Doe v. Finch

914 P.2d 756, 81 Wash. App. 342
CourtCourt of Appeals of Washington
DecidedApril 19, 1996
Docket17808-7-II
StatusPublished
Cited by5 cases

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Doe v. Finch, 914 P.2d 756, 81 Wash. App. 342 (Wash. Ct. App. 1996).

Opinion

*343 Morgan, J.

John Doe appeals a summary judgment that dismissed his complaint against Dr. John G. Finch, a psychotherapist. Taking the facts in the light most favorable to Doe, 1 2 we reverse and remand.

John and Jane Doe were married sometime before 1974. They separated in 1977 and divorced in 1981.

In February 1974, Doe began therapy with Dr. Finch, who was already treating Doe’s wife. He continued in therapy until February 4, 1980, except for the period from April 1975 to June 1976.

Doe’s therapy centered on problems in his marriage. According to him,

When I returned to therapy in June of 1976, my spouse and I were continuing to have marital difficulties. The problem in our marriage was the most important issue facing me at the time, and my therapy with Dr, Finch was largely devoted to this issue. I wanted to change my behavior so that the marriage could be saved, and I wanted Dr. Finch’s help. I told Dr. Finch that I wanted to change, and that I loved my wife.[ 2 ]

In 1976, Dr. Finch and Doe’s wife began a sexual relationship. That relationship continued until at least 1981. Thus, for a period of about four years, Dr. Finch was providing marital counseling to Doe while at the same time engaging in sexual relations with Doe’s wife.

Although Doe was not informed of this sexual relationship by either his wife or Dr. Finch, he observed that his wife and Dr. Finch seemed exceptionally close. As a result, he states, he inquired of Dr. Finch as follows:

There were times when I was jealous of Dr. Finch. It *344 sometimes seemed that my wife had a higher opinion of him than she did of me, and it sometimes seemed that he occupied a more important place in her life than I did. I even confronted him with my feelings of jealousy. He assured me, more than once, that I had nothing to worry about, and that his relationship with my spouse was strictly professional. He had an explanation for her apparent devotion to him. He told me that he was being a "father figure” to her, to make up for the fathering she never received. Although I sometimes resented the closeness of their relationship — because it seemed like a type of closeness I wanted with my wife but couldn’t achieve — I accepted his explanation. I never imagined that he was sexually involved with her. He was a respected Christian psychologist who seemed to stand for the highest moral values. It never occurred to me that while I was pouring my heart out to him about my relationship with my spouse, he was at the same time romantically and sexually involved with her.[ 3 ]

Additionally,

I asked Dr. Finch more than once to explain why my spouse seemed more devoted to him than to me, and why he seemed like such a central person in her life. I asked these questions because I was jealous of him.
He never told me what was taking place. Instead, he misled me by telling me that he was serving as a father figure for her, that is, that he was playing the role of the father she "never had.” When I expressed my concerns, and tried to learn more about the relationship, he assured me that his relationship with her was entirely professional. He led me to believe that her feelings about him were an outgrowth of her psychological needs, and that his response to her was nothing for me to be concerned about. He led me to believe that he was working to help preserve the marriage.[ 4 ]

Although Doe ceased therapy on February 4, 1980, he continued to attend annual conferences sponsored by Dr. Finch. Then, in December 1981, he wrote the following letter to Dr. Finch:

*345 The hurt, anger, and bitterness that I feel because of the divorce by [my wifé] is choking me to death.
Blame for breakdown of the marriage relationship has always been laid on me — BY BOTH YOU AND HER!! AND THAT is bullshit. Both you and her are also RESPONSIBLE!
AND I HOLD YOU RESPONSIBLE!!
YOU ARE NOT A HEALER — YOU ARE A BREAKER. YOUR CHRISTIAN PSYCHOLOGY SHOWS ME NO EVIDENCE OF BEING HEALING! . . .
THE TRUE REASON WHY THERE COULD BE NO RECONCILIATION IS — THAT YOU ESTABLISHED AND NURTURED A RELATIONSHIP. YOU STOLE HER AFFECTION WHICH YOU HAD NO RIGHT TO DO! WHEN SHE TRANSFERRED WIFELY AFFECTION TO YOU — YOU LET IT HAPPEN. YOUR "EXCUSE” WAS TO PROVIDE A LOVING MALE RELATIONAL EXAMPLE FOR HER — TO MAKE UP FOR LACK OF FATHER-LOVE, AND LACK OF MARITAL LOVE. WRONG-WRONG-WRONG.
And it happened under my very nose, before my very eyes. And I was too innocent to be supicious [sic].
4. REMEMBER THE INDIAN FREIGHTER PARTY IN THE PORT OF TACOMA? I DO — WITH GREAT PAIN-HOW COULD I HAVE BEEN SO DUMB?
• MY SECRETARY INVITED [my wife] AND I TO THE SHIP. SHE WOULD NOT COME.
• [My wife] SUGGESTED I INVITE YOU. IN MY GULLIBILITY I DID.
• THEN SHE DECIDED TO COME TOO.
THEN WHAT DID SHE DO? HUNG ONTO YOU ALL NIGHT, PARKED AT YOUR SIDE, SITTING BY YOU AT DINNER, SPEAKING TO ME ONLY WHEN SHE HAD TO.
THE CREW OF THE SHIP COULD NOT BE CONVINCED *346 THAT SHE WAS MY WIFE — THEY KNEW SHE WAS YOUR WIFE. ME IN MY INNOCENCE — THEY IN THEIR WISDOM.
WRONG, JOHN — TOTALLY, COMPLETELY WRONG. YOU FOSTERED THE RELATIONSHIP — YOU ENCOURAGED IT. YOU HAVE WRONGED OUR WHOLE FAMILY!!
6. MY INTENSIVE FOR FREE! BIG FUCKING DEAL-NOTHING BUT A SALVE FOR YOUR CONCIENCE [sic]NOTHING MORE. YOU KNEW-YOU KNEW-YOU KNEW. AND THEN YOU SUPPORTED MY DECISION TO RETURN HOME-WHAT HOME? YOU HAD ALREADY STOLEN IT!! YOU DIRTY, YELLOW ROTTEN HYPOCRITE!!! . . . [ 5 ]

Doe now says that he wrote this letter to vent his anger about what he thought was a close emotional relationship between his wife and Dr. Finch. He says he did not know that his wife and Dr. Finch were engaged in a sexual relationship, and that he still believed Finch’s assertions that their relationship was "strictly professional.” Doe states:

All I knew in 1981 was that my spouse and I had spent approximately five years in therapy with Dr. Finch; that I had worked diligently with him to change my behavior to save the marriage; that the marriage had failed; and that my spouse seemed far more devoted to Dr. Finch than to me. I was very jealous and very bitter. Because I felt I had worked so hard to change — all for naught — I wanted to blame someone else. I found myself, at least for a while, blaming Dr. Finch, and feeling that he was unethical.

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