De'Udy v. De'Udy

130 Misc. 2d 168, 495 N.Y.S.2d 616, 1985 N.Y. Misc. LEXIS 3157
CourtNew York Supreme Court
DecidedNovember 7, 1985
StatusPublished
Cited by8 cases

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De'Udy v. De'Udy, 130 Misc. 2d 168, 495 N.Y.S.2d 616, 1985 N.Y. Misc. LEXIS 3157 (N.Y. Super. Ct. 1985).

Opinion

OPINION OF THE COURT

Eli Wager, J.

Does a clergyman who has counseled with both husband and wife in his "professional character as spiritual advisor” acquire an independent privilege against disclosure of the information acquired, notwithstanding a waiver of the privilege made in open court by both parties? This novel question is raised during the trial of this contested divorce action by a Presbyterian minister, by way of an order to show cause to quash a subpoena served upon him by the defendant wife.

Upon being sworn, the minister, by his counsel, advised the court that notwithstanding the open waiver of the privilege by husband and wife, he asserted an independent privilege against giving testimony. The clergyman argues that the statute (CPLR 4505), which provides that he "shall not be allowed” to testify absent the waivers of privilege, should not be read so as to compel his testimony despite the waivers of privilege.

This is an action for divorce commenced by the plaintiff husband on the grounds of cruel and inhuman treatment. The parties were married on September 4, 1982 in Oyster Bay, New York, by the Reverend Doctor Richard W. Reifsnyder, [169]*169pastor of the church which they attended and of which they were or became members. The evidence is to the effect that in 1983, upon the occurrence of marital discord, both husband and wife separately sought out the marital guidance and spiritual counsel available to them from their minister. The husband, a professed "Born-Again Christian” and the wife, who testified she was "born a Christian” and was an active participant in the life of her church, apparently resorted to the good offices of their religious leader and spiritual guide in efforts to reconcile and resolve their differences. Clearly, under such circumstances, each was required to confess or to confide in the clergyman that which was in the deepest recesses of his or her heart for the counseling to have any reasonable chance of success. Unfortunately, the marital dispute was not resolved and this action followed.

Apparently, the defendant wife is seeking testimony from Dr. Reifsnyder with respect to statements or admissions against her interest which may have been made by her husband during his sessions with the reverend. Since such confidences, if any, would have been reposed in the clergyman in the communicant-clergy relationship, it may be assumed that they have not been previously disclosed to the wife, at least not by the minister. The purpose of calling him as a witness, therefore, is in the hope of obtaining as yet uncertain information from the witness that will be prejudicial to her husband.

Upon the return of the motion to quash the subpoena, I ruled that in order for the witness to be allowed to testify, both parties would be required to waive their respective privilege against his testimony. That ruling is based upon the fact that each had given confidential information to the clergyman and that he had counseled with both. To expect that Dr. Reifsnyder could selectively reveal the information received from one spouse and withhold that received from the other is beyond reason. Of necessity, there must be commingling of confidences that would inevitably cause the breach of the privilege of a nonwaiving spouse.

Following my ruling from the Bench, both parties to the action, in open court and on advice of counsel, rose to separately declare their waiver of the privilege existing between themselves and Reverend Reifsnyder. At that point the minister’s personal attorney was permitted to argue against the court directing the witness to testify on the following grounds:

[170]*170(1) The rule excluding confidential communications to clergy existed long before the present CPLR 4505;
(2) Broad public policy considerations require an expanded liberal interpretation of the statute; and
(3) The minister has standing to claim the privilege for himself whether or not the litigants do.

The witness urges that the communicant-clergy privilege existed at common law and thus survives independently of statutory authority. This thesis is disputed by the overwhelming weight of authoritative texts and commentators on the law of evidence. "At common law there was no privilege as to communications or confessions to a spiritual adviser; and, in the absence of statute, no such privilege exists” (97 CJS, Witnesses, § 263). To the same effect, see Richardson, Evidence § 424 (10th ed); 8 Wigmore, Evidence § 2394 (McNaughton rev ed 1961); and Reese, Confidential Communications to the Clergy (24 Ohio St LJ 55, 57 [1963]).

In any event, it is beyond cavil that the privilege accorded the statements made by a communicant to a clergyman are matters of statute. The privilege is a rule of evidence and is not substantive law. In New York, the rule is expressed succinctly in CPLR 4505 as follows: "Unless the person confessing or confiding waives the privilege, a clergyman, or other minister of any religion or duly accredited Christian Science practitioner, shall not be allowed to disclose a confession or confidence made to him in his professional character as spiritual advisor.” At bottom, the statutory protection is extended to those statements and confidences reposed in a spiritual advisor with the knowledge and intention on the part of the communicant that such information shall remain confidential and shall be disclosed to no one. The communications so privileged must be made "to the clergyman as such in his professional capacity or character * * * by a person seeking religious or spiritual advice, aid, or comfort, and the communication must be penitential in character, and proper in order to enable the clergyman to discharge the functions of his office or advise or assist the person making the statement; and it must also have been made and received in confidence, although no express promise of secrecy is necessary” (97 CJS, Witnesses, § 263).

In one California case the court ruled that statements made by both spouses in conflict to a rabbi in the course of marital counseling sessions were not considered as privileged (Simrin [171]*171v Simrin, 233 Cal App 2d 90, 43 Cal Rptr 376). Yet the rabbi’s claim of privilege was upheld upon an asserted "express agreement” with both parties, "that their communications to him would be confidential and that neither would call him as a witness in the event of a divorce action” (233 Cal App 2d, at p 94, 43 Cal Rptr, at p 378), Although not controlling on the court, only the wife had waived the privilege. The husband refused to waive. Parenthetically, California is one of the very few States in which the clergyman is given an independent statutory privilege (see, Gumper, Legal Issues in the Practice of Ministry, at 42 et seq. [1981]).

A similar case in New York yielded similar results based upon an apparently contrary rationale (Kruglikov v Kruglikov, 29 Misc 2d 17, appeal dismissed 16 AD2d 735). In Kruglikov, a rabbi who had counseled with both husband and wife prior to an action for separation was ordered to appear and be examined before trial as a witness.

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