Donita Dale Dowden v. Ronald J. Feibus

CourtCourt of Appeals of Tennessee
DecidedJanuary 18, 2006
DocketE2004-02751-COA-R3-CV
StatusPublished

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Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF TENNESSEE AT KNOXVILLE September 15, 2005 Session

DONITA DALE DOWDEN v. RONALD J. FEIBUS

Appeal from the Circuit Court for Hamilton County No. 02-D-1607 Jacqueline E. Schulten, Judge

No. E2004-02751-COA-R3-CV - FILED JANUARY 18, 2006

After fourteen years of marriage, Donita Dale Dowden (“Wife”) sued Ronald J. Feibus (“Husband”) for a divorce. After trial, the Trial Court entered its Final Decree, inter alia, awarding Wife a divorce, dividing the parties’ marital property, and ordering Husband to pay Wife alimony in futuro of $1,000 per month. Husband appeals claiming that the Trial Court erred in awarding Wife alimony in futuro instead of rehabilitative alimony, in awarding Wife 50% of Husband’s federal pension when a portion of that pension was earned prior to the marriage, and in dividing an award that Husband received from a personal injury lawsuit. We affirm.

Tenn. R. App. P. 3 Appeal as of Right; Judgment of the Circuit Court Affirmed; Case Remanded

D. MICHAEL SWINEY , J., delivered the opinion of the court, in which HERSCHEL P. FRANKS, P.J., and SHARON G. LEE, J., joined.

Ronald J. Berke, Chattanooga, Tennessee for the Appellant, Ronald J. Feibus.

Bruce C. Bailey, Chattanooga, Tennessee for the Appellee, Donita Dale Dowden. OPINION

Background

Husband and Wife were married on October 29, 1987. In August of 2002, Wife sued Husband for divorce claiming, among other things, that she was entitled to a divorce on the grounds of either inappropriate marital conduct or irreconcilable differences. The case was tried in late March and early April of 2004.

At the time of trial, Husband was 56 years old and Wife was 43 years old. Husband is an attorney who currently holds a position as an United States Administrative Law Judge. Wife is a legal secretary. After they were married, the parties lived in Georgia from 1987 until 1991. When they left Georgia, the parties moved to Miami, Florida so Husband could advance his career and go into partnership with another attorney. The parties lived in Miami for approximately a year and a half and then moved to Orlando, Florida where they lived from 1992 until 2001. In 2001, the parties moved to Chattanooga, Tennessee so Husband could become an administrative law judge.

Wife testified that she was working for a temp service and Husband was an attorney when they met. Wife holds a Bachelor of Science degree in business from the University of Mississippi and worked as a secretary and as an office manager during the marriage. Wife testified that in Georgia, she worked as a secretary and eventually became an office manager and was earning $40,000. Wife testified she worked as a secretary and made $35,000 when they lived in Miami. Wife testified that prior to moving to Chattanooga, she worked as the secretary to the president of a real estate firm and testified: “I was making in the low fifties as my base salary and with overtime one year, the year before we left I think I made fifty-seven or fifty-eight.” After the parties moved to Chattanooga, Wife found a job at the Humane Society and worked there from April of 2002 until August of 2002, when she left Husband. Wife testified that she made $10 an hour working 20 to 32 hours a week at the Humane Society. After she filed for divorce, Wife obtained a job at American Bicycle Group as the secretary to the president and made $45,000 a year. However, Wife claimed that she quit her job at American Bicycle Group prior to trial due to a hostile work environment. At the time of trial, Wife was working as a legal secretary for a law firm. She testified that she earns $33,000 per year at her current job with an opportunity for overtime. Wife introduced an Income and Expense Statement that showed that her monthly net income totals $2,230.61 and her monthly expenses total $3,915.54, resulting in a shortfall of $1,684.93 per month.

Wife also testified that during the marriage, she would give Husband a set amount of money each month toward the household expenses. Wife admitted that during Husband’s career as an attorney, the amount of income the parties reported to the IRS was approximately the same for Husband as it was for Wife. Wife testified that when the parties moved from Orlando to Chattanooga and she obtained a job at the Humane Society,

-2- [Husband] wanted me to get a job that made more money so I could start contributing money to the household, but our agreement when we came here was that - - at first it was I didn’t have to work at all. Then it was I would work part-time and possibly go to school because I had wanted to go to law school for years and he had always said no, that we didn’t have the time or didn’t have the money, that I needed to work.

And since our circumstances were changing this was going to be an opportunity where I could probably do that. But when we came [to Chattanooga] he said no, that I couldn’t [go to law school].

She further stated: “I had discussed going to law school from time to time with [Husband] and he said that when we became more financially stable I could go to law school and work part-time.” When Wife was questioned about steps she has taken toward achieving her stated goal of going to law school, Wife testified:

I have been a nervous wreck since I left my husband and I’ve just been trying to get a job and get my life settled. There’s no way that I could handle going to law school right now. Maybe after I get this divorce I’ll finally be able to go.

Wife testified that she and Husband were separated in 1997 for a couple of months. Wife admitted that during this separation, she met another man and had a relationship with him. Wife testified that she left Husband again on August 5, 2002, and admitted that almost a year later, she began a relationship with another man. Wife admitted that she had sexual relations with this man.

Regarding her reasons for leaving Husband, Wife testified:

[Husband] demanded that I vacuum the house every day, that I clean the baseboards once a week, that I clean the air vents once a week, that I clean the blinds once a week, that I change the linens on our bed twice a week, that I cook every day, that I scrub the bathrooms once a week and if I didn’t do it to his standards he would ridicule me, tell me that I was a worthless piece of - - he would tell me that I was stupid, that I was no good.

And he would do what I call the white glove test and he would walk along the furniture and rub his finger across it and if he found dust he would come after me and back me against a wall screaming and yelling at me like a drill sergeant with his arms up so I couldn’t escape and telling me how stupid and worthless I was.

Wife testified that behavior such as she described would happen “almost all the time … almost on a daily basis.”

-3- Wife further testified that in 1998, Wife’s 13 year old cousin Heather came to live with the parties. Heather lived with the parties until she was 17 years old and during that time, Wife and Husband acted as Heather’s parents. At trial, Wife alleged that Husband’s behavior toward Heather was inappropriate. Wife testified that Husband allowed Heather to see him when he was naked, but that Wife was unaware that this was happening until discovery was conducted during this lawsuit. Wife testified that she also learned that Husband had shown Heather a photo of himself naked. Wife also testified that when Heather was 16, Husband took her to a gynecologist to obtain birth control pills, but that Wife was unaware of this until later. Wife claims that in July of 2002, she asked Husband why he was going into 17 year old Heather’s bedroom in the middle of the night, and he told her he was going in to comfort Heather.

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