Downer v. Downer No. Fa 96 &8212 33 88 49 (Mar. 6, 1998)

1998 Conn. Super. Ct. 2925
CourtConnecticut Superior Court
DecidedMarch 6, 1998
DocketNo. FA 96 — 33 88 49
StatusUnpublished

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Bluebook
Downer v. Downer No. Fa 96 &8212 33 88 49 (Mar. 6, 1998), 1998 Conn. Super. Ct. 2925 (Colo. Ct. App. 1998).

Opinion

[EDITOR'S NOTE: This case is unpublished as indicated by the issuing court.]MEMORANDUM OF DECISION The parties were married in St. Louis, Missouri on October 25, 1969, and have been residents of the State of Connecticut for more than twelve months next preceding the date of the filing of this complaint. There are two adult daughters issue of this 28 year marriage, Elizabeth, age 23 and Nancy, age 18.

The plaintiff wife, age 53, is a high school graduate with one year of college courses. This is her first marriage and she enjoys apparent good health with no stated medical problems. She related that after the marriage the couple also lived in Houston, Texas and then moved to Connecticut in 1973. The husband was employed by the Olin Corporation as a product manager and the wife had several various jobs both before and after the birth of their oldest daughter Elizabeth in November of 1973. Several of the wife's jobs were for and related to the Town of Trumbull where she worked in the town counsel's office and as a clerk to several town committees. The wife also participated in town affairs as P.T.A. president, was on the board of the Rehabilitation Center and was a member of the Junior Women's Club. She also worked for the Trumbull Fire District tax collector and handled park stickers at the Trumbull Town Hall. In 1986 the husband lost his job at Olin and the wife then sought more regular employment at a dental office and with Office Temporaries. She is currently employed full time as a secretary with the Trumbull school system.

Both daughters were involved in swimming activities and the wife attended all swim meets and most practices with them. When the youngest daughter, Nancy, was diagnosed with Hodgkins Disease the wife testified it was she who took her to the oncologist at Yale New Haven Hospital for approximately sixty visits. The husband lost his job at Olin in 1986 and later went into an independent business which was not successful. The wife felt that CT Page 2926 the job loss at Olin was because "he was not a team player, had bad reactions and had difficulty getting along with others." At or about this time the husband was also diagnosed as a diabetic and the wife further related that he was not communicative, would not test his blood regularly and that she had to call EMS on occasion and take him to the hospital emergency room. She stated that he had about six bad reactions a year.

In 1987 the wife moved out the master bedroom, slept in a separate bedroom and suggested they attend marital counseling. They in fact did attend counseling for five or six months but the husband was still uncommunicative and they stopped counseling. The wife maintained her separate bedroom until she left the marital home in September of 1996 after her youngest daughter graduated from Trumbull High School.

The wife related that she went to a doctor for "severe anxiety, saw a therapist and also met with her parish priest in an effort to save the marriage. The wife stated that prior to this time she had been a social drinker but her husband's actions and her daughter's illness caused her to now drink more heavily. She further relates that prior to 1991, it was she who paid all of the family and household bills but at this time the husband announced he would be paying the bills thereafter. She had no idea of their finances from this point on. However, she relates that he failed and neglected to pay some very important bills and cited the filing of a tax lien against their home by Internal Revenue Service for the husband's failure to pay $9,201.56 due on his individual federal income tax return, a State of Connecticut Department of Revenue Services lien against the parties for failure to pay $1,653.56 for the tax return year of 1992, a notice of cancellation of their automobile and home owners insurance policies because of his failure to pay premiums and a notice of foreclosure on their home from the bank for his failure to make bank mortgage payments when due. She claims to have given the husband $5,000.00 at this time as he had no savings left.

The wife felt that she had done everything possible to avoid a dissolution of the marriage and this trial even to the point of making no claim against the husband for alimony. However, she alleges that the husband insisted on a trial so that his story could be told. The wife testified that she felt a 50-50 split on the couples assets was equitable but that the husband opposed any equitable settlement. She stated that she was forced to open her CT Page 2927 own bank account in 1992 after her husband admitted to her that he had gone through all of the money.

The plaintiff's financial affidavit reflects a gross weekly income of $604 with a total net weekly income of $455. She lists $623 in weekly expenses and shows $3,160 in liabilities. She lists as assets a one-half equity in the marital residence located at 19 Great Brook Road, Trumbull, Connecticut, valued at $115,000, a one half interest in a 1991 Ford Taurus automobile valued at $7,780, a one-half interest in a 1986 Buick Century automobile she values at $960 and a one-half interest in a 1985 Honda Prelude which she values at $2,770. She also lists a bank savings account of $150 and a second savings account of $2,700; a Dreyfus IRA valued at $24,000, a Travelers annuity of $3,741 and a Town of Trumbull pension presently valued at $22,000 for a total cash value of assets in the amount of $173,346.

On cross examination by her husband the wife readily admitted to an excessive use of alcohol for a limited period of time. She attributed her heavy drinking to "a troubled marriage and the illness of her youngest daughter." She admitted to calling her husband some terrible names and probably spit on him on occasion, that she had a bad temper, broke a lamp, threw a coffee mug, and slammed and broke a kitchen cabinet door. She also admitted to having had an extra marital affair during the marriage but "long after the marriage had broken down irretrievably." The wife also admitted to "receiving approximately $14,000 from her mother about ten years ago." She denied her husband's claim that she attempted to stab him with a large kitchen knife and claimed it was the husband who pulled a knife on their youngest daughter at one time.

John Preston Merritt, a 1979 University of Connecticut graduate with a B.S. in Accounting and a CPA since 1980 with eight years of experience at Leventhal and Horwath, testified for the plaintiff-wife. He stated that he had valued approximately 120 to 160 pensions and at the wife's request obtained information from Olin company that enabled him to value the husband's pension as of October 31, 1997 at $118,024. Mr. Merritt also valued the wife's pension plan with the Town of Trumbull at $22,753 as of January 23, 1998.

Mr. James Hliva of Trumbull was subpoenaed by the pro-se husband, defendant. Mr. Hliva is an employee of the Town of Trumbull and also "does simple straight 1040 tax returns for a CT Page 2928 fee." He has known Mrs. Downer for several years and stated that sometime between Christmas and New Years of 1997 he called the wife's brother, Harry B. White, III, in St. Louis, who told him that Mrs. Downer's mother had been ill and that she had transferred every thing to him shortly before her demise. He testified further that Mrs. Downer had nothing in St. Louis and that he had helped her move her belongings from the marital residence to Shelton. He stated that he had been to her Trumbull home several times over the years mostly to perform various repairs. He admitted to being there on more occasions during the year or so before Mrs. Downer had moved out.

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