Department of Children and Families v. R.L.

CourtNew Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division
DecidedApril 7, 2025
DocketA-2697-22
StatusUnpublished

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION DOCKET NO. A-2697-22

NEW JERSEY DEPARTMENT OF CHILDREN AND FAMILIES,

Petitioner-Respondent,

v.

R.L.,

Respondent-Appellant. _____________________________

Argued November 20, 2024 – Decided April 7, 2025

Before Judges Mayer, DeAlmeida and Puglisi.

On appeal from the New Jersey Department of Children and Families, Division of Child Protection and Permanency, Case ID No. 17384537.

Victoria D. Miranda argued the cause for appellant (SeidenFreed, LLC, attorneys; Faith A. Ullmann, of counsel; Dina M. Mikulka and Victoria D. Miranda, on the briefs).

Christina Duclos, Deputy Attorney General, argued the cause for respondent (Matthew J. Platkin, Attorney General, attorney; Sara M. Gregory, Assistant Attorney General, of counsel; Alicia Y. Bergman, Deputy Attorney General, on the briefs).

Jeralyn L. Lawrence argued the cause for amicus curiae New Jersey State Bar Association (NJ State Bar Association and Lawrence Law, LLC, attorneys; Timothy F. McGoughran, of counsel and on the brief; Jeralyn L. Lawrence, Matheu D. Nunn, and Brian G. Paul, on the brief).

PER CURIAM

Respondent R.L. (Rick)1 appeals from the April 18, 2023 final agency

decision of the Division of Child Protection and Permanency (DCPP or the

Division) that allegations he sexually abused his sons were "not established"

pursuant to N.J.A.C. 3A:10-7.3(c)(3). We reverse.

I.

Rick and Adam were married in 2015. They have two sons, Noah and

Justin, conceived through surrogacy with both parents biologically related to the

children. Rick was the stay-at-home caretaker of the boys during the marriage.

Rick and Adam separated in July 2021, and Adam filed a complaint for divorce

in the Family Part in August 2021. At that time, Noah was three-and-a-half

years old and Justin was two years old.

1 We use initials and pseudonyms to identify the parties and their children to protect the confidentiality of records relating to allegations of abuse and neglect of children in accordance with Rule 1:38-3(d)(12) and N.J.S.A. 9:6-8.10a(a). A-2697-22 2 On September 12, 2021, a Family Part judge issued a temporary

restraining order (TRO) against Rick based on allegations he assaulted Adam

while Adam was holding one of the children. DCPP received a referral due to

entry of the TRO. After an investigation, the Division issued a finding of "not

established" with respect to the domestic violence referral.

On April 14, 2022, DCPP received a second referral with respect to the

family. The nature of that referral is not clear from the record. After an

investigation, the Division issued a finding of "not established" with respect to

the second referral.

On June 29, 2022, a Family Part judge entered a final restraining order

(FRO) against Rick and granted full custody of the children to Adam. Entry of

the FRO precipitated a new referral to the Division.

On July 12, 2022, a Family Part judge entered an order establishing joint

legal custody of the children to Rick and Adam with Adam as the parent of

primary residence and Rick as the parent of alternate residence, and granting

Rick parenting time two overnights every week and one day every weekend.

The parties continued to dispute custody.

In August 2022, Adam enrolled the children in play therapy with Debbie

Mann, LCSW, without Rick's consent and over his objection.

A-2697-22 3 Adam subsequently alleged Rick repeatedly pinched and hit the children

and smoked marijuana in front of them. Adam's allegations led to a new referral

to the Division.

On October 6, 2022, a Family Part judge entered an order to show cause

filed by Adam. The order to show cause suspended Rick's parenting time with

both children and gave DCPP time to "conduct its investigation and report back

. . . ."

On October 12, 2022, Mann contacted the Division. She said Adam told

her Noah had disclosed that "Papai," the name he used for Rick, put a finger in

his butt and that Noah made comments to his nanny about putting penises in

butts. Adam also sent Mann a video of Noah saying Rick "will shoot Ms. Debbie

with a gun." 2 Mann alerted the police departments in the towns in which she

had an office of Rick's threat.3 Mann acknowledged that she obtained most of

the information she reported to the Division from Adam, never met Rick, and

was aware of the ongoing divorce proceedings and custody dispute involving

Adam and Rick.

2 In the video included on appeal, Noah told Adam that Rick wanted to "shoot Miss Debbie with a gun" and that Rick "likes to shoot people." 3 One police department contacted Rick. He denied having threatened Mann. No charges were filed, and Rick was notified not to appear at Mann's offices. A-2697-22 4 Also on October 12, 2022, the Division received collateral information

from the children's pediatrician stating no child abuse or neglect concerns, with

the last visit for Noah the day prior and the last visit for Justin six days earlier.

Later that day, a DCPP worker spoke with Noah at Adam's home. Noah

did not disclose sexual abuse. The next morning, Noah's nanny emailed the

DCPP worker and told him that after he left the home, Noah asked her to touch

his butt when he undressed himself to take a shower. When the nanny told Noah

no because no one can touch his butt, he replied "but Papai does." The nanny

sought clarification by asking if Noah was referring to when Papai puts eczema

cream on his skin. Noah replied, "no, he touch me inside."

On October 16, 2022, Adam reported allegations of Rick's sexual abuse

of both children to the local police department. Adam stated that after he

showed the children a video about good touches and bad touches, both Noah and

Justin said they had received a "bad touch" by Rick. Adam also reported that

Noah asked him, "did you know you can stick your pee pee in a butt?" and if he

was "going to stick his finger in his butt before he goes into the shower like

[Rick]?" Adam reported that Justin asked the nanny, "did you know that you

can stick your finger in the butt?" A report created by the police department

included Adam's comment that he believed Rick had been sexually abused as a

A-2697-22 5 child and used cocaine, ecstasy, ketamine, alcohol, and marijuana. The police

department thereafter made a referral to DCPP.

Later that day, a Division worker went to Adam's home. Adam told her

that a week earlier, while giving Noah a shower, Noah asked Adam to stick his

fingers in his butt. When Adam asked Noah where he learned that, Noah said,

"Papai does that to [me]." Adam said he recorded the disclosure and showed the

police.4 Adam also reported Justin made similar disclosures. Noah and Justin

would not talk to the DCPP worker, who observed a very close bond between

the children and Adam.

Adam advised he was interested in having the children evaluated at the

Metro Regional Diagnostic Treatment Center (RDTC), a facility focused on

children who experience sexual abuse, "as per his lawyer." Adam told the

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