Gabriel v. Gabriel

3 Pa. D. & C. 607, 1923 Pa. Dist. & Cnty. Dec. LEXIS 33
CourtPennsylvania Court of Common Pleas, Philadelphia County
DecidedOctober 8, 1923
DocketNo. 764
StatusPublished
Cited by2 cases

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Bluebook
Gabriel v. Gabriel, 3 Pa. D. & C. 607, 1923 Pa. Dist. & Cnty. Dec. LEXIS 33 (Pa. Super. Ct. 1923).

Opinion

Steen, J.,

The record in this case is unreasonably voluminous, There are 2610 pages of testimony. Considering that Carlyle’s History of the French Revolution is less bulky, one would think that the matrimonial troubles of the Gabriels could have been told in more condensed language, and that the delinquencies even of a Messalina or a Lucretia Borgia could be depicted in less volume than counsel have seen fit to employ in the present case.

The libellant and respondent were married on April 22, 1899. The libellant was then twenty-four years old; his wife, the respondent, was twenty-eight years of age. He is now forty-eight, and! she is fifty-two. They have one child, a daughter, twenty-three years of age.

The libellant’s action for divorce is based on allegations of cruel and barbarous treatment and indignities to the person. The master has found that these charges are substantiated by the testimony, and accordingly has recommended that a decree of divorce be granted, to which recommendation the respondent has filed exceptions.

It is evident upon reading the testimony that the libellant has combed the history of his marital career with a very fine comb indeed. He left the domestic hearth on Dec. 24, 1920, and there seems to have occurred no incident during the preceding twenty-one years of his marital life that has escaped his remembrance. In analyzing the testimony one must be careful to remember the stretch of years over which the incidents therein recorded occurred, because when grouped together they present a graver aspect than when each of the incidents recorded is placed in its historical perspective. One or more years elapsed between the occurrences of the various events which constitute [608]*608the libellant’s grievances, and with that in mind the cumulative effect of their recital is considerably weakened.

Some of the incidents narrated by the libellant are so meticulously trivial as not to warrant serious consideration. For example, he complains that in May, 1899, a month after the marriage, he asked his wife on one occasion for coffee, but she refused to indulge him in his desire for that beverage, and instead gave him a plate of strawberries to eat. On Christmas Day of 1900, she expressed the thought that he had not given to her as nice Christmas presents as he might have done, and that she was sorry she had not married another man who had paid her attentions. Three years later, she objected to his taking out life insurance, saying that she thought it would be better if he spent the money for the expenses of running the household. During the year 1908 they attended a party at the Bingham Hotel in Philadelphia, during the course of which she threw at him across the table a small bun or pieces of bread crumbs, which struck him in the eye — an occurrence which he relates with great pretence of seriousness and with much circumstantial detail. This incident is typical of many others as far as the libellant’s attitude in the case is concerned. There does not appear to have been any quarrel between the libellant and respondent immediately preceding or at the dinner, and from the testimony and one’s reasonable interpretation of what occurred, it is easy to picture a group of merry revelers at a large dinner party, at which pieces of bread are tossed around the table in playful fashion, and no one attributing any seriousness to the incident until it becomes linked up twelve or fifteen years later as part of a chain designed to form the basis of a suit for divorce. So, too, the libellant complains of his wife’s aggressive views on suffrage in the days when women’s suffrage was a matter of public controversial concern, of an occasion when she left the home for a day or two without previously telling him where she was going, and of a number of other comparatively trivial happenings which might be picked out by any husband or wife in reviewing a long marital history, if disposed to be carping and critical.

We pass, therefore, to what might be termed the more serious charges preferred by the libellant, and first among these is the alleged fact that on many occasions she called him opprobrious names, such as “loafer,” “blockhead,” “bum” and some German appellations which probably gain or lose much of their force by translation into the vernacular. As far as this phase of the case is concerned, it is sufficient for the present to point out that apparently these epithets were employed by the respondent, for the most part at least, in the privacy of their own conversations; that there is, therefore, no pretence of any real embarrassment to which the libellant was subjected by such occurrences in public; that the libellant himself admits that he was not always as delicate and kindly in his speech as an ideal husband might well be; and, finally, that one gains the impression from the testimony that these parties are of a plain, jolly stock and not to be judged by the amenities and social usages which are supposed to prevail in the most cultured and refined of social circles.

The libellant further urges that his wife nagged him, and that she was of a more or less quarrelsome temperament, which tended to make his life an unhappy one. A nagging disposition, although not uncommon, is one that any man would naturally seek to avoid in selecting a life companion. But “nagging” is an extremely vague term, and mere loquacity or quarrelsomeness on the part of a wife is not a ground for divorce. To these reflections it may be added that the testimony would seem to indicate that here, too, the husband was not faultless. If his wife quarreled with him, it is equally true that he [609]*609also quarreled with his wife, and the evidence would not warrant the inference that her nagging rose to such a degree as to stamp her a shrew, who placed herself as such beyond the pale of a reasonably civil and properly organized domestic environment.

We now come to those incidents of which the libellant complains in the nature of attempts at physical violence. The libellant says that in 1908 the respondent threw a candlestick at him, striking him on the arm; that in 1910 she struck him with her fists while he lay in bed; that in 1911 she threw some eggs at him; that in 1914 she threw at him a saltcellar, pepper-box, mustard pot and catsup bottle; that in 1915 she threw at him a bottle of gin, and on another occasion tossed her wedding ring at his feet; that in 1917 she “choked” him while he was asleep, and that in 1920 she caught hold of his throat. The alleged events thus recapitulated form what probably is intended to be the “piece de resistance” of the libellant’s case, and thus grouped together they do bear on their face an unpleasant aspect. When it is considered, however, that years elapsed between each of the occurrences complained of, and that none of them, when the testimony is read, appears to be as really serious as their bare recital might imply, or other than, at best, the manifestations of petulant temper rather than deliberate attempts to inflict injury, they lose much of their import. This is particularly true when the version of these occurrences given by the respondent is considered, because she either denies or so explains each of them as to force on one the conviction that what in reality were comparatively unimportant quarrels have been magnified by the libellant, taken from their respective settings, and made to appear as though premeditated or deliberate attempts on the part of the respondent to inflict upon the libellant bodily harm.

One of the most dramatic events in the married life of the parties was the attempted suicide of the respondent, and the libellant makes much of it.

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