Derbes v. Derbes

462 So. 2d 302
CourtLouisiana Court of Appeal
DecidedJanuary 7, 1985
Docket83-1143
StatusPublished
Cited by8 cases

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Derbes v. Derbes, 462 So. 2d 302 (La. Ct. App. 1985).

Opinion

462 So.2d 302 (1985)

Charles DERBES, Sr., Plaintiff-Appellee,
v.
Marilyn Milburn DERBES, Defendant-Appellant.

No. 83-1143.

Court of Appeal of Louisiana, Third Circuit.

January 7, 1985.

*303 Cole & Guidry, J.N. Prather, Jr., Lafayette, for defendant-appellant.

Pucheu, Pucheu & Pucheu, Jacque B. Pucheu, Sr., Eunice, for plaintiff-appellee.

Before DOUCET, LABORDE and YELVERTON, JJ.

LABORDE, Judge.

The trial judge granted a divorce to husband on the grounds of living separate and apart from wife for one year, and the judge denied wife's claim for alimony, finding that she had not carried her burden of proving that she was free from fault. Wife appeals the denial of alimony, and she also contends that her appeal should have suspended execution of the judgment below. We find no error. We affirm.

Charles Derbes, Sr. and Marilyn Milburn Derbes were married in 1950. Four children were born of the marriage, all of whom have obtained the age of majority. Charles is a pharmacist; Marilyn is unemployed. It is not seriously disputed by either party that, after the children were raised and had left the family home, the marital relationship between Mr. and Mrs. Derbes began to deteriorate.

Charles instituted the divorce proceedings in this case. He filed his action for divorce under the provisions of Louisiana Revised Statute 9:301, alleging that he and his wife had lived separate and apart for more than one year. Marilyn answered and filed a reconventional demand in which she sought a divorce based on Charles' alleged abandonment of the marital domicile, and Charles' alleged cruel treatment of her. Charles answered the reconventional demand with allegations that Marilyn had caused him to leave the marital domicile because she had consistently refused to *304 engage in sexual intercourse, moved out of the marital bedroom, refused to sleep with her husband, and, in effect, refused to have anything to do with her husband.

Marilyn's rule for alimony pendente lite was heard on May 13, 1983. She was awarded $600 per month alimony pendente lite in a judgment signed on May 31, 1983.

The divorce was tried on the merits on June 28, 1983. Both parties presented evidence tending to show that Charles was entitled to a divorce on the basis of living separate and apart from Marilyn for more than one year. However, the "fault" dispute, first introduced into the proceedings by Marilyn's reconventional demand, resulted in a large amount of contradictory testimony, chiefly by the two parties themselves.

Charles told the story of a man whose wife had grown increasingly cold and unresponsive to his sexual overtures. He stated that he and his wife had had sexual intercourse perhaps only six times during the last six years of the marriage, and not at all during the last year. He testified that he rarely verbally asked his wife to have sex with him, and his wife would not actually say "no." Rather, Charles related, he often would become affectionate, sometimes carressing his wife or otherwise indicating his desires, and his wife would reproach his intimacies with facial expressions, gestures, or simply her unresponsiveness. As noted by the trial judge, "for two people who had lived together for 32 years, communications take on many forms...." Charles stated that Marilyn wanted no part of his (or any) social life. According to Charles, Marilyn refused to go on business trips with him, and would not even leave their house to go to a restaurant. He claimed that their conversations withered quickly, because she did not want to talk to him. Charles set forth Marilyn's routine as drinking coffee, chain-smoking, working crossword puzzles, and watching television. He said she was uninterested in and refused to do anything else.

Marilyn's version of the demise of her marriage was different. She stated that she only refused to have sex with her husband on one occasion, and that he was drunk at the time. Her explanation for the disappearance of her and her husband's sex life was that he was no longer interested in sexual relations with her, and he no longer approached her for sex. Marilyn testified that an arthritic condition pretermitted her participation in the type of social life in which her husband was involved, particularly the business/pleasure trips that he took with other pharmacists. Marilyn admitted moving from the marital bedroom, but she explained that she did this only after Charles said he was going to move into another room. According to Marilyn, she moved so that Charles could have the room with the telephone and also obtain his desire that they sleep in separate rooms. Marilyn said that after Charles moved into another house, she was still initially willing to "take him back." She claimed that after the separation, Charles visited one day and, after having sexual intercourse, they "vaguely" discussed resuming the marital relationship. (Charles remembered the visit, but denied having sex with Marilyn or discussing their marriage.) Marilyn stated, however, that Charles began seeing another woman sometime after the separation, and that after she discovered this, she no longer wished to reconcile with her husband.

The trial judge entered written reasons for his decision. He found, first, that Charles was entitled to a divorce on the basis of living separate and apart from his wife for one year. Second, he found that Marilyn had not carried her burden of proving that she was free from fault and, therefore, that Marilyn was not entitled to permanent alimony after the divorce. On the issue of fault, the trial judge focused upon Marilyn's alleged refusal to have sex with her husband. The judge believed that Marilyn had, in fact, unreasonably refused to meet the reasonable and normal sexual needs of her husband. The judge found that the fault on the part of Marilyn was of sufficient magnitude to constitute "legal" fault under the law of this state.

*305 Judgment was entered dissolving the marriage of Mr. and Mrs. Derbes, and Mrs. Derbes' claim for permanent alimony was denied.

Marilyn Milburn Derbes filed a motion for a suspensive appeal, in which she sought review of "the fault issues, burden issues, and post-divorce alimony issues...." The trial judge, noting that appellant did not question the granting of a final divorce on the grounds of living separate and apart for one year, but instead sought review of his fault judgment denying appellant alimony, changed the wording of appellant's motion so that the motion requested a devolutive, rather than suspensive, appeal.

The appeal before this court presents two issues: (1) whether a suspensive appeal should have been allowed in this case and (2) whether the trial judge erred by denying appellant permanent alimony on fault grounds.

SHOULD APPELLANT HAVE BEEN ALLOWED TO SUSPEND JUDGMENT DURING THE PENDENCY OF THIS APPEAL?

The primary difference between a suspensive appeal and a devolutive appeal is that a suspensive appeal suspends the execution of the judgment of the trial court until the appeal is decided, whereas a devolutive appeal allows the judgment of the trial court to be executed during the pendency of the appeal. In domestic relations cases, an appeal from a judgment of divorce must be suspensive. La.Code Civ. Proc. art. 3942. A divorce judgment ends a marriage, it substantially alters the status of the parties. For example, the former husband or wife may remarry after a final divorce judgment has been entered.

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