Feese v. Feese

613 S.W.2d 882, 1981 Mo. App. LEXIS 2693
CourtMissouri Court of Appeals
DecidedMarch 2, 1981
DocketWD 30830
StatusPublished
Cited by13 cases

This text of 613 S.W.2d 882 (Feese v. Feese) is published on Counsel Stack Legal Research, covering Missouri Court of Appeals primary law. Counsel Stack provides free access to over 12 million legal documents including statutes, case law, regulations, and constitutions.

Bluebook
Feese v. Feese, 613 S.W.2d 882, 1981 Mo. App. LEXIS 2693 (Mo. Ct. App. 1981).

Opinion

DIXON, Judge.

These are cross appeals from bitterly contested postdissolution motions. The issues are custody, visitation, and support reviewed pursuant to Rule 73.01 and Murphy v. Carron, 536 S.W.2d 30 (Mo. banc 1976).

The marriage of Don and Sarah Feese (hereafter husband and wife) was dissolved on December 16, 1976. The court awarded custody of the couple’s two children to the wife, and allowed the husband visitation in accordance with terms of a property settlement agreement of the parties incorporated in the judgment. The husband was further ordered to pay child support of $250 per month per child. The extent and nature of the property is not shown, but the property settlement required payment to the wife of $100,000 in principal, plus annual interest over a five-year period.

In March of 1978, the wife filed a motion entitled “Application for Order to Show Cause in Contempt” alleging that the husband was violating the custody decree and that the husband forcibly took one of the children from the wife. The order to show cause was issued the same week, and the answer of the husband was filed shortly thereafter.

In his answer, the husband denied the allegations of the wife’s petition and also filed a motion to modify the decree of dissolution. This motion alleged that the children preferred to voluntarily stay with the husband and that the husband was better suited to take care of the children than the wife. It sought a change of custody of both children to the husband.

The wife then filed an answer to the husband’s motion to modify the dissolution decree, alleging that she was the parent most competent to care for the child. Other interim pleadings were filed which have not been made a part of the record.

In October, the wife filed an “Amended Motion to Modify Decree of Dissolution and Answer to Respondent’s Motion.” This motion alleged that a change of circumstances had occurred and that, as a result, a termination or severe limitation of visitation should be ordered. The wife further sought leave to move out of the state, requested an increase in child support, and an “order” to the husband to pay back child support. The wife’s motion alleged in great detail harassment, abuse, threats, illicit affairs, and the taking of one of the children for seven months in violation of the custody decree.

*884 In December, 1978, the husband filed his answer denying most of the allegations but admitting that he had not made any child support payments for the seven months he had the older child with him. The husband relied upon the property settlement agreement as excusing the non-payment. The agreement, read in context, excused only support payments due during the lengthy summer visitations provided for in the agreement.

The trial testimony is long on acrimony and short on substance. The testimony offered by both husband and wife indicates a violent controversy over visitation and custody. Both parties claimed a good relationship with both children, and each party freely criticized the other.

The wife was 43 years old and forewent maintenance in the agreement in exchange for certain property from her husband. The husband apparently owned substantial business property and was also engaged in real estate activity. Two sons were born during the marriage, and at the time of the hearing of the motions in March of 1979, Rick was almost 4, and Don, Jr., was 14. The wife worked for the husband during the marriage until replaced by a secretary who is now the husband’s wife.

As a matter of the background of the problems arising with respect to the custody and visitation, and drawing upon the total testimony at the hearing, the following will demonstrate the attitude of the parties.

The wife believed the husband was ashamed about the late birth of the younger son and did not care for that child. She believed he was too interested in his work and that his affair with his secretary detracted from his relationship with both her and the children. She complained of his returning the children late from visitation, and she believed he influenced the community against her, in effect, compelling her to sell her home and leave the community. The wife also felt the husband was influencing the older son to leave her custody.

The husband’s position, understandably, was that the difficulties between the parties with respect to visitation were the fault of the wife. Most of this testimony obviously relates to both the period of the marriage and the first year after the divorce.

The motions and the ensuing difficulties about custody erupted simultaneously with the wife’s decision to sell her home and move from the area. The house was sold in May of 1978, and, as noted, the original motion by the wife was filed in March of that year. The wife’s original motion was filed about the middle of March just after an incident involving the older son.

The older son had not returned from the weekend visitation but had remained with his father. The husband had called the wife and told her the boy did not want to return to his mother. The husband refused to let the wife talk to the son. The son went to school the next day, and the father claims that the boy asked the father to pick him up after school. The wife picked Don, Jr. up from school, but the husband parked his car next to the wife’s and ordered the older son out of the ear. The husband stood in front of the wife’s car, and the son got in the father’s car. The police were called, and the wife stood in front of his car and blocked his exit. The husband defied the officer and took the child. This is not disputed by the husband in any essential detail.

This episode commenced the father’s twelve month de facto custody of the older son. During the seven months prior to the filing of the wife’s amended motion, there was apparently no court action on the pending motions. The wife continued with her plan to remove from the area. The property settlement contained a provision that neither party could remove the children from the state. The wife wished to return to North Carolina but, because of the agreement, sought to relocate in Kansas City. In doing so, she attempted to prevent her former husband from discovering where she was living.

On one of her moving trips to Kansas City, she noticed her husband following her *885 outside Lee’s Summit. He followed her into the Highway Patrol parking lot, where she locked all the car doors to prevent him from taking the younger son, which he threatened to do. She fled to the Highway Patrol offices followed by the husband and was met by some officers to whom she explained the custody decree and petitions currently on file. The officers detained the husband, and the wife left. This episode was confirmed by one of the officers.

She thereafter concealed her address until ordered to reveal it by court order; and after doing so, the husband visited once to bring a Christmas present to the younger son. The wife’s mother had come from North Carolina to help take care of the son while the wife worked.

The husband presented the evidence of a counseling psychologist. This witness had apparently seen the mother, father, and oldest son prior to the dissolution.

Free access — add to your briefcase to read the full text and ask questions with AI

Related

P.L.W. v. T.R.W.
890 S.W.2d 688 (Missouri Court of Appeals, 1994)
Amos v. Evans
843 S.W.2d 946 (Missouri Court of Appeals, 1992)
In Re Marriage of Amos
843 S.W.2d 946 (Missouri Court of Appeals, 1992)
In the Interest of W.J.D.
756 S.W.2d 191 (Missouri Court of Appeals, 1988)
Jones v. Jones
724 S.W.2d 615 (Missouri Court of Appeals, 1986)
Shepherd v. Shepherd
719 S.W.2d 115 (Missouri Court of Appeals, 1986)
Jobe v. Jobe
708 S.W.2d 322 (Missouri Court of Appeals, 1986)
Lmk v. Dek
685 S.W.2d 614 (Missouri Court of Appeals, 1985)
Weinbaum v. Weinbaum
679 S.W.2d 384 (Missouri Court of Appeals, 1984)
In Re Marriage of Plank
670 S.W.2d 185 (Missouri Court of Appeals, 1984)
Stitt v. Stitt
617 S.W.2d 645 (Missouri Court of Appeals, 1981)

Cite This Page — Counsel Stack

Bluebook (online)
613 S.W.2d 882, 1981 Mo. App. LEXIS 2693, Counsel Stack Legal Research, https://law.counselstack.com/opinion/feese-v-feese-moctapp-1981.