Detwiler v. Detwiler CA3

CourtCalifornia Court of Appeal
DecidedMarch 8, 2022
DocketC093015
StatusUnpublished

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Filed 3/8/22 Detwiler v. Detwiler CA3 NOT TO BE PUBLISHED California Rules of Court, rule 8.1115(a), prohibits courts and parties from citing or relying on opinions not certified for publication or ordered published, except as specified by rule 8.1115(b). This opinion has not been certified for publication or ordered published for purposes of rule 8.1115.

IN THE COURT OF APPEAL OF THE STATE OF CALIFORNIA THIRD APPELLATE DISTRICT (Yolo) ----

STEPHANIE DETWILER, C093015

Plaintiff and Respondent, (Super. Ct. No. FL2017690)

v.

SEAN DETWILER,

Defendant and Respondent.

Appellant obtained a domestic violence restraining order against respondent, her husband at the time, with whom she shares a minor child. Appellant later filed a request to renew the order. (Fam. Code, § 6345.)1 After a contested hearing at which both appellant and respondent testified, the trial court denied appellant’s request to renew the

1 Undesignated statutory references are to the Family Code.

1 order. On appeal, appellant contends the trial court abused its discretion by applying the wrong standards when considering her request. We affirm. BACKGROUND A. Original domestic violence restraining order In May 2017, appellant requested a domestic violence restraining order against respondent for herself and the couple’s minor child (daughter). In the pleading, appellant described numerous incidents of abuse by respondent. In the earliest incident, “[respondent] was angry that the house was a mess,” and “didn’t speak” to appellant “or the kids” for several days. On the fourth day, when respondent “came into the house he threw his bike bag at” appellant and daughter, “and stomped up the stairs” to the couple’s room. Appellant was “scared” by respondent “acting violent,” so she decided to go to a friend’s house. Respondent “asked where [she] was going in a very angry tone,” and “made a snide comment about not being invited.” In the next incident, respondent “got very angry” when arguing with appellant about her children (his stepchildren), and “blocked [her] way out of [a] closet” as she was getting dressed in the morning. Later that day, respondent “stomped into the house and started knocking things over in the living room and kitchen.” That night, he yelled at her that she “was a bad mother” and “didn’t give him enough sex.” She stayed at a friend’s house that night because she “did not feel safe going home.” The third described incident occurred during a family trip to Lake Tahoe in June 2016. When the family was at a pool, “[respondent] got angry about something and stormed off.” Later in the hotel room, he told appellant to “go away” and keep the children (“those brats”) quiet. When appellant and the children returned from dinner, “[he] stormed out of the bedroom and demanded that [she] give him the keys to the car.” She refused. He “moved really close to [her] and called [her] a bitch and demanded” the keys. She again refused. He “grabbed [her] arm and swung [her] around and told [her]

2 [she] wasn’t leaving the room until he had the keys.” He grabbed her “other wrist and shook” her. He “threw [her] against the door.” “The hotel called the police,” who took photographs of a bruise on appellant’s back. “The next morning, [appellant] found a very large bruise on [her] . . . arm from where [respondent] grabbed” her. Police took photographs of the bruise. In July 2016, respondent “followed” appellant and “stepped very close to [her] and started yelling at [her].” She backed away “to put space between” them, but he “again moved into [her] personal space.” In August 2016, as they discussed their finances, respondent gave appellant “a dirty look” and “stomped out of the house and left for several hours.” In January 2017, appellant was with “a date” at her home when respondent unexpectedly appeared. He “got angry and asked if [she] had a man in the house.” He called her “a slut and a whore in front” of daughter. Respondent “pushed past” appellant and entered the house. As he moved up the stairs, she warned him she would call the police. He “turned around” and “shoved” her “as he went by [her]” and left the house. The last described incident occurred in April 2017. At the time, respondent and appellant worked in the same office building in downtown Sacramento. Appellant and her coworker were walking to work when respondent “veered into” them as all three crossed the street. “[Respondent] then loomed over and glared at” them. After a contested hearing on August 18, 2017, the trial court granted appellant’s requested restraining order for a three-year period, ordering respondent to stay at least 100 yards away from appellant and daughter, and not contact them by phone or e-mail, among other things. Further, the trial court (a) granted to appellant sole physical and legal custody of daughter, (b) ordered respondent “to attend and complete a 52 week Batterer Treatment Program,” and (c) permitted respondent to have “professionally supervised visit[s]” with daughter.

3 In July 2018, to address the complicated situation of the parties’ shared work location, the order was amended to permit respondent to be on multiple floors of the Sacramento office building “during work hours to perform his work duties.” B. Request for renewal and October 2020 hearing In May 2020, appellant requested a renewal of the restraining order, alleging respondent “violated the restraining order at least [eight] times.” Appellant explained that she was afraid he would abuse her in the future because he “abused [her] during [their] marriage, as well as” daughter, who “still suffer[ed] from [posttraumatic stress disorder] from the assaults.” “I continue[ ] to be treated for [posttraumatic stress disorder] due to the abuse,” she continued. In his pleading opposing the renewal, respondent argued he had “not violated the restraining order at least [eight] times.” Further, he argued the restraining order made it difficult for him to (a) see daughter and (b) “work in the same building as [appellant] or seek any other employment that require[d] . . . a background check.” At the beginning of an October 2020 contested hearing at which respondent appeared without representation, the trial court explained that the “basis for” the original restraining order issued in August 2017 “has been established” and was “res judicata.” “That being said,” the trial court continued, “the scope of that decision” was “before the [c]ourt.” “I am most interested [in] the facts that have taken place since” August 2017, the trial court said. “That’s of importance to the [c]ourt. And then, of course, I want to hear both from” respondent and appellant “on the seriousness of the underlying offense because that’s a huge factor in determining whether there’s a renewal.”

4 Appellant’s testimony Appellant testified to her understanding of respondent’s violations of the original restraining order. 2 In June 2018, after “a hearing in the family court” at which “the judge ended up going with” respondent’s position on a matter, he sent a “nasty e-mail” to appellant, who filed a police report, as he was prohibited from contacting her. On three occasions in 2019, respondent violated the restraining order’s provision that appellant had sole legal custody of daughter by “access[ing]” daughter’s “health insurance to apparently get a therapist.” Respondent didn’t tell appellant, who “found out about it six months” later, when her health insurance refused “to cover . . . daughter’s therapy.” The reason for the refusal was that appellant “hadn’t contacted th[e] specific therapist” that respondent “got the name of” when he contacted the health insurance.

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