Eatmon, T. v. Eatmon, L.

Superior Court of Pennsylvania·Decided March 3, 2026·No. 612 WDA 2025·Unpublished·Bowes

Opinion

NON-PRECEDENTIAL DECISION - SEE SUPERIOR COURT O.P. 65.37

TAMRA A. EATMON : IN THE SUPERIOR COURT OF : PENNSYLVANIA

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v. :

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LYNN EATMON :

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Appellant : No. 612 WDA 2025

Appeal from the Order Entered April 29, 2025 In the Court of Common Pleas of Allegheny County Family Court at No(s): FD-17-008955

BEFORE: BOWES, J., PANELLA, P.J.E., and STEVENS, P.J.E.* MEMORANDUM BY BOWES, J.: FILED: March 3, 2026 Lynn Eatmon (“Father”) appeals pro se from the April 29, 2025 order delineating the respective rights of Tamra A. Eatmon (“Mother”) and Father regarding the custody of their child, M.E.1 We affirm.

We glean the following history from the certified record. The parties married in July 2006. Father worked in IT support at Carnegie Mellon University, while Mother was licensed as a registered nurse. M.E. was born in May 2012. The three lived together until late 2017, when Mother filed a complaint for custody and relocated M.E. to a newly-purchased house,

* Former Justice specially assigned to the Superior Court.

1 The order is dated April 23, 2025, but was not entered through a notation on the docket of service upon the parties until April 29, 2025.

deeming their marital home unsafe in its existing condition and having lost patience with Father’s failure to complete necessary renovations. Before long, Father rejoined the family in the new residence. Mother filed another custody complaint in September 2021, but that was dismissed in January 2022 when neither party appeared for mediation.

Mother and M.E. left the new marital home in December 2022, this time to take up residence in a homeless shelter.2 This resulted in M.E.’s removal from her elementary school, where she had participated in a gifted program, in favor of cyber schooling. Eventually, M.E. enrolled in a charter school of Father’s choosing. However, that school did not have a gifted program. See N.T. Trial, 4/22/25, at 72.

Mother filed a new custody complaint in April 2023 seeking sole physical custody of M.E., and Father counterclaimed for sole physical and sole legal custody. The parties attended a conciliation before a hearing officer in July 2023, with Mother having counsel and Father proceeding pro se. The result was an interim order providing for shared legal custody, and Mother exercising primary physical custody with Father having M.E. for eleven hours each

2 The shelter in question provided apartments for homeless families and was

not geared toward assisting victims of abuse. While Mother has filed two Protection from Abuse (“PFA”) petitions against Father, neither resulted in a finding that Father had perpetrated abuse on Mother or M.E., as Mother withdrew the first and the second, which we reference infra, was denied by the trial court after a hearing.

Saturday. Mother began residing at her father’s home with M.E. at that time and filed for divorce the following month.

The litigation continued with the trial court ordering a full custody evaluation and scheduling a custody trial to commence on July 26, 2024. On that date, the parties instead agreed to a consent order by which Father’s periods of physical custody of M.E. gradually increased to an arrangement of shared custody on a 5-2-2-5 basis. The court had cause to revisit that custody arrangement on multiple occasions in the months that followed, whether through planned review hearings or in deciding myriad motions presented by the parties, most of them pursued by Father, who was again acting pro se after a brief period of being represented by counsel. This custody schedule was disrupted by the entry of a temporary PFA order that was ultimately denied on its merits by the trial court. As Mother had sought a modification of custody in connection with her PFA petition, the court ultimately held a full custody trial on April 21 and 22, 2025.

At the outset of the trial, the court conducted an on-the-record, in camera interview of M.E., who was then in seventh grade and on the verge of turning thirteen years old. M.E. indicated that she did not like the current custody schedule, and would prefer to stay with Mother, seeing Father only when M.E. chose. When asked to instead offer an interval that the court could specify in the custody order, M.E. suggested once per year. She indicated that Mother demonstrated more concern for M.E.’s mental health, showing

more respect for boundaries and allowing her more freedom to process her feelings.

Father then put on his evidence, which for the most part attacked Mother’s parenting performance rather than displaying his parenting acumen. In that vein, Father’s case largely consisted of a haphazard proffer of documents, often incomplete or undated, reflecting specific instances of Mother’s ostensible parenting deficiencies.3 The major concern Father highlighted was the number of times M.E. was absent or tardy for school. However, his exhibit purporting to establish her attendance record was unintelligible because the school’s website display was color-coded but his printout was in black and white. See N.T. Trial, 4/21/25, at 40-42. Summing up, Father asserted that his documents suggested that Mother was not providing M.E. the stable environment and schooling that she needed. Therefore, he should be given primary custody and would ensure that Mother had “generous access” to M.E. Id. at 113-14.

On cross-examination, Father was argumentative, refusing to concede simple facts, such as that he had not gone to medical school as had the doctor who recommended that M.E. participate in a partial hospitalization program (“PHP”) to treat her anxiety and moderately severe depression. Id. at 136-

3 For example, as proof of Mother’s inattentiveness to M.E.’s nutritional needs,

Father offered an undated message from Mother asking him to take lunch to M.E. on one occasion. Another exhibit demonstrated that M.E. missed a chiropractor appointment at some point in 2024.

38. In rejecting the representation that all his evidence about issues with communication and custody exchanges was stale since it occurred before the July 2024 consent order, Father noted that one of his exhibits concerned a day in August 2024 when Mother had incoming calls disabled when he tried to contact her. Id. at 179.

Father further demonstrated a lack of knowledge of the law or appreciation of the impact of his proposed custodial arrangement. For example, he suggested that his request to grant Mother “limited custody at the discretion of [Father]” to make decisions about M.E.’s education and medical care was somehow different than granting him sole legal custody. Id. at 185-86. Similarly, while Father proposed that the custody order indicate that law enforcement shall assist in enforcing physical custody transfers, he admitted that he had “no idea” how that would work and disclaimed awareness that it meant police would be empowered to remove M.E. from Mother’s custody against M.E.’s will. Id. at 175. Father also claimed ignorance of such things as M.E.’s feelings about the ideal custody arrangement, her sleep habits, and whose help she prefers regarding school work.

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