Gregory Shaffer v. Linda Shaffer

CourtCourt of Appeals of Virginia
DecidedJuly 29, 2003
Docket3329024
StatusUnpublished

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Opinion

COURT OF APPEALS OF VIRGINIA

Present: Judges Elder, Bumgardner and Kelsey Argued at Alexandria, Virginia

GREGORY SHAFFER MEMORANDUM OPINION * BY v. Record No. 3329-02-4 JUDGE D. ARTHUR KELSEY JULY 29, 2003 LINDA SHAFFER

FROM THE CIRCUIT COURT OF STAFFORD COUNTY Ann Hunter Simpson, Judge

Stephen D. Quatannens for appellant.

Lawrence D. Diehl for appellee.

Asserting twenty-nine assignments of error, Gregory Shaffer

challenges the grounds upon which the trial court granted his

wife a divorce, the award of sole legal custody of his children

to his wife, the award of spousal and child support, the

equitable distribution award, and the award to his wife of

attorney's fees incurred in the trial court.

The chancellor addressed each of these issues in a

comprehensive letter opinion. Finding no error in the trial

court's analysis or its holdings, we affirm. Because many of

husband's arguments have little or no legal merit, we grant

wife's request for attorney's fees on appeal and remand this

* Pursuant to Code § 17.1-413, this opinion is not designated for publication. matter to the trial court to review the reasonableness of her

requested amount.

I.

When reviewing a chancellor's decision on appeal, we view

the evidence in the light most favorable to the prevailing

party, granting her the benefit of any reasonable inferences.

Congdon v. Congdon, 40 Va. App. 255, 258, 578 S.E.2d 833, 835

(2003). "That principle requires us to discard the evidence of

the appellant which conflicts, either directly or inferentially,

with the evidence presented by the appellee at trial." Id.

(citations and internal quotations omitted).

Gregory ("husband") and Linda Shaffer ("wife") married on

September 30, 1989. The couple had two daughters, born in 1991

and 1994. Wife quit her job as a sales manager after she and

husband agreed that she would be a stay-home mother and the

"primary caretaker for the children."

In 1993, upon returning from a business trip to Ohio,

husband admitted to wife that he had been "in bed" with a woman

he met in a bar. Husband denied, however, having intercourse

with the woman. Husband also promised never again to be

unfaithful. Wife forgave husband, but made clear to him that

"the marriage would not survive another incident of infidelity."

In 1995, husband accepted a new job that involved extensive

domestic and international travel. "He was hardly ever home,"

- 2 - wife recalled. During this period, wife maintained the

household and raised the children.

After returning from a trip in March 2000, husband

announced that he did not "know if I want to be married anymore,

marriage is boring." To liven the relationship, husband

suggested, the couple should "go out to bars and go dancing and

get drunk." Husband also complained that wife did not do enough

to stimulate him sexually or to "keep things exciting." Hearing

this news, wife felt emotionally "devastated."

Husband left on another trip, this time to Pakistan. After

his return, husband admitted that he had "committed adultery"

with numerous women for a "long time." Included in his

indiscretions were sexual relations with "a nurse," "a patient,"

"another nurse," and, when on trips, at least four women he met

in bars. 1 In later conversations, husband also confessed to at

least "three or four" of the affairs to Nancy Pcsolyar, a

neighbor, and also admitted his infidelity to Rev. Ronald

Melton.

In addition, husband told wife that he had never used a

condom or any other type of protection to guard against the

transmission of sexually-transmitted diseases to wife, with whom

he was also sexually active during the period of his adulteries.

1 In his appeal brief, husband admits that "the parties had a conversation in which Mr. Shaffer informed his wife that he had had sexual intercourse with other women since 1993."

- 3 - "Totally numb" upon hearing this news, wife felt like her

"entire life ha[d] been turned upside down." She particularly

feared for her health, given the risk of contracting a sexually

transmitted disease from her promiscuous husband. Wife stood by

"in a state of shock" as husband then packed his belongings and

moved out of the home.

A few months later, husband asked if wife would forgive him

and consent to him moving back into the marital home. Wife

asked him directly if he would "give up his adulterous

lifestyle." Husband said he would not. Under such

circumstances, wife testified, she would not agree to condone

husband's infidelities and to resume cohabitation with him.

During the period of separation, husband continued to

display aberrant behavior. He broke into wife's car while she

was at a restaurant and, after initially denying that he did so,

admitted tearing pages out of wife's journals left in her car.

He also entered the home while wife was away and placed items of

lingerie on wife's bed —— which wife interpreted as a mocking

and offensive gesture.

Husband also treated his young children poorly. "Many

times," wife testified, he yelled at her in front of the

children, including one episode where he called her "an F'ing B"

in their presence. In addition, despite a court order

forbidding him from doing so, husband exposed his young

- 4 - daughters to his girlfriend —— resulting in a contempt of court

conviction. And on two occasions, husband forfeited his

opportunity for visitation with his daughters so he could

vacation with a paramour.

The trial court awarded wife a divorce based on husband's

cruelty and constructive desertion. The chancellor also awarded

wife sole legal and physical custody of the children, spousal

support at $2,000 a month, and child support at $824.52 a month.

In the equitable distribution award, the chancellor transferred

the marital home to wife and allowed husband to retain

substantial funds within his retirement accounts. Husband filed

forty-nine exceptions to the final decree.

II.

Rule 5A:20(e) requires the appellant's brief to include,

among other things, the "principles of law, the argument, and

the authorities relating to each question presented."

Statements unsupported by "argument, authority, or citations to

the record" do not merit appellate consideration. Thomas v.

Commonwealth, 38 Va. App. 319, 321 n.1, 563 S.E.2d 406, 407 n.1

(2002); Dickerson v. Commonwealth, 36 Va. App. 8, 15, 548 S.E.2d

230, 234 (2001); Bennett v. Commonwealth, 35 Va. App. 442, 452,

546 S.E.2d 209, 213 (2001); Buchanan v. Buchanan, 14 Va. App.

53, 56, 415 S.E.2d 237, 239 (1992).

- 5 - Husband asserts on appeal twenty-nine assignments of error.

On questions 6, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24,

25, 26, 27, and 28, husband's brief provides inadequate citation

either to the record or to supporting principles of law.

Instead, on these points, husband's brief addresses the subject

in a cursory, perfunctory manner. Rule 5A:20(e) precludes our

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