Grillo v. Grillo, No. Fa-97-0715804s (Apr. 6, 2000)

2000 Conn. Super. Ct. 4126
CourtConnecticut Superior Court
DecidedApril 6, 2000
DocketNo. FA-97-0715804S
StatusUnpublished

This text of 2000 Conn. Super. Ct. 4126 (Grillo v. Grillo, No. Fa-97-0715804s (Apr. 6, 2000)) is published on Counsel Stack Legal Research, covering Connecticut Superior Court primary law. Counsel Stack provides free access to over 12 million legal documents including statutes, case law, regulations, and constitutions.

Bluebook
Grillo v. Grillo, No. Fa-97-0715804s (Apr. 6, 2000), 2000 Conn. Super. Ct. 4126 (Colo. Ct. App. 2000).

Opinion

[EDITOR'S NOTE: This case is unpublished as indicated by the issuing court.]

MEMORANDUM OF DECISION
This action, by summons and complaint, claiming a dissolution of marriage and other relief, came to this court on June 17, 1997, and thence to later dates when the defendant appeared by counsel. The plaintiff filed an amended prayer for relief dated August 7, 1998 and filed August 10, 1998. By pleading dated August 12, 1998 and filed the same day the defendant filed an answer admitting all of the allegations of the plaintiffs complaint together with a cross-complaint claiming a dissolution of marriage and other relief

The parties appeared with counsel on divers days in November and December, 1999 concluding on December 15, 1999. The parties presented testimony and exhibits. The court, after hearing the testimony of the parties and their witnesses and reviewing the exhibits makes the following findings of fact and enters orders based thereon.

The plaintiff husband married the defendant wife (whose maiden name was Abbott) on June 8, 1974 in Bristol, Connecticut. He has resided continuously in the State of Connecticut for one year next preceding the date of the filing of this complaint. All statutory stays have expired. The parties have no minor children born to the defendant wife since the date of the marriage. No other minor children have been born to the defendant wife since the date of the marriage. The court further finds that no state or municipal agency has or is contributing to the support of the parties.

Both parties testified at length concerning their initial meeting, subsequent marriage and married life and their opinion as to what led to the breakdown of the marriage and the causes. While both parties contributed to the breakdown of the marriage the court finds that the plaintiff was more responsible for the breakdown than the defendant.

The plaintiff holds a bachelors degree from the University of Connecticut and presently owns and operates Grillo Financial Services located in West Hartford, Connecticut. He holds several SEC licenses both in Connecticut and Florida. He operates his business out of a house owned by him but lives with his girlfriend and her children in Unionville, Connecticut. The house, located on Arapahoe Road in West Hartford, Connecticut, has a second floor apartment which, in the past has been a source of rental income to the plaintiff. Further, Grillo Financial Services pays rent to the plaintiff which covers most, if not CT Page 4128 all, of the expenses of maintaining the property and paying the mortgage indebtedness.

The defendant attends the University of Hartford in pursuit of a bachelor's degree in art. During the marriage the defendant was the primary caretaker for the parties children while working part-time. She presently resides in the marital residence.

As to premarital assets the evidence reveals that the defendant possessed $45,000.00 when the parties married. She presently has approximately $9,000.00 remaining. Although the plaintiff claimed he brought $20,000.00 into the marriage the court finds no credible evidence to support his claim.

The parties lived together for a period of time before marriage and each would contribute to their household expenses. The defendant became pregnant with their daughter, Catherine. The parties married shortly thereafter but the testimony was in conflict as to how far along in the pregnancy the defendant was. The defendant held various full and part-time jobs during the marriage but the plaintiff was the primary wage earner and principal support of the family while the defendant was the homemaker, wife and primary caretaker of the parties two children, Catherine and Emily. The plaintiff had a series of jobs with various companies in the Greater Hartford area until he joined with his father in business in West Hartford where he continues under the name of Grub Financial Services. His entire career has been in the financial arena and in the past few years has afforded him a substantial income. During his early years of employment he was required to travel away from home. For the past several years the marriage of the parties deteriorated. At some point the defendant became pregnant with a third child but aborted the pregnancy because of the plaintiffs desire not to have any more children. The parties talked of divorce on several occasions. There were numerous incidents involving the children whereby arguments ensued. Both parties were unhappy in their relationship.

In April of 1997 the plaintiff met his present paramour at a local restaurant. Following their initial meeting they saw each other for lunch and dinner. The plaintiff put $10,000.00 in an investment account for his paramour's benefit. The funds were marital assets and the opening of the account was unknown by the defendant. The parties separated and the plaintiff instituted the present proceedings. Shortly thereafter, the plaintiff and his CT Page 4129 paramour started an intimate relationship and in February of 1998 he moved in with her.

The parents of both parties would help with some of the family expenses including gifts, vacations, and the educational expenses of the parties children although most of the monies came from the defendant's parents. Based upon the evidence the larger amounts came from the defendant's family after the parties separated in mid 1997.

In June of 1982 the parties borrowed $75,000.00 from the Townsend Treadway Trust to purchase the parties marital residence in West Hartford, Connecticut. The borrowing was secured by a first mortgage on the property. The mortgage was refinanced with the Trust in 1992 and the amount financed was increased to $105,000.00. The balance of the mortgage as of November 30, 1999 was $95,830.10. Their was no evidence to indicate that the mortgages were other than "arms length transactions".

Townsend G. Treadway was the maternal grandfather of the defendant. He is deceased. On May 14, 1966 Mr. Treadway executed his last will and testament. Article Nine of the document created a testamentary trust naming Bristol Bank and Trust Company (now Fleet Bank) as the sole trustee. The trust corpus was divided into two shares, one for each of Mr. Treadway's two daughters. Ellen Treadway Abbott (the defendant's mother) was one of Mr. Treadway's daughter's and is still living. With respect to the share set aside for the benefit of Ellen Abbott the trustee has the sole discretion to distribute income or principal to Ellen, her husband Robert or to their children including the defendant. However, the trust states that Ellen was to be the primary object of Mr. Treadway's bounty. Upon Ellen's death the trust corpus continues in further trust for the benefit of Robert 0. Abbott Jr., the defendant's father. Mr. Abbott is still alive. At the sole discretion of the trustee income or principal can be distributed to Mr. Abbott or his children. Upon his death the property passes to the defendant and her brother if they have attained the age of thirty-five. The defendant is over thirty-five years of age. From 1988 to the present the only monies distributed to the defendant were two payments of $2,500.00. These funds were used by the defendant to pay premiums on a life insurance policy owned by her and insuring the life of her father. The total of the trust corpus at the time of trial amounted to approximately $3,000,000.00. CT Page 4130

In addition to the Treadway trust the defendant's mother established an inter vivos trust on December 11, 1945. Mrs. Abbott has reserved the right to amend, modify or terminate the trust. The present trustee is Fleet Bank. The trust provides that all of the net income is payable to Mrs. Abbott monthly but not less that quarterly.

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