hinojosa and LaFredo “request your company to celebrate

our union the week of October twenty-one to October twenty-eight Two Thousand

at The Villa Petrolo Tuscany Italy.” Underneath that information, the invitation

stated “Commitment Ceremony on October twenty-six at five o’clock in the evening

at The Villa.” By all accounts, everyone who attended the week-long celebration had

a wonderful time. In the days leading up to the commitment ceremony, guests toured

Tuscany, enjoyed group dinners, and got to know one another. On October 26, 2000,

they attended the commitment ceremony. And it is here that the parties’ description

of events diverge.

–3– The video of the ceremony shows the officiant, Ariel Sebastian, leading

Hinojosa, LaFredo, and their guests into the villa before the ceremony while she

smudged the room with burning sage to purify the room for the ceremony. During

the ceremony, guests sat in chairs in a circle surrounding Ariel, Hinojosa, and

LaFredo. Ariel described the ceremony as an “ancient pagan celebration of unity”

during which Hinojosa and LaFredo agreed to take the other as their loving partner.

The men exchanged rings, lit a unity candle, and accepted each other as life partners.

At the conclusion of the ceremony, Ariel pronounced the men “Life Partner.” She

did not use the term “marriage” or “spouse” during the ceremony.

Hinojosa described the commitment ceremony as a wedding where he and

LaFredo said vows, exchanged custom-designed rings, lit a unity candle, and shared

a post-nuptial kiss after being pronounced life partners. At the reception, the couple

cut the cake together, fed each other pieces of cake, and even pushed cake into each

other’s faces. He told the jury that LaFredo never objected to him referring to the

ceremony as a wedding in LaFredo’s presence, and that LaFredo told him that the

ceremony was their wedding on more than one occasion.

LaFredo on the other hand was adamant at trial that the event in Italy was only

a commitment ceremony. To LaFredo, the ceremony “was an event to have friends

and family celebrate our love for each other, be a part of support. As a same-sex

couple, support was something that was important. The entire plan, all of the time,

was to have a circle of friends and family that would support our relationship.”

–4– LaFredo told the jury that he and Hinojosa took deliberate steps to “exclude it from

looking like a marriage.” These steps included choosing a location that did not

recognize same-sex marriages or civil unions and purposely excluding the words

“God” and “marriage” from the officiant’s script for the ceremony. Ariel was a

friend of a very good friend who oversaw the ceremony and followed a script that

he and Hinojosa put together. LaFredo did not know if Ariel was a minister or was

licensed to perform any kind of wedding ceremony. He considered her more of a

coordinator. LaFredo did not ask Ariel to get a marriage license for him, and he and

Hinojosa never obtained a marriage license because “[w]e never talked about getting

married.” LaFredo also testified that no one used the word “marriage” during the

days leading up to the ceremony in Italy, and no one used the word marriage in any

theme or in any response in front of the crowd or group.

LaFredo further testified that when the couple returned to New York after the

ceremony, he told coworkers that they had a ceremony and he introduced Hinojosa

after that as his “partner.” But nothing changed between he and Hinojosa after the

ceremony. LaFredo was consistent in his testimony that he has at no time called

Hinojosa his spouse, he never introduced Hinojosa as his spouse, and never heard

Hinojosa introduce him as Hinojosa’s spouse at any time. LaFredo also testified that

he never intended to marry Hinojosa, and he took no actions to marry Hinojosa after

the commitment ceremony. Even though Massachusetts legalized same-sex

marriage in 2003 and he and Hinojosa travelled to Cape Cod, they did not talk about

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