Greims v. Greims

79 A. 1048, 80 N.J. Eq. 331, 10 Buchanan 331, 1911 N.J. Ch. LEXIS 42
CourtNew Jersey Court of Chancery
DecidedMay 12, 1911
StatusPublished

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Greims v. Greims, 79 A. 1048, 80 N.J. Eq. 331, 10 Buchanan 331, 1911 N.J. Ch. LEXIS 42 (N.J. Ct. App. 1911).

Opinion

Stevens, V. C.

This is a suit for divorce on the ground of adultery. The adultery is charged to have been committed with one Young at York, Pennsylvania, between the 24-th day of January and the 16th day of February, 1908. The evidence establishes the defendant’s guilt and I need not review it. In my opinion, the only debatable question is that of condonation.

The law applicable to the facts proved in this case is thus stated by Bishop (2 Bish. Mar. & D. (6th ed.) § 36) :

“Where the husband comes into possession of the fact and proof that his wife has committed adultery, then if he has marital intercourse with her, the law presumes that he condoned the offence and refuses him divorce.”

In this case it is, I think, established by the weight of the evidence that the husband did have marital intercourse with the defendant after he came into possession of the fact and proof, or as it is otherwise said after he had “reasonable knowledge.” Marsh [332]*332v. Marsh, 13 N. J. Eq. (2 Beas.) 281; Rogers v. Rogers, 67 N. J. Eq. (1 Robb.) 534).

The parties were married in September, 1904. They lived, first, in Providence, Rhode Island, and then in several cities of the south. At the time of the acts complained of they were living at York, Pennsylvania. The petitioner was a railroad accountant, ' or auditor, and while at York, was employed by a New York firm to examine the accounts of the trolley system of that city. There he came in contact with the co-respondent, Young, its superintendent, and Young and his wife and the petitioner and his wife became close friends. About January 24th, 1908, the petitioner was called temporarily to New York and did not return until the sixteenth of the next month. The adultery was committed during his absence. On his return home he found lying on a bureau, in his wife’s room, an amatory letter from Young, whose contents I shall state later. He called her attention to it and she said it was some of Dave Young’s foolishness. She denied guilt and he says he believed her. They became reconciled and lived together for a yeai’ and a half and until a week before tliey separated, when the occurrences took place which I will have to detail at some length.

Mr. Greims left his wife on Sunday, August 1st, 1909. On the Sunday preceding, he says that his brother Merton told him that Mrs. Greims had told him (Merton) that Mrs. Young was down in York maintaining s legal residence to sue her husband for divorce and she was going to name Mrs. Greims as co-respondent. On that same day, Mrs. Greims says that she and her husband had a conversation, in the course of which she told him that he hadn’t remembered her on her birthday—hadn’t given her some cut glass for a present which he had promised; that he replied, “very sarcastically, your birthdays don’t interest me any more”—that this made her angry and she threw a brush at him, upon which he turned to Marjorie, the little daughter, and said, “Never mind, Marjorie, you and papa won’t have to stand this after the first of the month.” Next day Mrs. Greims telephoned to her mother, Mrs. Davis. When Mrs. Davis reached the house petitioner requested her to take a walk with him. Mrs. Davis says that he opened the conversation by saying, “Mother, I am [333]*333going to leave Jennie ;” that he then told her she had been named co-respondent in a divorce case and that he wouldn’t live with a woman that had been named co-respondent; that he had known that Jennie had been unfaithful to him for more than a year and a half, and that he wanted her (Mrs. Davis) to take Jennie and her baby out of the house; that she told him she did not believe it and that he reiterated his statement.

On her return from the walk Mrs. Davis told Mrs. Greims what Mr. Greims had said. That evening, according to Mrs. Greims, she and her husband talked about the matter. She told him “he was wrong in everything;” he replied that the little baby, Jeannette, didn’t look a terrible lot like him; that “he has been wise” that she had been unfaithful to him a year and a half, and that he accused her of all that he had accused her before. Then she adds, “1 was very nervous and excited and he harassed me and talked a while and said everything would be all right and that was all that was said that night.”

On Tuesday the petitioner went to the office of Charles W. Mercier, his wife’s uncle. Mr. Mercier *says that after shaking hands, the petitioner said, “Uncle Charlie, I am going to leave Jennie. Would you see her and have her walk quietly out?” That he (Mercier) asked what the trouble was and petitioner replied, “Jennie has been crooked for a year and a half and I have known it.” To the query, if such is the case you must have been a fool to live with a woman that long, knowing she was unfaithful to you, petitioner answered, “Well, I thought I would give her a chance.” Mercier refusing to ask her to leave his home, petitioner walked off in a huff. After his interview he went to the office of his solicitors, Messrs. Cortlandt and Wayne Parker, and there talked the matter over with Mr. Minard. On his way home he and his brother met Mrs. Young, and, he testifies, she said to him:

“ ‘Do you know that child is not yours?’ I said [to quote his own words], ‘Tes, I know it is not mine—she says that is Dave’s; it is rumored that way all down in York,’ and she says, ‘I just came back from York; I am living with Dave again.’ I says, ‘Why, ain’t you going to sue him for divorce?’ She says, ‘No, I took the matter u¡) with Jerry Black. I had the detectives working on the case and X couldn’t get any evidence and the lawyer down there told me I didn’t have any grounds for divorce;’ ”

[334]*334that he went hack and told Mr. Minard what Mrs. Young had said and Mr. Minard “still advised him to wait.”

On Wednesday defendant took her little girl, Marjorie, to Few York and met petitioner by appointment, at Maey’s store, where they bought some clothing for the children, and where they selected some cut glass that petitioner had promised to give her for a birthday present, Mr. Gi'eims, stating that before buying it they had better wait until they moved to Few York because it might he broken in the moving.

On Thursday evening Raphael, a friend of the family, called. He found Mr. and Mrs. Greims there, and also Merton Greims and Mr. Clader, the latter two gentlemen both, .at that time, living with petitioner. The evening passed without incident.

Hp to and including Thursday night, the petitioner admits that he slept with his wife and that he may have had sexual in-. tercourse with her. He says that on Friday and Saturday nights he slept in the same bed hut did not have intercourse.

On Friday Mr. Minard met Greims and Clader, by appointment, at the Delaware, Lackawanna station and they had a talk. Clader, so the petitioner says, told him that

“he was carrying notes back and forth from Mrs. Greims to Mr. Young and that Mrs. Greims. had made a complete confession to him about the child not being a legitimate child and had told him she would be willing to tell Howard (the petitioner) everything except that she put it to Dave and had went the limit down to York, Pennsylvania,”

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