Eric Sharbino v. Jennifer Graham
Opinion
Cite as 2023 Ark. App. 399 ARKANSAS COURT OF APPEALS DIVISION I
No. CV-22-312
Opinion Delivered September 27, 2023
ERIC SHARBINO APPEAL FROM THE SHARP APPELLANT COUNTY CIRCUIT COURT [NO. 68CV-21-126]
V.
HONORABLE ADAM G. WEEKS,
JENNIFER GRAHAM JUDGE APPELLEE
AFFIRMED
BRANDON J. HARRISON, Chief Judge Eric Sharbino appeals the order of protection entered by the Sharp County Circuit Court. He argues that the circuit court erred in finding that the corporal punishment he administered to his child—whipping him with a belt while on a fishing trip—was neither reasonable nor moderate and that the corporal punishment met the definition of domestic abuse. We affirm the circuit court’s order.
Sharbino and Jennifer Graham share joint custody of their son, MC (born 11 December 2014). On 12 May 2021, Graham petitioned for an order of protection for MC and herself after Sharbino whipped MC with a belt. The petition described the events this way:
The father Eric Sharbino took the son [MC] fishing. [MC] was asked multiple times to put minnows back in the water. He did not. So he was whooped with a belt. The father then waited for [MC] to quit crying then asked why he didn’t listen when [he] stated he didn’t know he was whipped again.
Graham described “severe bruising across both his left and right butt cheek. His right hip, and the backs of both of his legs.”
The circuit court issued an ex parte order of protection on May 14 and set a hearing for June 3. Sharbino answered the petition, asserted that he had been criminally charged in relation to the allegations in the petition, and asked that the circuit court continue the hearing until the criminal case has been resolved. The court reset the hearing for July 8; on that date, the hearing was again continued until November 15.
On October 27, Sharbino filed a complaint for declaratory judgment and asked the circuit court to construe the Domestic Abuse Act to contain an exception for reasonable and moderate corporal punishment by a parent of his or her child. If the statute is not so read, then Sharbino asked for a declaratory judgment that the statute is unconstitutional both on its face and as applied to him. Finally, Sharbino asked that his declaratory-judgment action be consolidated with the order-of-protection case. Also on October 27, Sharbino amended his answer in the order-of-protection case and incorporated his request for declaratory judgment as a counterclaim.
On November 12, the circuit court consolidated the two cases and held a hearing three days later.1 During the hearing, Graham testified about the weekend that the spanking occurred. Graham picked up MC on Sunday morning, and earlier that morning, Sharbino had called her and said that he had spanked MC with a belt the day before and that MC had
1 At the hearing, both parties agreed that Ark. R. Civ. P. 3(c)(2) does not allow counterclaims in actions filed under the Domestic Abuse Act. Graham did not object to the consolidation of the declaratory-judgment action with the order-of-protection case.
marks on him. Graham was not concerned at the time because she understood some discipline was necessary and assumed that Sharbino was referring to red marks. That night as she was getting MC ready for bed, she observed “blue and red marks across both cheeks, and his hip, and down his legs, and on the backs of his legs, and on the sides of his left thigh, and that’s when I thought that was a bit much. That was no longer just red marks. Those were bruises.” She took pictures of the bruises and text-messaged them to Sharbino along with messages stating,
This is excessive. I can understand being mad and a whooping leaving welts. But these are freaking BRUISES! I am not ok with that.
If [I] sent him home to you looking like this you would lose your shit.
I know you have a temper just like me and [discipline] needs to be done. But keep your temper and you are a grown man and he is still a 6yr old boy. Also you realize if someone at school saw this they would call DHS.
Sharbino responded,
Well I’ve got 4 witnesses that saw me pop him with my belt 4 or 5 times and they seen and know the whole situation no judgment their [sic] I hated whooping [MC] more than anything in this world but he absolutely needed it . . . I hope he learned that he does have to listen etc not bully and tell adults he doesn’t have to listen to them cause their [sic] not his daddy when [MC] needs it [I’m] definitely gonna give it.
To which Graham replied,
I don’t care about your witnesses [E]ric it was [excessive]. The whole side of his ass is bruised the backs of his leg. That was not 4 or 5 times that was you losing your temper and beating his ass with a belt. I don’t want to see shit like that again.
Graham was concerned for MC’s safety, so she called the child-abuse hotline and asked if this could be abuse. She was told yes, and an Arkansas Department of Human Services employee visited her, did a home inspection, and interviewed MC. Graham also
had MC seen by a doctor because one of his hips was especially bruised.
On cross-examination, Graham acknowledged that MC had played T-ball the same day that she took him to the doctor and that Sharbino had attended that T-ball game without incident. But she said that Sharbino posed a threat to MC’s health and safety, and she would not change her mind unless Sharbino said he did not intend to spank MC again.
David Faulkner testified that Sharbino and MC, along with some other adults and children, had been fishing at a private pond on his property. He described the shore of the pond as “steep,” “slippery,” and “with some stumps.” Faulkner had seen MC slip and fall on the shore a couple of times, and Faulkner’s wife, Debra, had seen him fall a third time. Faulkner also saw Sharbino scolding MC for not listening to and minding the adults, and according to Faulkner, right before everyone gathered for dinner, Sharbino “swatted [MC] a couple times on his butt with his hand.” Sharbino did not appear to be angry or out of control. Faulkner thought MC could have been bruised by the falls on the shore but not by the spanking.
Debra Faulkner testified that she had seen MC fall “on his backside” and slide down the shore. She said that there were “a couple of rocks” and some tree roots in the area where MC fell. She also observed Sharbino “giving [MC] a couple of swats” before they ate dinner. She did not see Sharbino use a belt to spank MC.
Miranda Hobbs, who had also been present that day, stated that she had seen MC rubbing his back right hip bone and butt after he had apparently fallen. She said that Sharbino had spanked MC after dinner; specifically, he had “swatted [MC] three times with the belt.” Soon after, Sharbino swatted MC two more times with the belt. She later
conceded that the spanking could have happened before dinner. Afterward, MC seemed happy and did not seem hurt.
Sharbino testified that he had spanked MC because he needed discipline and that he (Sharbino) did not injure MC. MC cried during the spanking but stopped afterward, and Sharbino and MC had a heart-to-heart talk. Sharbino also stated that MC bruises easily. Sharbino had seen MC at his T-ball game a few days later and “[t]here was no issue.” Sharbino said he believes in corporal punishment but would not be spanking his son again. He had also taken parenting classes and learned alternate forms of punishment.
After a brief recess, the circuit court announced its ruling:
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