Gates v. Gates

43 A. 436, 59 N.J. Eq. 100, 1899 N.J. Ch. LEXIS 42
CourtNew Jersey Court of Chancery
DecidedMay 13, 1899
StatusPublished
Cited by1 cases

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Gates v. Gates, 43 A. 436, 59 N.J. Eq. 100, 1899 N.J. Ch. LEXIS 42 (N.J. Ct. App. 1899).

Opinion

Stevens, V. C.

This is a suit for divorce on the ground of desertion. The petitioner and defendant were married in 1864. The petitioner is superintendent of the oil refinery of John Ellis & Company,, whose works are situated at Edgewater, on the Hudson river. He has been in the employ of that concern, as superintendent or foreman, for eighteen years. During all that time he has-resided at Edgewater. He lived with his wife until June, 1892. Since then, except for a few weeks, he and defendant have lived apart. The petitioner, who appears from the evidence to have been a man of kindly disposition, was much attached to his wife. The defendant, on the other hand, who was of a quarrelsome temperament, imbued with a groundless belief that her husband was unfaithful, appears to have been lacking in attachment to him. Her letters written after the commencement of this suit (the only ones he produces) stamp her as a woman quite unlovely.

[101]*101For several years prior to 1892, Mrs. Gates was most of the lime without servants, not, it would seem, because Mr. Gates was averse to having any, but because Mrs. Gates had not been .able to keep them, or possibly because, being extremely jealous, ■she preferred to do the ordinary house work herself, and have, a ■woman from the neighborhood do the laundry work. There is no doubt, both from her owfi evidence and from his, that for ;years before the separation she had made his life miserable by her groundless charges. In the early summer of 1892, because •of failing health, he had become unable to attend to his duties. He was suffering from nervous dyspepsia or catarrh of the ■.stomach. He says that, although in this condition, I never had any rest at home; I could not even lie in bed and rest at night without being disturbed; she scolded and abused me about ■everything.” To get a little rest, he left his house in June, 1892, and boarded for about ten days in a neighboring village with one of his employes, the witness White. Then he returned. Before his return, his wife, without consulting him, had made ■up her mind to go west to the house of her brother, in Ohio. .She started on the afternoon of the day he returned.' He says that she said to him that she was'going to live with her brother and wasn’t coming back. She says she did not. She went first ■to her brother’s, then to the house of her son, in Jamestown, New York, and then to her father’s house, in Springfield, Massachusetts. While absent she stated both to Mrs- Southwick and to Mrs. Rifle that she would not go back to live with her husband. .She returned to Edgewater from her father’s house about the beginning of August. In the meanwhile her husband had gone ■to Williamsport, Pennsylvania, where his sister was living. While there he advertised for and obtained a “ housekeeper,” as -she is called, or rather a woman employed to do general house work. He brought her back with him a short time before the return of Mrs. Gates. So far the parties agree, but from this point on there is a wide divergence in their evidence. Mr. Gates -says that upon his coming home he started housekeeping with his son ; that Mrs. Gates came to his house shortly afterward ; said to him that the housekeeper had no business there; refused [102]*102to remain over night, although urged to stay, and went to New York. She says that on her return from her father’s, she lived with Mr. Gates “ maybe four or five or six weeks, something, like that,” and then went to Asbury Park.

.This much is certain, that on August 11th, 1893, Mr. Gates-moved out of the house which he had theretofore’occupied, into an adjoining flat; that he left for his wife’s use most of the furniture, and that she arranged with a Mrs. Polhemus to move-into the house thus vacated and receive her as a boarder. This-Mrs. Polhemus did about the middle of August. In the latter part of that month Mrs. Gates again visited her mother. While in Springfield she received a letter froniJMr. Gates, asking her’ to take a trip with him to Fortress Monroe. Persuaded by her mother, she consented to go, and met him in New York. They were gone three weeks and returned by way of Washington. On her arrival at that city late one afternoon, feeling indisposed, her husband went for her to a physician and brought her back some medicine. ' After he had taken his dinner he, according to his-wife’s statement, went out, returning about ten or eleven o’clock in the evening. She scolded him, as she says, because he did-not come home sooner, and he, in consequence, left the apart-ment, and she did not see him again till the next morning, when-they took the train north. At Philadelphia he left the train. He says it was arranged beforehand .that they should stop over there and visit some friends. She denies this, and says that lie-got off, giving a reason which she did not think proper to repeat qn court. She remained in the train and went on to Edgewater alone. He returned a day or two afterwards. From that time on they never lived together. She boarded at the house of ‘Mrs. Polhemus until the spring of 1894 and he occupied theadjoiuing flat with his sister.

It was earnestly contended that the desertion took place in June and continued with the interruption only of the Fortress Monroe trip. It is therefore important to know when and under what circumstances Mrs. Gates left for Ohio. Mr. Gates’ letter of June 5th, written at Williamsport, shows that Mrs. Gates must have left for the west a few days before that date.. [103]*103Mrs. Gates says that she stayed one week in Cleveland, Ohio, and one week in Jamestown, New York.

Shortly before June 28th, as may be inferred from Mr. Gates’ letter of that date, Mrs. Gates must have reached Springfield. Now, Mrs. Gates says that she stayed at her father’s house on that occasion; to use her own words, “ three or four weeks— maybe more.” It is not likely that she reached Edgewater before August. Mr. Gates’ sister came to Edgewater on August 11th, so that Mrs. Gates could not have lived with her husband more than two or three weeks at most. I am inclined to think, •as Mr. Gates testifies, that she did not live with him at all. I shall not take time to state my reasons for so thinking, for, assuming that she did not, I .still think there was no desertion at this period.

• I have reached this conclusion on the letters and testimony of Mr. Gates. Mr. Gates, it is true, testifies that his wife deserted him when she went west and that he then and always thereafter urged her to stay with him, but the letters that he wrote from Williamsport in June and July, 1893, hardly bear out this statement. From their perusal it is apparent, in the first place, that the parting between husband and wife must have been cpite amicable, for in his letter of June 5th, two or three days after it occurred, after telling his wife how his sister was and how he was doing, he writes :

“I hope you will write me and let me know how you are enjoying yourself. I will have lots of spare time on hand to read all you have a mind to write. I have fulfilled my promise of writing you, and will look for a reply from you.”

It is further apparent, in the second place, that some arrangement must have been made in reference to the wife’s support. In his letter of June 8th, he encloses $10 with the statement:

“Would [send] the full amount for this week, but am a little short just now, and don’t want to draw on the bank without it becomes necessary. You say that if I had come to Williamsport in the first place (that is, I suppose, instead of going to Mr. White’s house), things might have been different.

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