F.A. VS. G.D.P. (FV-02-0473-20, BERGEN COUNTY AND STATEWIDE) (RECORD IMPOUNDED)

New Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division·Decided August 11, 2021·No. A-1311-19·Unpublished

Opinion

RECORD IMPOUNDED

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION

DOCKET NO. A-1311-19

F.A., Plaintiff-Respondent,

v. G.D.P.,

Defendant-Appellant.

Submitted April 12, 2021 – Decided August 11, 2021 Before Judges Messano and Hoffman.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Bergen County, Docket No. FV-02-0473-20.

G.D.P., appellant pro se.

F.A., respondent pro se.

PER CURIAM

Defendant G.D.P. 1 appeals from a final restraining order (FRO) against him and in favor of plaintiff F.A., entered on October 16, 2019, under the Prevention of Domestic Violence Act (the Act), N.J.S.A. 2C:25-17 to -35. The trial judge found defendant unjustifiably summoned police to plaintiff's home on eleven occasions in a three-month period, and the FRO was necessary to prevent defendant's further harassment of plaintiff. However, substantial evidence in the record shows defendant actually summoned police to plaintiff's home five times during this period. The trial judge's mistake as to the number of times defendant called police was a significant factual error that may have impacted his decision to issue the FRO. We therefore vacate the FRO, reinstate the temporary restraining order (TRO), and remand the case for further proceedings.

I.

The parties married in June 2007. They have two children together.

Plaintiff filed for divorce in November 2017. According to plaintiff, she filed for divorce to escape defendant's escalating verbal, mental, and physical abuse. On September 4, 2018, while the divorce action remained pending, plaintiff

1 We use initials to protect the identity of victims of alleged domestic violence and to preserve the confidentiality of these proceedings. R. 1:38-3(d) (10).

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obtained a TRO based on her complaint that alleged defendant had been harassing her since their separation. However, on September 13, 2018, plaintiff agreed to dismiss the TRO as part of a consent order entered in the parties' divorce proceeding; in that order, the parties agreed to restraints and limitations on contact between them. Specifically, they agreed to "have only non[- ]harassing communication via Our Family Wizard" (OFW) software unless an emergency involving the children warranted a call, and "that neither shall go to or pass by the home of the other absent further order from the court." 2 Their divorce was finalized in December 2018.

On September 5, 2019, plaintiff again obtained a TRO against defendant based on a new complaint alleging harassment, stalking, and cyber harassment. 3 Relevant to this appeal, the complaint alleged that on September 4, 2019, defendant called the police on plaintiff "to do a welfare check because he wanted the police to remove the kids so he could take them" and that "in the past [three]

2 In addition, an August 1, 2018 consent order setting forth the parties' "50/50 residential custody" arrangement, provided that "[n]either party will prohibit the other from being able to communicate with the children when they are with the other parent" and "[t]he parties shall exert every reasonable effort to maintain free access and unhampered contact between the children and the other parent." 3 At the conclusion of the FRO hearing, the trial judge determined plaintiff failed to establish defendant engaged in stalking or cyber harassment and dismissed those counts of her complaint.

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months, def[endant] has called the police and sent them to pla[intiff]'s house six times as a means to intimidate pla[intiff] and her children."

The trial judge heard testimony and arguments on plaintiff's domestic violence complaint on September 12, and October 16, 2019. At the hearing, plaintiff testified that defendant sent the police to her home five times during plaintiff's parenting time to perform unjustified wellness checks on their children, on June 21, 25, 26, and 27, and September 4, 2019. According to plaintiff, defendant "calls the police when it's during my parenting time, but if the kids don't pick up the phone, in [fifteen] minutes he calls the police. It's the way he operates. It's his modus operandi." She asserted that defendant's purpose in calling the police was "to intimidate me like before and for him to intimidate the children" and that "[h]is whole intent always is to find out where I'm at."

Plaintiff also indicated that when police responded to her home, the children were never "found to be in a situation which was unsafe" and "all of those wellness checks turned out . . . to be nothing[.]" The police reports from these five incidents likewise provide that each time police responded to plaintiff's home, the children were found to be "safe" and "in good health" or elsewhere with plaintiff.

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Defendant testified at the hearing and explained why he called the police on plaintiff four times in June:

I generally speak to the children every day and when I don't speak to the children, I then text them and then on those dates in question I did not speak to the children and they did not respond to my texts. I then proceeded to send an email on [OFW] asking to speak to the kids and when I get no response, that's when I call the police.

I only do that after the emails are sent.

He further testified, "The purpose of calling the police was to find out where the children were. I only call the police after I send an email and I've called the children. When I don't hear from anyone, I do get nervous and I call the police."

Regarding the fifth call to police on September 4, 2019, defendant testified that he called police on plaintiff to facilitate a custody exchange after plaintiff failed to meet him at the specified time and location with their children. Defendant explained the parenting coordinator informed the parties on the morning of September 4 that defendant was entitled to obtain custody that day. Defendant told plaintiff to meet him at 6 p.m. to facilitate the custody exchange, but after waiting from "[a] little before 6:15" p.m. to "about 6:40" p.m. without hearing anything from plaintiff, defendant called the police and requested they meet him at plaintiff's house. The police and defendant did arrive at plaintiff's house, but after the police spoke with plaintiff, no custody exchange occurred.

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At the FRO hearing, defendant explained his reason for calling the police:

"I did not want the police to go alone because I was afraid if there was going to be an exchange, I did not want [the children] to go in a police car. I would rather just get them." The police report of this incident provides defendant "stated that he contacted the police to eliminate any conflict" in picking up his children.

An OFW message exchange between the parties, contained within the record, reveals that on the morning of September 4, 2019, defendant and plaintiff disagreed over when they would exchange custody of their children, due to school beginning that week. Defendant contacted the parenting coordinator who, via email, informed the parties that defendant was entitled to gain custody of the children that day. During the hearing, plaintiff claimed that she saw the OFW message from defendant instructing her to review the parenting coordinator's email but that she did not actually see the parenting coordinator's email until after the police arrived at her home.

Following the hearing, the trial judge issued an FRO in favor of plaintiff against defendant. Rendering an oral decision on the record in support of the FRO, the judge found defendant lacked a legitimate basis for calling the police on plaintiff, and he did so only to harass her. Moreover, the judge found the FRO was necessary because it was "the only way this stuff is going to stop."

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