Guardianship of M.A.M.: D.L.M. v. J.G.

CourtIndiana Court of Appeals
DecidedMarch 8, 2012
Docket71A03-1108-GU-365
StatusUnpublished

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Opinion

Pursuant to Ind. Appellate Rule 65(D), this Memorandum Decision shall not be regarded as precedent or cited before any court except for the purpose of establishing the defense of res judicata, collateral

FILED estoppel, or the law of the case.

Mar 08 2012, 9:35 am ATTORNEY FOR APPELLANT:

W. RUSSELL SANFORD CLERK of the supreme court, court of appeals and

South Bend, Indiana tax court

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF INDIANA

IN RE: THE GUARDIANSHIP OF M.A.M. ) ) D.L.M., ) ) Appellant-Petitioner, ) ) vs. ) No. 71A03-1108-GU-365 ) J.G., ) ) Appellee-Respondent. )

APPEAL FROM THE ST. JOSEPH PROBATE COURT The Honorable Barbara J. Johnston, Special Judge Cause No. 71J01-0604-GU-62

March 8, 2012

MEMORANDUM DECISION - NOT FOR PUBLICATION

KIRSCH, Judge D.L.M. (“Father”) appeals from the trial court‟s order denying his petition to terminate

a permanent guardianship of M.A.M. (“the Child”) entered in favor of J.G. (“Maternal

Grandfather”). Although Father presents several issues for our review, the dispositive issue

in this appeal follows: Whether the trial court erred in denying Father‟s petition to terminate

Maternal Grandfather‟s guardianship of the Child.

We reverse and remand.

FACTS AND PROCEDURAL HISTORY

Father and C.L.G. are the biological parents of the Child, who was born out of

wedlock on January 27, 1999. Father established paternity of the Child in 2000 and was

granted custody of the Child that same year. C.L.G.‟s parental rights as to the Child were

terminated in 2001.

Father has been employed by the South Bend Community School Corporation for

more than fourteen years and teaches business. Father is also a Lieutenant Colonel in the

Indiana National Guard and has been deployed overseas three times: (1) from January 2004

to July 2006; (2) from May 2007 to November 2008; and (3) from July 2009 to July 2010.

Father relied on friends and family members to care for the Child during the periods of

deployment. During one of the periods of deployment, Father met his wife (“Wife”) and she

began living with Father and the Child in January of 2007. Father and Wife were married in

May 2007.

Wife and the Child traveled to Bosnia to visit with Wife‟s family there. Shortly

thereafter, Father joined Wife and the Child in Slovakia for his deployment there. The three

behaved as a family in all respects, and the Child attended school while abroad. The Child

2 was allowed and encouraged to have communication with Maternal Grandfather and his

family by telephone, email, and mail. When Father, Wife, and the Child returned to South

Bend, they continued to act as a family, and the Child was able to see Maternal Grandfather

and his family frequently.

In April 2009, when Father learned of his third deployment, Father delayed telling the

Child until the end of the school year in order to avoid upsetting her. Father, Wife, and the

Child discussed with the Child whether she would accompany Father and Wife to Bosnia,

stay in Indianapolis with her paternal aunt (“Paternal Aunt”), or stay with Maternal

Grandfather. The Child expressed a strong desire to stay with Maternal Grandfather, and

Father acceded to her wishes. Father then met with Maternal Grandfather to arrange for the

Child to reside there and to discuss Father‟s wishes to see the Child at Christmas. Father

provided Maternal Grandfather with a signed power of attorney form and $1,000, which was

to be used to pay the Child‟s expenses, prepaid school lunches for the year, in addition to

other items.

After his deployment, Father and the Child maintained contact via email. When

Father learned that he would be unable to take leave at Christmas so that he, Wife, and the

Child could celebrate the holiday in Sarajevo together, he made alternate plans for the Child

to travel to Bosnia for Easter, and for her to spend time with Father‟s family in Indianapolis

at Christmas. The Child was reluctant to go to Indianapolis for Christmas and Maternal

Grandfather supported her decision not to do as Father had wanted. Father persisted in his

position that the Child visit with his family at Christmas, and the Child continued to resist.

Ultimately, the Child did not visit Father‟s family at Christmas and did not travel to Bosnia

3 for Easter.

Father was aware that his sister (“Paternal Aunt”) used a belt to discipline her own

children. Father disapproved of the use of a belt for discipline, and has never used such

discipline with the Child, instead using time-outs, spanking, and consequence/reward

punishments as appropriate. Father has communicated his position with Paternal Aunt.

Father does not believe that Paternal Aunt is an abuser. Rather he disagrees with her on the

use of the belt for discipline. During Father‟s deployment from 2004 to 2006, the Child

resided with Paternal Aunt and allegations were made that the Child was physically and

emotionally abused while living there.

Father was disappointed with the Child‟s failure to spend time with his family at

Christmas and failure to travel to Bosnia for Easter. He also was displeased with the Child‟s

use of make-up and change in hair style. Father then prepared and signed a new power of

attorney which provided for the appointment of Maternal Grandfather and Paternal Aunt.

Maternal Grandfather filed for and obtained a temporary guardianship of the Child in January

2010. Father claimed that he did not receive notice of the hearing on Maternal Grandfather‟s

petition. Maternal Grandfather filed a petition for permanent guardianship of the Child,

which was granted on March 16, 2010. Father acknowledged receiving an email from

Maternal Grandfather‟s attorney about the hearing on the petition scheduled for March 16,

2010, and replied that he did not consent to the petition for permanent guardianship as he

believed the power of attorney in place at the time was sufficient until he returned from his

deployment.

4 After the trial court granted Maternal Grandfather‟s petition for permanent

guardianship, Maternal Grandfather sent an email to Father informing him that Maternal

Grandfather was now the Child‟s parent and that Father should not expect to pick up the

Child upon his return to South Bend. Father was both surprised and upset by the contents of

the email. Upon Father‟s return to South Bend on July 3, 2010 with Wife and their new son,

he saw the Child the next day at a pool party. The Child was appreciative of gifts offered to

her, but did not greet Father warmly. Since that time, Father‟s visits with the Child have

been supervised or with a therapist.

Father sought a termination of the permanent guardianship because he has observed a

downward slide in the Child‟s behavior toward him and others, and a lack of discipline in her

life. A social worker, who testified at one of the hearings in this matter, stated that she

believed that the Child needed to reconcile with Father, but that the goal would have to be

accomplished over time. Ultimately, the trial court denied Father‟s petition. The trial court

did not rule on Father‟s motion to correct error or motion for certification. Father now

appeals.

DISCUSSION AND DECISION

As an initial matter, we note that Maternal Grandfather has failed to file a brief in this

appeal. When the appellee has failed to submit a brief we need not undertake the burden of

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