Gray v. Gray

239 S.W.3d 639, 2007 Mo. App. LEXIS 1656, 2007 WL 4233377
CourtMissouri Court of Appeals
DecidedDecember 4, 2007
DocketED 89228
StatusPublished
Cited by1 cases

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Gray v. Gray, 239 S.W.3d 639, 2007 Mo. App. LEXIS 1656, 2007 WL 4233377 (Mo. Ct. App. 2007).

Opinion

SHERRI B. SULLIVAN, J.

Introduction

Douglas A. Gray (Father) appeals from the trial court’s modification of the provisions concerning the parties’ custody plan for their minor child (Son), child support for Son, and allocation of Son’s uncovered medical expenses in the judgment dissolving his marriage to Marlene A. Gray (Mother). We affirm in part and reverse and remand in part. 1

Background

The parties were married on December 22, 2000, and separated on May 15, 2001. *641 Son was born on August 1, 2001. A hearing on Father’s Petition for Dissolution of Marriage was conducted on June 24, 2002. Evidence was adduced and the cause was taken under advisement pending the submission of a proposed judgment for the trial court’s signature. However, the court received no proposed judgment, and consequently prepared its own Findings, Recommendations and Judgment of Dissolution of Marriage (Judgment of Dissolution). The parties’ marriage subsequently was dissolved on December 18, 2002.

Pursuant to the terms of the Judgment of Dissolution, the parties were awarded joint legal and physical custody of Son, Father was ordered to pay the sum of $607 monthly as child support, and each party was ordered to pay one-half (1/2) of any uncovered medical or dental expenses incurred on Son’s behalf. The parties’ custody plan provided that Father would have physical custody of Son from Friday at 6:00 p.m. through Monday at 6:00 p.m., and Mother would have physical custody of Son from Monday at 6:00 p.m. through Friday at 6:00 p.m. The custody plan also provided that the parties would divide summer vacation periods equally.

Thereafter, Father filed a Motion for Contempt and an Order to Show Cause on January 9, 2004. On August 5, 2004, Mother filed a Motion and Affidavit to Modify Decree of Dissolution (Motion to Modify). Father then filed a Motion for Family Access Order on October 25, 2004, and a Counter-Motion to Modify Judgment of Dissolution of Marriage (Counter-Motion to Modify) on October 26, 2004.

A hearing was conducted on April 24, May 3 and June 5, 2006. As pertinent, the following evidence was adduced. Mother was born and raised in Peru. Mother and Father began their relationship over the Internet. They became engaged three months later when Father traveled to Peru to meet Mother. Nine months later, Mother came to the United States and married Father. Mother and Father had difficulty communicating because neither spoke the other’s language. Son has two half-siblings, an older brother who lives with Mother, and an older sister who fives with Father.

At the time of the divorce, Mother was living in a shelter with Son and his older brother. The Form 14 worksheet reflected that Mother had no gross income and that Father had gross monthly income of $4207. On the Form 14, Father was given a credit of $312 for other children in his primary physical custody; Mother was given no corresponding credit due to her reported lack of income.

Mother currently works full-time as a Spanish teacher for a private school, making $17,000 yearly.

Son, who was four years old at the time of the hearing, attends the Youth In Need Preschool, at a cost of $345 monthly. Son attends preschool between 6:30 a.m. and 4:00 p.m. Mother wants to send him to St. Joan of Arc, a private Catholic school, when he begins kindergarten. Son was baptized in a Catholic church when he was born and Mother is raising him Catholic. Father takes Son to a Protestant church.

Mother and Father are unable to communicate regarding decisions for Son, including those concerning his education and religious upbringing. They also could not cooperate regarding the exchange of Son and required the services of Heritage House to facilitate the custody exchanges without face-to-face interaction. After Father indicated that he was dissatisfied with Heritage House’s services and that he would not return to their facility for exchanges, Heritage House closed the parties’ case.

*642 Stacie Bunning, M.D. (Bunning), a licensed clinical psychologist employed by the St. Charles Family Court, performed evaluations of Mother and Father at the request of the court-appointed guardian ad litem (GAL) in March 2005. The GAL asked Bunning specifically to evaluate their personality and emotional functioning.

Mother’s test results revealed that she answered questions in a very defensive manner so as to portray herself positively, which Bunning finds very common in cases involving child custody. On the Parent-Child Relationship Inventory, Mother indicated that she saw herself as having plenty of support as a parent, felt she communicated well with her children and was good at setting limits, and enjoyed being a parent. Bunning concluded that Mother had psychosocial stressors, including the ongoing custody battle, financial difficulties, history of domestic violence, and ongoing acculturation issues. Mother’s global assessment functioning score was seventy-five out of a possible one hundred.

Father’s test results showed that he met criteria for narcissistic personality disorder, which involves a longstanding pattern of interactions with others that include a grandiose sense of self-importance, a sense of entitlement, an absence of empathy, and an arrogant attitude. When Bunning evaluated Father, he tended to see himself as a victim and to take no responsibility for his role in any of the relationships which he perceived as having victimized him, including relationships with his father, various employers, and each of his four ex-wives. Father’s MMPI-2 test results showed immaturity, self-centeredness, and narcissism and were consistent with those of individuals who experience dramatic or bizarre somatic concerns, often meeting diagnostic criteria for conversion disorder. On a Personal Problems Checklist, which has over two hundred different problems, Father checked off concerns in almost every realm, which led Bunning to conclude that he was very distressed and was struggling with a number of areas in his life. Data from Bunning’s testing and her clinical interview of Father indicated a long-term pattern of aberrant interpersonal functioning, a grandiose sense of self-importance, a strong sense of entitlement, and a markedly arrogant attitude. In the report Bunning prepared for the court, she stated that Father’s bitterness and hostility toward Mother pervaded Bunning’s entire evaluation of him. Bunning stated that Father’s intense anger toward women was a strong concern both for his ongoing interactions with Mother and for his ability to raise an emotionally healthy child, and she recommended that he seek individual psychotherapy and participate in an anger management program. Bunning also diagnosed Father with depressive disorder, not otherwise specified. Father’s global assessment of functioning was sixty-five, which is within the normal range for someone under a great deal of stress.

Bunning attributed the difference between Father’s and Mother global assessment of functioning scores to Father being rather angry and raw with his anger while Mother was more even-keeled and emotionally stable when Bunning performed the evaluations. Father and Mother both exhibited satisfaction with their roles as parents. However, both parties indicated they were unable to communicate with each other effectively.

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