Derby v. Derby

21 N.J. Eq. 36
CourtNew Jersey Court of Chancery
DecidedFebruary 15, 1870
StatusPublished
Cited by4 cases

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Bluebook
Derby v. Derby, 21 N.J. Eq. 36 (N.J. Ct. App. 1870).

Opinion

The Chancellor.

The complainant asks for a divorce from the defendant on the ground of adultery committed by her. The bill charges two acts of adultery, both with William D. Palmer; the first on the steamboat Doan Richmond, on the Hudson river, on the 22<1 of August, 1866; the second at the house Ho. 53 Houston street, in the city of New York, on the 27th day of October, in the same year.

The answer denies these charges, and denies that she ever committed adultery with any one. And it further charges that tho complainant has at divers times since his marriage with her, committed adultery with Margaret Burst and with Margaret Morrow, otherwise called Margaret Marshall, and with other women whoso names were unknown to the defendant,

The parties were married at Jersey City, November 34th, 3 854, and have since resided in this state. They have liad throe children, one of whom, a son, born about 1861,.is still living; the two others have died; since June, 1865, the parties have not resided together in the same house. The complainant, who is one of a firm of large lumber dealers iu Jersey City, has resided at the principal hotel in that city, [38]*38in which, he has had apartments. The defendant, with her son, has resided with her mother, at the town of Bergen, about two miles from this hotel. The complainant supported the defendant and his son, and the parties were apparently on amicable terms, visiting each other, and part of the time he called almost daily to see the defendant. He never remained all night, and only once since June, 1865, had marital intercourse with his wife; this was in June 1866, on a visit to her at her room in her mother’s house.

In the year 1862 they were living apart; he was for some months boarding with James H. Burst, in Jersey City, in a house which belonged to, or had been hired by the complainant, and the use of which was given to Burst in part compensation for board. The defendant did not board with him, except for about three weeks of the time. The sister of the complainant, a young woman of twenty-six, who was in delicate health, boarded with him. Martha Burst, the sister of James H. Burst, a young woman of nineteen, was one of the family. The complainant was very attentive to Martha Burst; was much with her; he often walked out with her, and escorted her to places of public amusement to which he invited her. He made her presents, one of which was two dresses. She met him in New York, as if by appointment.- Her brother, who denies belief of anything criminal in this intercourse, thought that it was indiscreet in her, and might cause scandal, and interfered with both, separately, and endeavored to restrain it. Both resented his interference, and the result was that Burst and his family left the complainant’s house. The complainant was for several years in the habit of meeting Martha Burst, and several other girls, who, like her, maintained themselves by sewing, embroidery, or like occupations, at the rooms of the Fidelity Division of the Sons of Temperance, and at their excursions; to neither of these his wife was admitted, she not being a member of the Division. On these occasions he would devote himself for a season to one, and then for another period to another of the girls who were members, [39]*39and in need of escort and attendance. This was done in such a manner as to attract the observation of others.

The defendant, at her marriage, was about twenty-one years of age, and had before been a teacher in the principal public school in Jersey Oity. A large number of witnesses who had known her for years, both before and since her marriage, testify that both her conduct and reputation for modesty and chastity, has always been beyond suspicion and without reproach, before these charges now made by her husband. Several testify that she was a fond and submissive wife, always anxious to please her husband and sacrificing everything to his "wishes. And her conduct in quietly submitting to the mode of life to which he subjected her, would seem strongly to confirm this testimony.

The complainant, for more than a year before the injury of which he complains, had, in effect, deserted his wife, and neglected or omitted the main ditties and obligations of the contract of marriage, of the breach of which he now complains. lie indeed supported her and visited her, but he separated himself from her society and the enjoyment of a common home. His leisure and amusements were shared •with others, and he denied the marital rights which, by every principle of law or duty, he was bound to yield. Meither his means or his business prevented him from allowing her to share his apartments with him and their only child, or from maintaining a common home at the place to which he had exiled her. There is no reason for this conduct shown, and it was his duty in presenting himself before the court for relief, to have shown, if practicable, that his conduct in this respect was not without excuse. His gallantry and attentions to a few’ of the female members of the Fidelity Division, might have been accounted for and excused by their common devotion to the important cause of temperance reform, if it had not been accompanied or followed by a total neglect of his duties to his wife. The neglect of a husband to perform his duties to his wife, although it may be a natural and the real cause of her infidelity, will not [40]*40justify or excuse it; it will hardly palliate the crime. But a party who has negatively violated a solemn contract in its two most vital parts, to love and. cherish, and has only performed it in the last and least, to support, comes into a court of equity with an ill grace to complain of a positive breach by the party whom he first injured. His hands are not unclean in the sense which would apply if he had committed the same crime, but they are so weakened, blanched, and attenuated by willful non-performance, that they take but feeble hold on the horns of the altar of justice. Such a complainant cannot expect any favorable leaning of the court, but must present a case free from any reasonable doubt.

The first act charged against the defendant is upon the Dean Richmond, on its passage from Albany to New York, on the night of the 22d of August, 1866. The defendant at that time was boarding at Rhinecliff, on the Hudson, at a hotel kept by John Crandall, whose wife, was the complainant’s sister. The complainant charges that she left the hotel on the false pretence of going to New York, when she really left for the purpose of going to Albany to meet W. D. Palmer, according to an appointment made with him, and that she occupied the same state-room with Palmer, and there committed adultery. She admits that she left the hotel under the false pretence for' the purpose of coining down on the boat, but states that her object was to watch her husband, whom ’she expected would come down the river that night, and who, she had been informed, generally was accompanied by some woman. The false pretence was used because she would not avow to her husband’s sister her real object. She states that she did not find her husband, but found on the boat Mr. Palmer, a man whom she had known, and whose wife she had visited; that he procured a state-room for her, carried her shawl and other articles to it for her, but did not go in and stay all night, or any considerable time, but came in it in the morning before -she had left it, and took her traveling bag out for her.

The evidence on the part of the complainant, if it is [41]*41entitled to be received and believed, shows a state of facts entirely different, and such as can leave no doubt of her guilt.

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