Eimen v. Eimen

2006 OK CIV APP 23, 131 P.3d 148, 2005 Okla. Civ. App. LEXIS 121, 2006 WL 686253
CourtCourt of Civil Appeals of Oklahoma
DecidedNovember 18, 2005
Docket100,966
StatusPublished
Cited by6 cases

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Eimen v. Eimen, 2006 OK CIV APP 23, 131 P.3d 148, 2005 Okla. Civ. App. LEXIS 121, 2006 WL 686253 (Okla. Ct. App. 2005).

Opinion

Opinion by

ROBERT DICK BELL, Judge.

¶ 1 Respondent/Appellant David Eimen (Father) appeals the trial court’s order denying his motion to modify joint custody plan and child support and the trial court’s attorney fee award. We reverse and remand for further proceedings consistent with this opinion.

¶ 2 Father and Petitioner/Appellee Melody Eimen (Mother) married in 1984 and divorced by an agreed decree entered December 31, 2002. Three children were born dur- *150 tag the marriage, D.E., born 1985, 1 M.E. born 1987 and G.E. born 1989. The parties agreed to a joint child custody plan. Child support was based on 50%-50% split of shared physical custody. For a short time following the divorce, the parties alternated possession of the family residence. Shortly thereafter, Mother purchased a home. Father remained in the family home. The parties intended to weekly alternate physical custody of the children. Father testified that for several months following the divorce, Mother did not exercise her right to shared custody. During that time, the boys lived with Father continuously. Eventually, the boys began visiting with their Mother, but considered the family home, now Father’s home, to be their permanent physical home. Father paid child support of $700.00 per month, he paid 100% of the boys’ private school tuition, and the parties split the costs of extracurricular activities. Mother testified she waived her claim for additional support in exchange for Father’s agreement to pay the children’s private school tuition.

¶ 3 On March 17, 2003, Father filed a motion to modify the physical custody provisions of the joint custody plan. He also sought to modify his child support obligation. In response, Mother sought to enforce the agreed joint custody plan. Neither party sought to terminate the joint custody plan. In fact, Father’s counsel reiterated on the record “We are not asking this Court to change the joint custody arrangement. We’re asking this Court to change the split time visitation arrangement within the confines of the joint custody arrangement.”

¶ 4 The court appointed a parenting coordinator who opined by written report that the boys preferred the convenience of living at Father’s home. The parenting coordinator found no indication that Father was unduly influencing the boys against visitation with Mother. A separate counselor opined the boys loved their Mother but resisted living with her. The counselor testified Father was passively interfering with visitation by not encouraging same.

¶ 5 During an in camera interview with the trial judge, the teenage children expressed their preference to live in the family home, now Father’s home. The children did not wish to shift from home to home on a weekly basis because it was inconvenient and disruptive. They explained the family home was more comfortable because they grew up in this home, it was familiar, and their personal effects were located in the home. They also had more privacy in the family home because two of the children had to share a room at Mother’s home. The children also preferred that the family home was located a short distance from Father’s work. This enabled Father to come home for lunch, attend sporting practice and events and offer transportation more readily than Mother, whose office was located downtown.

¶ 6 The issue of Father’s child support obligation was also addressed at trial. Father testified his child support obligation was a strain financially because his income was insufficient to cover all these expenses. Father stated that he had to use his savings to pay the private school, daily support of the boys, and child support.

¶ 7 At the conclusion of the merits trial, the trial court found Father failed to sustain his burden of showing a substantial, permanent, continuing change in circumstances since entry of decree of divorce or that the children would be better off with the requested modifications. The court also found the children failed to state good or well-supported reasons for a change because the children had always opposed the joint custody plan. Thus, there had been no change in the children’s attitudes. The trial court granted Mother’s demurrer as to custody of M.E. and G.E., but overruled her demurrer as to D.E. because he was 18 years old. The parties agreed to modify Father’s child support obligation to extract the amount allocated to D.E.

¶ 8 The trial court’s journal entry was entered June 30, 2004. Thereafter, Mother sought and was awarded attorney fees and *151 costs. Father now appeals from the trial court’s orders.

¶ 9 The trial court’s decision regarding custody will not be disturbed on appeal unless it is clearly against the weight of the evidence or an abuse of discretion. Daniel v. Daniel, 2001 OK 117, ¶21, 42 P.3d 863, 871. The party appealing from the custody award has the burden to show the trial court’s decision is erroneous and contrary to the children’s best interests. Id.

¶ 10 Father first contends the trial court erred in failing to terminate the joint custody plan pursuant to Daniel v. Daniel, 2001 OK 117, 42 P.3d 863. In Daniel, the court held when a party seeks to terminate a joint custody plan because it “is not working” and place custody with one parent only, “[t]he trial court must proceed as if it is making an initial custody determination and award custody in accordance with the best interest of the child, as if no such joint custody decree had been made.” Id. at ¶ 21, 42 P.3d at 871. Father claims the joint custody plan in the instant case failed due to lack of communication between the parties.

¶ 11 Mother counters Father may not assert, for the first time on appeal, that the joint custody plan should be terminated. She points out that Father did not seek to terminate the joint custody plan during the trial court proceedings. Instead, he only sought to modify the physical custody arrangements set forth in that plan. Mother’s contention has merit. Because Father failed to request the termination of the joint custody plan during the trial court proceeding, he is prohibited from doing so for the first time on appeal. See Mothershed v. Mothershed, 1985 OK 23, ¶ 28, 701 P.2d 405, 411-12. This Court will not make first-instance determinations of law or fact; that is the role of the trial court. Dyke v. Saint Francis Hosp., Inc., 1993 OK 114, ¶ 11, 861 P.2d 295, 300.

¶ 12 Notwithstanding, because Father appealed the trial court’s custody order, we will address whether the trial court failed to apply the correct law when it sustained Mother’s demurrer. Here, the trial court applied the “change of circumstances” test from Coget v. Coget, 1998 OK CIV APP 164, 966 P.2d 816, to deny Father’s motion. Under Coget, the party who seeks to transfer sole custody from one parent to another parent has the burden to show a substantial change in conditions since the entry of the last custody order. Id. at ¶2, 966 P.2d at 817. 2

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