Glover v. Glover

64 Misc. 2d 374, 314 N.Y.S.2d 873, 1970 N.Y. Misc. LEXIS 1268
CourtNew York City Family Court
DecidedOctober 8, 1970
StatusPublished
Cited by3 cases

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Glover v. Glover, 64 Misc. 2d 374, 314 N.Y.S.2d 873, 1970 N.Y. Misc. LEXIS 1268 (N.Y. Super. Ct. 1970).

Opinion

Isidore Levine, J.

Petitioner, a most attractive, articulate and youthful looking woman, apparently in her forties, but fiery, volatile, ruthless, self-centered, cunning and uncompromising, sues the respondent herein contending that since November, 1969 he has refused and neglected to provide fair and reasonable support for her. Petitioner also contends that respondent was physically abusive to her and in particular on June 6, 1970 when without provocation he allegedly kicked her in the lower part of her spine, requiring X rays and medical treatment, when all she did, she claims, was to ask him for her weekly allowance.

Respondent, a practicing attorney for 30 years vehemently denies these allegations and claims that petitioner has been guilty of such gross misconduct that she is not entitled to support from him on a means basis.

Petitioner and respondent were married on May 20, 1962, approximately eight years ago. There are no children of the marriage.

While much of the testimony was in sharp contradiction between the parties, some critical issues were admitted by petitioner. The court, however, has had the special advantage of seeing, hearing and observing the manner of the witnesses on the stand, and evaluating their credibility.

From the credible evidence adduced at the trial, the court credits the testimony of respondent, and his witnesses, including respondent’s version of the alleged assault on petitioner on June 6, 1970, and finds that the petitioner did indeed grossly misconduct herself toward her husband.

The court finds that petitioner, who was obsessed with the desire to be in business for herself despite the respondent’s repeated requests to her to give up her business ventures and take care of the home, and despite the fact that he had already yielded to petitioner and given her no less than $2,000 for her business ventures which he opposed, went behind respondent’s back and approached several of his legal clients and friends [376]*376to loan her money or cosign loans for her. (Petitioner admitted approaching at least five whose names are in the record.)

In addition and most reprehensibly the court finds that petitioner told a number of respondent’s clients that he was not a good lawyer and that they should not do business with him. (Petitioner admitted that she may have made deprecating remarks about her husband as a lawyer.)

Two witnesses, both in the real estate business, professionally engaged with respondent, testified to specific instances of professional deprecation of respondent by petitioner.

Petitioner further provoked and exacerbated deteriorating relationships with her husband by failing to keep several appointments with her husband which were vital to his business relationships with clients. On several occasions respondent was compelled to entertain clients alone at his home and cook the dinner for them, since petitioner, who was aware of the social engagements came home several hours late, and on two occasions, corroborated by a witness for respondent who was present as ,a guest, came home at about 12 midnight. The testimony evidences further social and business relationships outside the home when petitioner failed to show up on time and respondent was required to entertain his clients and their wives alone.

Further exacerbations of the marital strain between the parties were the result of petitioner’s preoccupation with animals which resulted in dispossess proceedings against her and respondent because of charges of barking emanating from the apartment at all hours of the day and night because of the urination and defecation by the dogs on the terrace of this apartment (one of the respondent’s witnesses testified that petitioner’s home was a mess and that the dog vomited in the living room when he was present in the apartment on August 14, 1970, corroborating in part testimony by respondent that the apartment was constantly in a mess).

Adding up all of this testimony, together with other testimony in the record, the court concludes that the petitioner’s misconduct has been so gross as to warrant .a denial of her support by respondent on a means basis. One who would destroy her husband professionally and hence financially ought not to be permitted to look to him for support and share in his income on a means basis.

Eelevant on this issue of support are sections 236 and 200 of the Domestic Eelations Law.

Section 236 of the Domestic Eelations Law, insofar as applicable, reads as follows: “ In any action or proceeding brought [377]*377*' * * (2) for a separation * * * the court may direct the husband to provide suitably for the support of the wife as, in the court’s discretion, justice requires, having regard to the length of the time of the marriage, the ability of the wife to be self supporting, the circumstances of the case and of the respective parties. * * * Such direction may be made in the final judgment * * * notwithstanding that the court refuses to grant the relief requested by the wife * * * (2) by reason of the misconduct of the wife; unless such misconduct would itself constitute grounds for separation or divorce; or (3) by reason of a failure of proof of the grounds of the wife’s action or counterclaim.” (Italics the court’s.)

Section 200 of the Domestic Relations Law setting forth the grounds for a separation, insofar as applicable, reads as follows: ‘ ‘ Cruel and inhuman treatment * * * such that the conduct * * * so endangers the physical or mental well being of the plaintiff as renders it unsafe or improper for the plaintiff to cohabit with defendant. ’ ’

It becomes readily apparent from a reading of the above statutes that the court may direct support for the wife on a means basis even where the wife’s petition has been dismissed by reason of her misconduct, unless such misconduct would itself constitute a grounds for a separation or divorce as where the cruel and inhuman treatment endangers the physical or mental well being of the other spouse.

Accordingly, the court must deny support on a means basis where the aggrieved spouse would be entitled to a judgment of separation under section 200 of the Domestic Relations Law, and may grant or deny support on a means basis under section 236 of the Domestic Relations Law in the court’s discretion, as justice requires, under the circumstances of the case and of the respective parties. (See Brownstein v. Brownstein, 25 A D 2d 205.)

While the court finds that the conduct of the petitioner drove the respondent to distraction, the respondent failed to establish by medical or other evidence that such misconduct so endangered his physical or mental well being as would render it unsafe or improper for petitioner to cohabit with respondent, and accordingly the court is not mandatorily required to deny petitioner support on a means basis.

However, the court does find that the petitioner’s misconduct was so grievous and loathsome that in the exercise of discretion it orders no support for petitioner on a means basis.

On the issue of applicability of section 236 of the Domestic Relations Law to section 412 of the Family Court Act under [378]*378which petitioner has proceeded herein, see Matter of Steinberg v. Steinberg (18 N Y 2d 492). See, also, Matter of Loughlin v. Loughlin

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