Gillian Timaeus, V Chris Timaeus

CourtCourt of Appeals of Washington
DecidedJune 9, 2025
Docket87675-9
StatusUnpublished

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Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF WASHINGTON

In the Matter of the Domestic Violence No. 87675-9-I Protection Order for

GILLIAN TIMAEUS, DIVISION ONE

Respondent, UNPUBLISHED OPINION and

CHRIS TIMAEUS,

Appellant.

SMITH, J. — Gillian and Chris Timaeus are married and share a minor

child. In January 2024, Gillian petitioned for a domestic violence protection order

(DVPO). Following a hearing where both parties were represented by counsel,

the superior court commissioner granted the DVPO. Chris moved for revision,

which the court denied. The court then granted Gillian’s request for attorney

fees.

Chris appeals, asserting that substantial evidence does not support the

finding that he engaged in coercive control, that the commissioner erred in

interpreting the term “coercive control,” that the court erred in denying his motion

for revision, and that the court erred in awarding Gillian fees. Finding no error,

we affirm and grant Gillian’s request for fees on appeal. No. 87675-9-I/2

FACTS

Petition

Gillian and Chris Timaeus are married and share one minor child, A.T.1 In

January 2024, Gillian petitioned for a domestic violence protection order (DVPO)

against Chris. The most recent incident Gillian alleged in her petition is that in

December 2023, Chris pointed a flashlight at her and A.T. while she was nursing

in the early morning. Angry that Gillian had continued to nurse A.T. despite his

instructions to the contrary, Chris asked her why she was nursing, informed her

that nursing at night was the reason A.T. did not sleep through the night, and

berated her for interfering with his own sleep. Later that morning, Chris told A.T.

that, “Papa doesn’t get to be happy and cheerful because his wife is a selfish

c[**]t.” He then refused to watch A.T. until the nanny arrived, despite the fact that

he had the day off and Gillian was late for a meeting.

Gillian’s petition also described a number of past incidents of domestic

violence and coercive control. In October 2023, following a disagreement, Chris

stated he no longer “had the requisite trust” to remain married to Gillian. When

Gillian attempted to continue the conversation, Chris stated, “I don’t give a f[**]k if

we talk.” He then removed the mattress Gillian had placed for herself in her

daughter’s room, again calling her a “cold, unfeeling c[**]t.” Gillian had placed

the mattress in A.T.’s room at her therapist’s suggestion, in an attempt to avoid

conflict.

1 Because the parties share a last name, we use their first names for the sake of clarity.

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Also in October, Gillian described Chris’s anger when she wanted to take

A.T. trick or treating. Seemingly unhappy that Gillian had made a choice as to

A.T.’s costume without his input, Chris brought up Gillian’s past history of

abortions, berating her for being an irresponsible parent. Her earlier decision to

have an abortion meant to Chris, that she might “want to kill a[nother] child

because commitment means nothing to [her.]” This was not the first time Chris

had used Gillian’s reproductive choices against her. And when Gillian took A.T.

to nurse that evening, Chris berated her for “pandering to [A.T.].” The following

morning, when she could not find A.T.’s age-appropriate car seat, Gillian

believed Chris had hidden the car seat to prevent her from leaving with A.T.

Gillian next recounted how Chris planned to kill her cat, told her to leave

the home without A.T., and threatened to file for divorce. In September 2023, the

family cat scratched A.T. after the family dog spooked it. Unhappy with the

scratch, Chris began talking about euthanizing the cat, noting that he could call

animal control but that he would rather do it in the backyard with a shovel. He

threatened to board up the office window, which was the cat’s usual point of entry

into the home, told Gillian to leave the home when she objected, and threatened

to file for divorce. When Gillian opened the window again, Chris called her

“f[**]king daft” and told her she was “playing hardball. . . it gets a lot worse.”

Gillian relayed these events to her therapist as they happened and her therapist

encouraged her to call the domestic violence hotline.

Finally, Gillian described how, eight days before she filed her petition,

Chris responded to a disagreement by threatening to “check[] out of life.” When

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Gillian asked Chris to use his day off to watch A.T. because the nanny was sick,

Chris complained this “meant he couldn’t go snowboarding,” and then stated “I

hate this life,” and “I’ve thought about checking out.” Gillian understood this to

mean that he might hurt himself.

Gillian requested that the order restrain Chris from harming Gillian and

from making any contact outside of e-mail. The petition also sought an order

requiring Chris to remain at least 1,000 feet away from Gillian’s residence and

vehicle. The initial petition did not restrain Chris’s contact with A.T.

Temporary Order

The superior court commissioner entered a temporary DVPO protecting

Gillian from Chris pending a hearing on her request for a final order. The

temporary order included no harm and no contact restrictions for both Gillian and

A.T. It did not provide an e-mail exception to the provision of the order.

In response to Gillian’s petition, Chris submitted a declaration denying

most of Gillian’s claims and providing alternative contexts to the actions he

conceded. To support his claims, Chris submitted copies of text messages

between Gillian and himself, images of A.T., and copies of Gillian’s journal

entries. He also introduced a declaration from a friend who spoke highly of his

parenting but did not reference or dispute any assertion of domestic violence.

In reply, Gillian disputed Chris’s version of events, providing further details

about the incidents she described in her petition and introducing her own

contemporaneous journal entries documenting Chris’s behavior. She also

introduced declarations from family, friends, and her therapist, who all provided

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extensive documentation of Gillian’s isolation as a result of the relationship with

Chris. Each declaration noted the differences in her behavior and how removed

she became from her normal routines.

Hearing

In February 2024, the parties appeared for a hearing before the superior

court commissioner to address a final protection order. Neither Gillian nor Chris

testified; both relying on their declarations. Following a recitation of Gillian and

Chris’s respective arguments, the commissioner determined that Gillian was a

credible witness and that although Chris indicated he did not intend to harm

Gillian, he had done so. The commissioner emphasized Chris’s name-calling,

the flashlight, the removal of the mattress, and the threats to the cat. The

commissioner specifically stated, “All of these are forms of coercive control, and

as such, they cause emotional and psychological harm.” The court determined

that Gillian had met her burden of proving coercive control and granted the

DVPO. The final order did not restrict Chris’s contact with A.T. or affect custody.

Motion for Revision

Following the grant of the order, Chris moved for revision with the superior

court.

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