Dietter v. Dietter, No. 31 45 85 (Jan. 30, 1995)

1995 Conn. Super. Ct. 628
CourtConnecticut Superior Court
DecidedJanuary 30, 1995
DocketNo. 31 45 85
StatusUnpublished

This text of 1995 Conn. Super. Ct. 628 (Dietter v. Dietter, No. 31 45 85 (Jan. 30, 1995)) is published on Counsel Stack Legal Research, covering Connecticut Superior Court primary law. Counsel Stack provides free access to over 12 million legal documents including statutes, case law, regulations, and constitutions.

Bluebook
Dietter v. Dietter, No. 31 45 85 (Jan. 30, 1995), 1995 Conn. Super. Ct. 628 (Colo. Ct. App. 1995).

Opinion

[EDITOR'S NOTE: This case is unpublished as indicated by the issuing court.]MEMORANDUM OF DECISION This proceeding was a limited contested dissolution of a marriage between the parties which occurred on March 17, 1956 at Hopewell Junction, New York. The defendant has resided continuously in this jurisdiction at least twelve (12) months next before the filing of complaint. Five children were born of this union: Michael on September 11, 1969; John on June 23, 1966; Deidra on June 1, 1964; Dina on February 5, 1962; and, Denise on August 16, 1958. Each and all of the children has attained his and her majority and currently create no legal obligation for the parties. No other minor children have been born to the defendant since the day of the marriage. No federal, state or municipal agency or public or private trust is contributing to the support of either party. The court finds that the marriage has broken down irretrievably and a decree may enter on the grounds of irretrievable breakdown.

The plaintiff is sixty-one (61) years old and appears to enjoy good health with the singular complaint of hypertension. He has a degree in labor relations from the University of Bridgeport. He has some post graduate work but no post graduate degree. The defendant is also sixty-one (61) years old, obtained her high school diploma and has devoted much of her life to motherhood and in the homemaking pursuits which flow therefrom. Approximately fifteen (15) years ago, she accepted a position at Southbury Training School as a therapist. She earns approximately thirty-two thousand five hundred ($32,500) dollars per year. Her formalized training as a therapist has been from others employed in the field in what she has described as hands-on training. She enjoys the usual State of Connecticut perquisites including a CT Page 629 pension. She is being treated for depression.

The plaintiff asserts that there were no marital difficulties during the early years and describes her as a wonderful mother and homemaker. As the years progressed, however, this testimony suggests a lack of affection on her part. The defendant would respond that the defendant's drinking became a serious problem. His employment history is somewhat checkered. He has held several lucrative positions but none for a very substantial period of time, with the exception of one twelve (12) year period with Perkin-Elmer. Periods of unemployment followed job changes or voluntary withdrawals from the various employment scenarios in which he found himself. He has to his credit become a recovering alcoholic and has enjoyed sobriety for many years.

During the years 1990 through 1993, his earning capacity produced funds in an amount in excess of seventy-five thousand ($75,000) dollars. He voluntarily terminated his employment with the Charles River Computer Corporation after a very short period of time claiming the commutation to New York City exacerbated what appears to be a hypertension problem and was motivated to that termination by a comment from a dermatologist, who was treating him for a dermatological condition only, to the effect if he did not reduce tension and change his lifestyle, that he could die very suddenly. He testified that his ordinary blood pressure reading was "always" 120/80. When the dermatologist did in fact measure his blood pressure on the date in issue in September it was 150/90. The physician testified that he expressed a thought that the plaintiff would kill himself if he did not take care of it (hypertensive problem) change his diet and decrease his anxiety. He did not, however, medicate him for this condition nor did he advise him to leave that position.

His years of employment were in the field of personnel management and he is currently employed as a limousine driver earning something slightly in excess of four hundred five ($405) dollars a week. The plaintiff has a golf membership at the Richter Park golf course in Danbury and on his application under the question of employment he lists "Retired." This court finds it both intriguing and significant to note that his voluntary termination of his employment with Charles River did not occur until a motion to reduce his alimony pendente lite order was denied by this court.

The plaintiff, after leaving the marital domicile, which he CT Page 630 asserts to be February 1, 1993, which the defendant contradicts and maintains was indeed November, 1993, lived with his daughter for a short period of time before obtaining employment in March of 1993 as a consultant with ABB Traction which lists its address as East 18th Street, Elmira Heights, New York, 14903. During that time, he lived in Horseheads, New York and earned in excess of fifty-five thousand ($55,000) dollars for this short venture at ABB. While so employed, he continued a relationship with a lady from that area which apparently had preexisted his employment with ABB. His claim is that that relationship is purely platonic and that his only relationship with her was over her daughter's boy friend who was also struggling to control his alcoholism. His testimony seemed calculated to convince the court that the relationship was indeed innocuous and his efforts to strengthen the resolve of the young man struggling with the problem are most laudatory.

There is a rather dark shadow which haunts his credibility. He spent the fourth of July weekend at the Raleigh Hotel in South Fallsburg, New York. The reservation for that weekend was dated June 19, 1993 and was receipted to Mr. and Mrs. John Dietter on an American Express card owned by that lady. He registered at the hotel on the 2nd of July as Mr. and Mrs. John Dietter declaring two adults in his party. Despite these documentary disclosures, he testified that he was at the hotel alone. That testimony along with his explanation of leaving his employment with Charles River is incredible and borders on the ridiculous. While there may be faults with respect to the failure of this marriage attributable to either party, this court finds that most of the responsibility for its failure rests with the plaintiff. However, our Supreme Court has warned against overemphasizing the issue of fault misplaced in its proper prospective by defining that concept as being one of the many criteria which must be applied in entering orders and a decree of dissolution. See Sands v. Sands,188 Conn. 98, 102.

The assets of the parties are the plaintiff's pension from Loral Corporation which will pay him approximately four hundred seventy ($470) dollars per month at age sixty-five (65) and the balance of a 401K account. The defendant also enjoys pension benefits as a result of her service to the State of Connecticut, the anticipated return of which is approximately seven hundred twenty ($720) dollars per month. He enjoys social security benefit potential, she does not. The major joint asset is the family residence at 2 Colonial Drive in Bethel, which the court CT Page 631 finds to have a fair market value two hundred thirty-five thousand ($235,000) dollars. The property is encumbered with a first mortgage and a home equity line of credit. The parties are in dispute about the actual equity in the residence but the minimum figure expressed is one hundred twenty-five thousand ($125,000) dollars.

In determining whether or not an order of alimony may be appropriate in a given case, the court is mandated to consider the length of the marriage, the cause of the dissolution, the age, health, station, occupation, amount and source of income, vocational skills, employment ability, the estate and needs of each of the parties and any property awarded in accordance with Sec. 46b-81. Dubicki v. Dubicki, 186 Conn. 709

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