Grabowski v. Borucinska-Grabowska, No. Fa 93 54413 S (Feb. 10, 1994)

1994 Conn. Super. Ct. 1391
CourtConnecticut Superior Court
DecidedFebruary 10, 1994
DocketNo. FA 93 54413 S
StatusUnpublished

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Bluebook
Grabowski v. Borucinska-Grabowska, No. Fa 93 54413 S (Feb. 10, 1994), 1994 Conn. Super. Ct. 1391 (Colo. Ct. App. 1994).

Opinion

[EDITOR'S NOTE: This case is unpublished as indicated by the issuing court.] MEMORANDUM OF DECISION RE: MOTIONS TO DISMISS The defendant in this case filed three Motions to Dismiss (one dated December 14, 1993 and two dated January 17, 1994). She claims the court lacks subject matter jurisdiction to proceed because a final decree dissolving the parties' marriage was entered in Warsaw, Poland on November 8, 1993.

Based upon, the reasons stated below, all three of defendant's Motions to Dismiss are denied. This court will exercise limited jurisdiction to enter visitation orders, which were not addressed by the Polish Court. This court will also consider support issues, based upon the agreement of the parties to allow this court to set support orders based on Connecticut Child Support Guidelines, so long as the child resides in Connecticut.

Facts and Procedural History

The plaintiff husband commenced this action for dissolution of marriage and other relief in the judicial District of Windham, at Putnam on October 6, 1992. On the stipulation of the parties, the action was transferred to the judicial District of Tolland, on October 25, 1993 (Potter, J.). The original complaint was served, in hand, upon the defendant on September 17, 1992. The defendant wife appeared, pro se on October 6, 1992. The husband, originally represented by counsel, now appears pro se.

Prior to commencement of the Connecticut action for dissolution of marriage, the defendant (wife) in this action had filed a Motion for Dissolution of Marriage (dated January 27, 1992) on February 20, 1992 in the District Court for the Judicial District CT Page 1392 of Warsaw (Poland), docket number III C 232/92. The plaintiff (husband) in this Connecticut action claims he was never properly served in connection with the Polish action. He says his wife gave him a copy of the Polish divorce papers. He admits that he did receive a letter from the Polish Consulate in New York asking him to appear and provide a statement. He says he did not participate in the proceeding, either in New York or in Warsaw. He says he prepared a written statement to be filed in the court in Warsaw. He admits he was represented in court by a lawyer in Warsaw.

There is no evidence that the husband ever filed a Motion to Dismiss or to enjoin the Polish action. Prior to these three Motions to Dismiss, the wife never filed a Motion to Dismiss or to stay the Connecticut proceedings, although in her Answer, she alleged that the Polish proceeding was pending. Both parties have actively participated in the Connecticut case, collectively filing approximately twenty (20) motions. They have agreed to the entry of orders here. They have participated with the Family Relations Offices in both the Windham and Tolland Judicial Districts. The wife filed a Support Petition and Contempt proceedings with the Family Support Magistrate in the Windham Judicial District.

The Polish case went to a final judgment on November 8, 1993. The Polish Court dissolved the marriage and entered various orders at that time. A translation of those orders appears in a transcript in this court dated December 20, 1993. On December 14, 1993 the wife filed the first of three Motions to Dismiss in this case. In that motion, the wife claims the Polish Decree takes precedence, and can only be modified in Poland. However, in her motion, she states that all of the Connecticut pendente lite orders, entered prior to the Polish Decree are valid. She states that the husband could file those orders in the Polish Court, and then move to modify them in Poland.

The wife filed no brief and claimed no legal authority to support her Motion to Dismiss. In court, however, she stated that she was attacking the subject matter jurisdiction in this court.

The husband claims she failed to file a Motion to Dismiss timely, and therefore she is barred from filing now. If her claim was based on personal jurisdiction he would be correct. Connecticut Practice Book 142. However, subject matter jurisdiction may be raised at any time, possibly even post-judgment, as was recently done by our Appellate Court, Sua Sponte, in Colby v. Colby,33 Conn. App. 417 (1994) and Connecticut Practice Book 145. CT Page 1393

On January 17, 1994 the wife filed two additional Motions to Dismiss. The first attacks this court's subject matter jurisdiction claiming that the parties are Polish citizens and domiciliaries, that the husband was represented by counsel in the Polish case (Attorney Maciej Dubois) and the husband never moved to enjoin the Polish action.

She further claims the Polish action is final and should be accorded full, faith any credit under the doctrine of comity, Bruneau v. Bruneau, 3 Conn. App. 453 at 455 (1985). The wife filed no brief in support of her motions, but she did cite authority within the motion, and she attached supporting documentation. The husband did file a reply brief.

The third Motion to Dismiss was also filed on January 17, 1994, claiming this court does not have jurisdiction under The Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction Act (UCCJA) General Statutes46b-90, et seq. She did not file a brief or any authority in support of this motion.

She also filed a Motion to Modify on January 17, 1994, asking that visitation orders previously entered by the Connecticut court be modified while the child resides in Connecticut. In the same motion, she asked this court to modify the Polish decree, to increase the child support entered on November 8, 1994 (sic) claiming a substantial change in circumstances. She has presented no evidence that the living conditions of the parties have changed since the Polish Decree was entered on November 8, 1993. The parties lived here both before and after that date. The wife concedes in that motion that this court has personal jurisdiction of the parties. (Motion to Modify, January 17, 1994, paragraph 1). The Motion to Modify is scheduled for a hearing on February 14, 1994.

Law

This court will address the legal issue raised by the parties in detail. Prior to that, however, the court must make some observations. This case represents a prime example of the abuse of the process that can occur when two pro se litigants become intransigent and lose sight of any practicalities. Both the plaintiff and defendant are highly intelligent graduate students, studying at American universities. Both are fluent in English and quite capable of arguing complex legal issues. CT Page 1394

Unfortunately, they both are also very stubborn, narrow-minded, overly concerned about semantics, and obsessed with matters of principle. The defendant demands to proceed with her Motion to Dismiss, even though the Court resolved all the visitation issues to the parties' mutual satisfaction. The plaintiff seems to want to fight for the sake of fighting. He appeared to have an empty feeling when the Court resolved the last visitation issues. As a result of the attitude of the parties they have required this court and the court in Windham, as well as the Family Relations Offices in both districts, to spend scores of hours trying to resolve relatively simple disputes, to no avail.

At the hearing on January 24, 1994, this court was nearly required to order a complete custody visitation evaluation by Family Services, appoint art attorney for the minor child, and order the plaintiff and defendant to attend parenting education classes (although they are unfortunately too stubborn to get any benefit out of the program), simply because the parties could not resolve the outstanding visitation issues. Upon further inquiry, the court discovered that what was in dispute represented eight days out of a year.

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