D.N. VS. T.G. (FM-07-0608-15, ESSEX COUNTY AND STATEWIDE)

CourtNew Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division
DecidedFebruary 15, 2019
DocketA-4839-16T2
StatusUnpublished

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION DOCKET NO. A-4839-16T2

D.N.,

Plaintiff-Respondent,

v.

T.G.,

Defendant-Appellant. ____________________________

Submitted January 23, 2019 – Decided February 15, 2019

Before Judges Rothstadt and Natali.

On appeal from Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Essex County, Docket No. FM-07-0608-15.

T.G., appellant pro se.

D.N., respondent pro se.

PER CURIAM Defendant T.G.1 appeals from the Family Part's May 24, 2017 order that

required him to pay $52,661.47 in support arrears and sanctions and 40% of his

children's college expenses. On appeal, defendant argues that the court failed to

properly consider the Newburgh factors in establishing his obligation to pay for

his children's college expenses and incorrectly determined his ability to pay

amounts previously ordered by the court. After conducting a thorough review

of the record in light of the arguments raised on appeal, we affirm in part, reverse

in part, and remand for further proceedings based on the existing record.

I.

This appeal represents the latest chapter in this heavily litigated and

contentious matrimonial matter. We discuss the complicated procedural history

because it relates to the May 24, 2017 order, and necessarily informs our

decision.

On September 27, 2005, the court entered a Dual Judgment of Divorce

(JOD), which dissolved the twelve-year marriage between plaintiff D.N. and

defendant, and incorporated a Property Settlement Agreement (PSA). Article I

of the PSA addressed child custody, visitation, and support for the parties' two

1 We refer to the parties and their children by initials to protect their privacy interests, and to maintain confidentiality. A-4839-16T2 2 children, S.G. and H.G. Pursuant to section 1.3, the parties agreed that plaintiff

would pay the first $250 per child, per year in unreimbursed medical expenses

and defendant would pay the next $1000. Section 1.6 required defendant to pay

50% of the cost of religious education for the children, up to a total cost of $3500

per year. With regard to the children's college expenses, section 1.11 states that

"[t]he parties agree that college education shall abide the event and shall be

governed by the existing New Jersey law."

Over the next decade, the parties engaged in unrelenting post-judgment

motion practice and related litigation, primarily involving allegations of sexual

abuse by defendant, and his failure to comply with the financial obligations set

forth in the PSA. Specifically, on September 6, 2005, plaintiff filed a Title Nine

abuse and neglect complaint, pursuant to N.J.S.A. 9:6-1(e) and 9:6-8.21(c)(3),

against defendant alleging that he had sexually abused their children. The Title

Nine action, in which the Division of Youth and Family Services (Division)

A-4839-16T2 3 ultimately intervened,2 lasted nearly two years, during which time defendant was

precluded from seeing or communicating with S.G. and H.G. 3

On February 15, 2006, plaintiff "knowingly, willingly and voluntarily,"

stipulated that he abused or neglected S.G. by showering nude with him.

Specifically, defendant admitted to "using poor boundaries and may have placed

the minor at risk for emotional harm." The Title Nine trial commenced a few

months later. In light of defendant's stipulation, the court denied plaintiff's

request for a plenary fact-finding on the other allegations of abuse and neglect.

Instead, the court heard from eleven witnesses over the course of sixteen days

in order "to reach a dispositional determination concerning [defendant's] future

contact with S.G. and H.G."

2 Pursuant to L. 2012, c. 16, effective June 29, 2012, the name of the Division of Youth and Family Services was changed to the Division of Child Protection and Permanency. 3 In July 2008, defendant filed a lawsuit against plaintiff, her father and mothe r, and three psychologists, who he alleged falsely claimed that he sexually abused the children. After the trial court dismissed the complaint, we affirmed the dismissal as against plaintiff, her parents, and one psychologist, but reversed and remanded for further proceedings with respect to the remaining two psychologists. T.G. v. Kaplan, No. A-5523-08 (App. Div. March 23, 2011). Because the parties have not included a copy of the transcript from the Title Nine matter in the record, we base our recitation of the facts from our unpublished opinion. A-4839-16T2 4 In its oral decision, the court concluded that defendant "had inflicted

emotional harm on the children by exposing them to his naked body." The court

determined that H.G. suffered from "posttraumatic stress disorder" and that

"both children have suffered and are continuing to suffer from emotional distress

caused by the[ir] father exposing himself to them." The court stated that it

accepted the findings "that these children were sexually abused by their father

. . . ."

Despite the court's findings that defendant's conduct caused harm to the

children, the court agreed with the Division's and Law Guardian's

recommendation that the children should undergo therapy with a goal toward

resuming parenting time with him. By mid-2007, defendant was allowed to see

his children again, through supervised visits, and according to defendant his

"relationship with [his] children had seemingly been restored" by late-2008.

Thereafter, plaintiff moved to Long Island, New York, and a new parenting

agreement was signed in 2009, granting plaintiff full residential custody and

allowing defendant unsupervised parenting time.

In May 2012, defendant and S.G., then thirteen-years old, got into a

physical altercation. According to defendant, after he attempted to discipline

his son for swearing at him and his girlfriend, S.G. attacked him. Defendant

A-4839-16T2 5 maintains he took defensive actions to restrain S.G. by throwing him on a bed

and holding him down. According to defendant, during the altercation, S.G.

accused defendant of abusing him, stating "Mom told me you physically abused

us. That’s why you couldn’t see us." S.G. added, "You hit us all the time."

Defendant had another altercation involving his children at their B’nai

Mitzvah on October 5, 2012. Defendant claimed that S.G. approached him at

the synagogue and told him that neither he, H.G., nor plaintiff wanted him at the

ceremony. The argument escalated and turned physical, requiring plaintiff's

then-boyfriend to restrain S.G.

The next day, defendant cancelled S.G.'s cell phone service and demanded

the return of a computer he gave to him as a gift. Defendant claims that absent

a single call with his son in which he informed him that defendant's mother had

died, he has not spoken to either child since the May 2012 incident.

In support of his claim that his children have consciously avoided having

any relationship with him, defendant submitted four text messages he sent to

H.G. between August 2013 and July 2014, eight text messages he sent to S.G.

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