Gillian Timaeus, V Chris Timaeus

Court of Appeals of Washington·Decided June 9, 2025·No. 87675-9·Unpublished

Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF WASHINGTON

In the Matter of the Domestic Violence No. 87675-9-I Protection Order for

GILLIAN TIMAEUS, DIVISION ONE

Respondent,

UNPUBLISHED OPINION

and

CHRIS TIMAEUS, Appellant.

SMITH, J. — Gillian and Chris Timaeus are married and share a minor child. In January 2024, Gillian petitioned for a domestic violence protection order (DVPO). Following a hearing where both parties were represented by counsel, the superior court commissioner granted the DVPO. Chris moved for revision, which the court denied. The court then granted Gillian’s request for attorney fees.

Chris appeals, asserting that substantial evidence does not support the finding that he engaged in coercive control, that the commissioner erred in interpreting the term “coercive control,” that the court erred in denying his motion for revision, and that the court erred in awarding Gillian fees. Finding no error, we affirm and grant Gillian’s request for fees on appeal.

FACTS

Petition

Gillian and Chris Timaeus are married and share one minor child, A.T.1 In January 2024, Gillian petitioned for a domestic violence protection order (DVPO) against Chris. The most recent incident Gillian alleged in her petition is that in December 2023, Chris pointed a flashlight at her and A.T. while she was nursing in the early morning. Angry that Gillian had continued to nurse A.T. despite his instructions to the contrary, Chris asked her why she was nursing, informed her that nursing at night was the reason A.T. did not sleep through the night, and berated her for interfering with his own sleep. Later that morning, Chris told A.T. that, “Papa doesn’t get to be happy and cheerful because his wife is a selfish c[**]t.” He then refused to watch A.T. until the nanny arrived, despite the fact that he had the day off and Gillian was late for a meeting.

Gillian’s petition also described a number of past incidents of domestic violence and coercive control. In October 2023, following a disagreement, Chris stated he no longer “had the requisite trust” to remain married to Gillian. When Gillian attempted to continue the conversation, Chris stated, “I don’t give a f[**]k if we talk.” He then removed the mattress Gillian had placed for herself in her daughter’s room, again calling her a “cold, unfeeling c[**]t.” Gillian had placed the mattress in A.T.’s room at her therapist’s suggestion, in an attempt to avoid conflict.

1 Because the parties share a last name, we use their first names for the sake of clarity.

Also in October, Gillian described Chris’s anger when she wanted to take A.T. trick or treating. Seemingly unhappy that Gillian had made a choice as to A.T.’s costume without his input, Chris brought up Gillian’s past history of abortions, berating her for being an irresponsible parent. Her earlier decision to have an abortion meant to Chris, that she might “want to kill a[nother] child because commitment means nothing to [her.]” This was not the first time Chris had used Gillian’s reproductive choices against her. And when Gillian took A.T. to nurse that evening, Chris berated her for “pandering to [A.T.].” The following morning, when she could not find A.T.’s age-appropriate car seat, Gillian believed Chris had hidden the car seat to prevent her from leaving with A.T.

Gillian next recounted how Chris planned to kill her cat, told her to leave the home without A.T., and threatened to file for divorce. In September 2023, the family cat scratched A.T. after the family dog spooked it. Unhappy with the scratch, Chris began talking about euthanizing the cat, noting that he could call animal control but that he would rather do it in the backyard with a shovel. He threatened to board up the office window, which was the cat’s usual point of entry into the home, told Gillian to leave the home when she objected, and threatened to file for divorce. When Gillian opened the window again, Chris called her “f[**]king daft” and told her she was “playing hardball. . . it gets a lot worse.” Gillian relayed these events to her therapist as they happened and her therapist encouraged her to call the domestic violence hotline.

Finally, Gillian described how, eight days before she filed her petition, Chris responded to a disagreement by threatening to “check[] out of life.” When

Gillian asked Chris to use his day off to watch A.T. because the nanny was sick, Chris complained this “meant he couldn’t go snowboarding,” and then stated “I hate this life,” and “I’ve thought about checking out.” Gillian understood this to mean that he might hurt himself.

Gillian requested that the order restrain Chris from harming Gillian and from making any contact outside of e-mail. The petition also sought an order requiring Chris to remain at least 1,000 feet away from Gillian’s residence and vehicle. The initial petition did not restrain Chris’s contact with A.T.

Temporary Order

The superior court commissioner entered a temporary DVPO protecting Gillian from Chris pending a hearing on her request for a final order. The temporary order included no harm and no contact restrictions for both Gillian and A.T. It did not provide an e-mail exception to the provision of the order.

In response to Gillian’s petition, Chris submitted a declaration denying most of Gillian’s claims and providing alternative contexts to the actions he conceded. To support his claims, Chris submitted copies of text messages between Gillian and himself, images of A.T., and copies of Gillian’s journal entries. He also introduced a declaration from a friend who spoke highly of his parenting but did not reference or dispute any assertion of domestic violence.

In reply, Gillian disputed Chris’s version of events, providing further details about the incidents she described in her petition and introducing her own contemporaneous journal entries documenting Chris’s behavior. She also introduced declarations from family, friends, and her therapist, who all provided

extensive documentation of Gillian’s isolation as a result of the relationship with Chris. Each declaration noted the differences in her behavior and how removed she became from her normal routines.

Hearing

In February 2024, the parties appeared for a hearing before the superior court commissioner to address a final protection order. Neither Gillian nor Chris testified; both relying on their declarations. Following a recitation of Gillian and Chris’s respective arguments, the commissioner determined that Gillian was a credible witness and that although Chris indicated he did not intend to harm Gillian, he had done so. The commissioner emphasized Chris’s name-calling, the flashlight, the removal of the mattress, and the threats to the cat. The commissioner specifically stated, “All of these are forms of coercive control, and as such, they cause emotional and psychological harm.” The court determined that Gillian had met her burden of proving coercive control and granted the DVPO. The final order did not restrict Chris’s contact with A.T. or affect custody.

Motion for Revision

Following the grant of the order, Chris moved for revision with the superior court. The motion asserted that the commissioner had erred in granting the protection order because Chris’s conduct had not sufficiently interfered with Gillian’s free will and personal liberty. As Gillian’s reply emphasized, however, Chris’s motion failed to comply with several local rules and the statutory time limit. Based on the lack of compliance with local rules, the superior court denied Chris’s motion for revision. The court then awarded Gillian attorney fees.

Chris appeals both the motion for revision and the commissioner’s grant of the DVPO.

ANALYSIS

Motion for Revision

Chris asserts that the trial court erred in denying his motion for revision because he timely and properly served the motion. Because Chris did not properly serve the motion and does not challenge the trial court’s findings that he did not comply with other local rules, we disagree.

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