Dittmer v. Dittmer

2025 IL App (1st) 241269-U
Appellate Court of Illinois·Decided September 18, 2025·No. 1-24-1269·Unpublished

Opinion

2025 IL App (1st) 241269-U Nos. 1-24-1269 & 1-24-1274, Cons.

Order filed September 18, 2025 Fourth Division

NOTICE: This order was filed under Supreme Court Rule 23 and is not precedent except in the limited circumstances allowed under Rule 23(e)(1).

IN THE

APPELLATE COURT OF ILLINOIS FIRST DISTRICT

KATIE DITTMER, ) Appeal from the ) Circuit Court of

Petitioner-Appellee, ) Cook County.

)

v. ) Nos. 2023 OP 31186 ) 2023 OP 31190 RONALD DITTMER and IRENE DITTMER, )

) Honorable

Respondents-Appellants. ) Andreana Turano, ) Judge presiding.

PRESIDING JUSTICE NAVARRO delivered the judgment of the court.

Justices Lyle and Quish concurred in the judgment.

ORDER

¶1 Held: We affirm the circuit court’s orders of protection entered against respondents and deny petitioner’s request for sanctions.

¶2 Respondents, Ron and Irene Dittmer, appeal from the circuit court’s orders granting petitioner, Katie Dittmer, a two-year plenary order of protection against Ron, and a two-year

plenary order of protection against Irene. The cases were consolidated on appeal. For the following reasons, we affirm the judgment of the circuit court.

¶3 I. BACKGROUND

¶4 On December 11, 2023, Katie, who is married to Tim Dittmer, Irene and Ron’s son, filed two separate emergency petitions for orders of protection against Irene and Ron. Katie’s emergency requests included protection for Tim and their two children, H.D. and A.D. According to the petitions, on November 29, 2023, at 2:28 p.m., Katie “spotted Irene walking along my street and circling my house in a loop for over 20 [minutes].” Katie claimed that Irene was also at her child’s bus stop when her child was getting off the bus. Katie stated that she and Tim had asked Irene to stop contacting them in August 2022. When she saw Irene, Katie called a third party who is related to Irene, and that third party told her that Irene had been contemplating meeting Katie’s child at the bus stop so that she could say hello. Katie stated in the petition that she called 911, and that the responding officer told Irene she needed to leave the neighborhood. Katie felt an order of protection was “necessary due to the abusive nature of Ron’s emails” and “for the safety of [her] children.” She stated that Ron sent a verbally abusive and harassing email to her, her husband and their extended family. She also alleged that Ron sent an email to Tim which contained abuses and harassing language and Ron threatened to put Tim “in his place” if he ever disrespected Ron’s wife again, which Katie perceived as a threat.

¶5 Katie also alleged in her petition that on December 19, 2022, Irene mailed a Christmas card to their house. On October 20, 2022, Irene mailed a package to her house, addressed to the children. In May, July, and August of 2022, Irene sent three verbally abusive communications via email and text to Tim. Katie also alleged that she, Tim, Ron and Irene went to mediation and Ron recorded their mediation sessions without consent.

¶6 A hearing was held on December 12, 2023. Katie testified that on November 29, 2023, she was leaving her house to pick her daughter up from the bus stop. When she stepped outside of her house she noticed Irene on the other side of the street, despite Katie asking her to stop contacting her back in August of 2022. Katie ran to her daughter’s bus stop to make sure she got to her daughter first. After Katie got her daughter off the bus, Irene followed them to their house and then walked around it. Katie called Tim’s brother and asked if he knew why Irene was there. Tim’s brother stated that Irene had contemplated meeting Katie’s daughter at the bus stop.

¶7 Katie testified that she called the police and an officer arrived. Irene was argumentative with the officer but eventually left. The officer suggested Katie get an order of protection against Irene.

¶8 Katie testified that Irene thinks Katie is an evil person, that she is verbally abusive in her emails and texts, and has been asked to stop contacting Katie and her family. After Katie told Irene not to contact her or her family, Irene continued to send mail and packages to their house. Katie testified that she was told “by another family member that [Irene] does own a gun now which is concerning to me as well.” Katie testified that Ron had told Tim in an email that if Tim ever disrespected Irene again, Ron would “put him in his place.”

¶9 The day after Irene was outside Katie and Tim’s house, Ron emailed several family members, including Tim, stating that Irene was walking around their house because she was praying. He called Katie “psychotic” for calling the police on Irene and said that she was a truly detestable person.

¶ 10 Prior to that email, Ron had sent Tim and Katie emails saying that the Covid vaccine that they had gotten was going to cause them bodily harm, and a link to their daughter’s school board meeting about books that were being read at their daughter’s school.

¶ 11 When asked why Katie called the police on Irene that day in November, she replied that Tim’s brother had told her that Irene wanted to go to her daughter’s bus stop to say hello, and that Katie did not know what Irene would have done if Katie had not been there.

¶ 12 The circuit court found that Katie was protected under the provisions of the statute, and that there was a sufficient allegation of abuse as defined in the statute, “i.e. harassment.”

¶ 13 An emergency order of protection was entered against Irene and Ron for three weeks. On January 2, 2024, the parties appeared for a hearing. The circuit court noted that if Ron and Irene wished to agree to the order, it would be prepared, and they would be free to go. Ron and Irene indicated that they wished to contest the order. The circuit court gave all the parties three weeks to get lawyers. The emergency orders of protection were continued to February 22, 2024. The case was then continued twice more, culminating in a hearing on May 21, 2024.

¶ 14 At the May 21, 2024, hearing, Irene Dittmer testified first. She testified that she sent Tim text messages on January 14, 2022, in which she referenced a biblical murder of Isaac, which was a “sacrifice to test Abraham’s faith, which never happened.” Irene stated that she wrote that because it was a “time of testing for both of us.”

¶ 15 Irene testified that she sent a text to Tim on August 11, 2022, accusing Katie of being a homewrecker and stating that her behavior was pure evil. Irene testified that it was evil for Katie and Tim to “cancel them for no reason.” She stated she was then asked by Tim not to contact them anymore. Irene believed the no contact to be limited to her, not Ron, but in December 2022, they sent a Christmas card to Katie and Tim.

¶ 16 Then in November 2023, Irene took a walk near Katie and Tim’s house. She “circled around the block and back.” Irene stated that the bus stop happened to be on the course of that walk, but that she had no idea where the bus stop was. She testified that her sole purpose was a

“prayer walk.” She saw the bus approaching but did not know whether one of the kids was on it. She slowed her pace, spotted one of her grandchildren, and did not see Katie there. She picked up her pace but then saw Katie and her other grandchild appear from around a fence.

¶ 17 On cross-examination, Irene stated that she never meant any of her texts to Tim to be threatening, and that she had never threatened violence against Katie or her grandchildren.

¶ 18 On the date in question, she was trying to do a prayer walk in which she was going to circle the perimeter of Katie and Tim’s house seven times, but only completed five before being intercepted. She then completed the loop two more times in her vehicle.

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