Grisanti v. Cioffi, No. Fa99 036 73 52 S (Jul. 12, 2001)

2001 Conn. Super. Ct. 9478
CourtConnecticut Superior Court
DecidedJuly 12, 2001
DocketNo. FA99 036 73 52 S
StatusUnpublished

This text of 2001 Conn. Super. Ct. 9478 (Grisanti v. Cioffi, No. Fa99 036 73 52 S (Jul. 12, 2001)) is published on Counsel Stack Legal Research, covering Connecticut Superior Court primary law. Counsel Stack provides free access to over 12 million legal documents including statutes, case law, regulations, and constitutions.

Bluebook
Grisanti v. Cioffi, No. Fa99 036 73 52 S (Jul. 12, 2001), 2001 Conn. Super. Ct. 9478 (Colo. Ct. App. 2001).

Opinion

[EDITOR'S NOTE: This case is unpublished as indicated by the issuing court.]

MEMORANDUM OF DECISION RE: POST JUDGMENT MOTIONS
ENTRY NO. 122 — MOTION FOR EXPERT FEES

DOCKET ENTRY NO. 136 — REMOVAL OF GUARDIAN AD LITEM AND SKANE SERVICES AND FOR APPOINTMENT OF SUPERVISOR

DOCKET ENTRY NO. 137 AND 138 — MOTION FOR ORDER OF ATTORNEY FEES

DOCKET ENTRY NO. 139 — MOTION TO TERMINATE SUPERVISED VISITATION AND INSTITUTE UNSUPERVISED VISITATION

DOCKET ENTRY NO. 145 — DEFENDANT'S MOTION FOR CONTEMPT

DOCKET ENTRY NO. 149 — GUARDIAN AD LITEM'S MOTION FOR CONTEMPT BACKGROUND:

The plaintiff and defendant met in 1993 in California and began a sexual relationship lasting three years. The plaintiff was then and continues to be unmarried. She is presently thirty-six years old, in good health, and operates a day care center out of her mother's home where she resides with her four year old daughter April and April's maternal grandmother. When the plaintiff met the defendant, he was and continues to be married (That marriage is now of twenty years duration.). On October 16, 1996, a daughter (April) was born to them. The relationship thereafter terminated and the plaintiff thus began a tortured saga of recriminations, accusations, and legal actions involving state and federal courts in California and Connecticut. There have been numerous criminal, civil, and family court actions. The plaintiff continued to reside in Connecticut and the defendant still lives with his wife in California. He is a musician/composer who claims to be presently unemployed but is capable of earning a living in a variety of ways in the CT Page 9479 music/entertainment industry. April is the only child of both parties.

On December 5, 1996, the parties appeared in a Los Angeles, California, superior court and agreed they would share joint legal custody of April. That agreement was made an Order of the court as were child support payments and. a visitation schedule for the father. Some time early in 1997, the plaintiff moved from that state to Connecticut without either prior notice to the defendant or Order of the court and, by so doing, she emasculated the father's visitation rights. Nevertheless, despite the need to travel from one coast to another, to arrange for transportation within this state, and to incur expenses for hotel accommodations, meals, etc., the defendant has consistently demonstrated his willingness to do whatever was required in order that he have the opportunity to spend time with his daughter and to develop a father-daughter relationship. However, all did not go well and, at least as early as February of 1999, the legal system became involved in these parties' disputes regarding April. In the interim, numerous counsel have been appointed guardians ad litem for the child, no fewer than six Connecticut judges have entered Orders, mediation with Janet Daigle-Esposito (this court's Family Services Supervisor) has failed and, in the spring of 2000, an height day trial was held before Cutsumpas, J. Approximately twenty witnesses — to include court appointed psychological evaluators — testified and over one hundred exhibits were marked. At the core of that trial were the defendant's custody and visitation rights. In a twenty-three page memorandum of decision on July 14, 2000, the court entered Orders on no fewer than eight motions, most of which were filed by the plaintiff mother and raised the same issues with most of the same evidence presented by the instant plethora of motions. This trial spanned five court days; twelve witnesses testified; thirty-four exhibits were offered. The centerpiece of this trial was again the defendant father's visitation rights. Given the severity of the charges the plaintiff has made with regard not only to the defendant but to many other witnesses, this court has carefully observed the witnesses demeanor, evaluated their credibility, and carefully examined all exhibits to include an extensive DCF file and two video tapes.

To chronicle in detail this tumultuous relationship would serve little purpose except to titillate. It is, however, relevant to state the relationship involved at least one voluntary abortion and a claim the defendant forcibly raped and threatened the plaintiff on multiple occasions (The plaintiff has in the past claimed April's birth was the result of one such instance of forcible rape.). Pertinent to that claim is that the plaintiff not only invited the defendant to be present at the birth but, when she was brought to the hospital, she tracked him down by beeper to ensure his presence at the birthing. It is also so that the CT Page 9480 plaintiff announced to the defendant's wife by letter that she and the defendant were engaged in an affair and that she was pregnant with the defendant's child; she included with that letter a copy of a sonogram showing the fetus as proof of such pregnancy. It was apparently the plaintiff's hope the defendant's wife would leave him and the defendant would then marry the plaintiff. That never occurred and the defendant and his wife remain married despite the stress the extramarital affair and the years of litigation have obviously placed upon the marriage. The plaintiff has claimed the defendant forced her to have the earlier abortion(s). She has also claimed that, while visiting with April in the Cioffi home in California, Mrs. Cioffi threatened to shoot the plaintiff and the infant. This court has taken judicial notice of all that is contained in this three volume family file.

Over the years, the plaintiff has expressed deep dissatisfaction with the guardians ad litem and court appointed mediators, visitation facilitators, family services, DCF personnel, and psychological evaluators. She has accused each of them of bias and improper job performance. She has rejected as without merit every opinion which does not mirror her own. Here, she has requested the guardian ad litem (Barbara Binford, Esq.) be removed because incompetent, biased, inattentive to her duties as supervisor of visitation, and she has suggested counsel may have been involved in a "personal" relationship with a defense counsel. She has claimed that lawyer has threatened her in courthouse shall ways, in her home, and in restroom facilities. She has claimed Judge Brennan threatened her while he attempted a global mediation. She accused a family relations officer in another courthouse of being too familiar with the defendant and therefore of bias. She also has requested Skane Visitation Center a/k/a Skane Services (now known as Fairfield Counseling and Mediation Services, Inc.) be removed as visitation facilitators because it is similarly incompetent and prejudiced. She has argued the defendant ought not again — as has been the Order of previous courts — be given unsupervised visitation because she claims he has sexually abused April. None of these claims are new claims. They have been fully litigated and have been the subject of DCF and police investigations initiated by the plaintiff. The only new testimony in the instant trial consists of allegations the child advanced regarding the defendant's conduct subsequent to the first trial. More specifically:

1. On or about May 3, of 2000, the plaintiff's application for a restraining order against the defendant was denied by Hauser, J.

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