Gray v. Gray

CourtNebraska Court of Appeals
DecidedApril 16, 2024
DocketA-23-571
StatusUnpublished

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IN THE NEBRASKA COURT OF APPEALS

MEMORANDUM OPINION AND JUDGMENT ON APPEAL (Memorandum Web Opinion)

GRAY V. GRAY

NOTICE: THIS OPINION IS NOT DESIGNATED FOR PERMANENT PUBLICATION AND MAY NOT BE CITED EXCEPT AS PROVIDED BY NEB. CT. R. APP. P. § 2-102(E).

JAMES M. GRAY II, APPELLANT, V.

CHRISTA M. GRAY, APPELLEE.

Filed April 16, 2024. No. A-23-571.

Appeal from the District Court for Kimball County: DEREK C. WEIMER, Judge. Affirmed. Jessica M. Laughlin and Robert M. Brenner, of Robert M. Brenner Law Office, for appellant. Rhonda R. Flower, of the Law Office of Rhonda R. Flower, for appellee.

PIRTLE, Chief Judge, and RIEDMANN and WELCH, Judges. WELCH, Judge. I. INTRODUCTION James M. Gray II appeals from the Kimball County District Court’s order granting Christa M. Gray’s complaint for modification of child custody and her request to remove the parties’ child from Nebraska to Wyoming. James argues that the district court erred in finding that Christa satisfied her burden of proving that a material change in circumstances had occurred since the entry of the initial decree, that Christa had a legitimate reason to relocate, and that it was in their child’s best interests to modify physical custody and grant Christa’s request to remove the parties’ minor child to Wyoming. For the reasons stated herein, we affirm.

-1- II. STATEMENT OF FACTS 1. DISSOLUTION OF MARRIAGE James and Christa are the biological parents of Conner Gray, who was born in October 2018. Conner was born during the parties’ marriage when they were both living in Cheyenne, Wyoming. The parties resided together in Cheyenne for 4 years before moving to Kimball, Nebraska. At the time that the parties moved to Nebraska, Conner was 2 months old. The parties separated in December 2020 after which Christa and Conner returned to Cheyenne. At some point thereafter, a complaint for dissolution was filed in the Kimball County District Court. In January 2021, while the complaint was pending, James obtained a protection order in Wyoming against Christa following her arrest for domestic assault. The assault, which occurred in front of Conner, happened during a fight with James while Christa was driving a car. As a result of the protection order, James was awarded custody of Conner subject to Christa’s supervised parenting time. Christa’s parenting time remained supervised until April 2021. A month later, in May 2021, the Kimball County District Court entered a decree of dissolution pursuant to the parties’ settlement agreement. The district court awarded the parties joint legal and joint physical custody of Conner on a week on/week off basis. Notably, when the dissolution decree was entered, Christa resided in Cheyenne and James resided in Kimball. The parties operated under the week on/week off joint physical custody arrangement until July 2021. At that time, due to James’ alcohol use, Christa became concerned for Conner’s safety when in James’ care. Due to those concerns, Christa moved in with James in Kimball until she obtained her own apartment in October 2021. Even after Christa and Conner moved to her apartment, the parties frequently stayed with each other, and Christa had a key to James’ house. In April 2022, due to Christa’s continued concerns about James’ alcohol use while caring for Conner, the parties began operating under what they refer to as a memorandum agreement. Pursuant to this agreement, James agreed to forgo his overnight visitation on the weekends as awarded in the dissolution decree and agreed to a safety plan in the event that he decided to drink alcohol. The parties utilized this agreement until Christa filed a complaint to modify custody, child support, and parenting time in June 2022. 2. COMPLAINT TO MODIFY In her complaint to modify, Christa alleged that since the entry of the dissolution decree, there had been material changes in circumstances affecting Conner’s best interests including: • James’ history of alcohol use/abuse, which had escalated since the entry of the dissolution decree; • James leaving his home to go drinking, leaving Conner alone; • James’ Wyoming arrest for driving under the influence (DUI) while his older child from a previous marriage was in the vehicle; • James’ family members having found him passed out while Conner was in his care; • The parties having informally agreed to vary from the court- ordered parenting plan for Conner’s safety including provisions providing for no overnight visitation if James was not working the next day and that James would contact Christa in the

-2- event that he drank during his parenting time and, under those circumstances, his parenting time would end immediately; • James having, on numerous occasions, opted not to take Conner for his parenting time under the parties’ informal agreement; • James’ work schedule often requiring him to be out of town overnight which made it difficult for him to adhere to either the court-ordered visitation plan or the parties’ informal plan; • Christa having Conner the majority of the time for the last several months due to these circumstances; and • James failing to provide adequate care for Conner during his parenting time which resulted in Conner being left in dirty diapers for extended periods of time and being left unsupervised while James was passed out.

Christa alleged that modification of the decree was in Conner’s best interests and requested that the court award her sole legal and physical custody of Conner subject to James’ parenting time. 3. REQUEST FOR REMOVAL In October 2022, Christa filed a request to remove Conner from Nebraska to Wyoming. She asserted, inter alia, that she had family and an extensive support system in Cheyenne; that all of Conner’s doctors were located in Cheyenne; and that Conner would have better educational opportunities in Cheyenne. James objected to Christa’s application to remove Conner from the State. 4. PROTECTION ORDER AGAINST JAMES In November 2022, Christa filed for a protection order against James that resulted in James being unable to see Conner for approximately 1 month. 5. TRIAL The trial was held in May 2023. Testimony was adduced from witnesses including the parties; Sandra Raney, a mental health substance abuse counselor; and Caitlin Tabor, Conner’s preschool teacher and daycare director. The evidence established that the parties met when they were both residing in Cheyenne, Wyoming. They lived together in Cheyenne for approximately 4 years before moving to Kimball, Nebraska, where they resided until they separated in December 2020. Following the parties’ separation, Christa moved back to Cheyenne, where she resided at the time the dissolution decree was entered in May 2021, based on the parties’ settlement agreement. Christa testified that she remained in Cheyenne until she began having concerns for Conner’s safety while in James’ care. Christa testified that although she was aware that James struggled with alcohol issues, James’ drinking escalated following the entry of the divorce decree. For example, in June 2021, after James drove to his mother’s home while intoxicated and refused to allow Conner to stay with her, James’ mother contacted Christa, who was residing in Cheyenne, out of concern for Conner’s safety. Christa also testified that on a couple occasions, she went to James’ house during his parenting time and observed James either intoxicated or passed out while

-3- serving as Conner’s sole caregiver. Additionally, Christa testified, and James admitted, that James had acknowledged that on at least one occasion, he left Conner home alone so he could go to a bar. Then, on June 29, 2021, James was arrested in Cheyenne for an improper child safety restraint system, for parking on a controlled access highway, and for DUI with a child passenger.

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