Department of Children and Families v. R.L.

New Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division·Decided April 7, 2025·No. A-2697-22·Unpublished

Opinion

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION

DOCKET NO. A-2697-22

NEW JERSEY DEPARTMENT OF CHILDREN AND FAMILIES,

Petitioner-Respondent,

v. R.L.,

Respondent-Appellant.

Argued November 20, 2024 – Decided April 7, 2025 Before Judges Mayer, DeAlmeida and Puglisi.

On appeal from the New Jersey Department of Children and Families, Division of Child Protection and Permanency, Case ID No. 17384537.

Victoria D. Miranda argued the cause for appellant (SeidenFreed, LLC, attorneys; Faith A. Ullmann, of counsel; Dina M. Mikulka and Victoria D. Miranda, on the briefs).

Christina Duclos, Deputy Attorney General, argued the cause for respondent (Matthew J. Platkin, Attorney General, attorney; Sara M. Gregory, Assistant Attorney

General, of counsel; Alicia Y. Bergman, Deputy Attorney General, on the briefs).

Jeralyn L. Lawrence argued the cause for amicus curiae New Jersey State Bar Association (NJ State Bar Association and Lawrence Law, LLC, attorneys;

Timothy F. McGoughran, of counsel and on the brief;

Jeralyn L. Lawrence, Matheu D. Nunn, and Brian G.

Paul, on the brief).

PER CURIAM Respondent R.L. (Rick)1 appeals from the April 18, 2023 final agency decision of the Division of Child Protection and Permanency (DCPP or the Division) that allegations he sexually abused his sons were "not established" pursuant to N.J.A.C. 3A:10-7.3(c)(3). We reverse.

I.

Rick and Adam were married in 2015. They have two sons, Noah and Justin, conceived through surrogacy with both parents biologically related to the children. Rick was the stay-at-home caretaker of the boys during the marriage. Rick and Adam separated in July 2021, and Adam filed a complaint for divorce in the Family Part in August 2021. At that time, Noah was three-and-a-half years old and Justin was two years old.

1 We use initials and pseudonyms to identify the parties and their children to protect the confidentiality of records relating to allegations of abuse and neglect of children in accordance with Rule 1:38-3(d)(12) and N.J.S.A. 9:6-8.10a(a).

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On September 12, 2021, a Family Part judge issued a temporary restraining order (TRO) against Rick based on allegations he assaulted Adam while Adam was holding one of the children. DCPP received a referral due to entry of the TRO. After an investigation, the Division issued a finding of "not established" with respect to the domestic violence referral.

On April 14, 2022, DCPP received a second referral with respect to the family. The nature of that referral is not clear from the record. After an investigation, the Division issued a finding of "not established" with respect to the second referral.

On June 29, 2022, a Family Part judge entered a final restraining order (FRO) against Rick and granted full custody of the children to Adam. Entry of the FRO precipitated a new referral to the Division.

On July 12, 2022, a Family Part judge entered an order establishing joint legal custody of the children to Rick and Adam with Adam as the parent of primary residence and Rick as the parent of alternate residence, and granting Rick parenting time two overnights every week and one day every weekend. The parties continued to dispute custody.

In August 2022, Adam enrolled the children in play therapy with Debbie Mann, LCSW, without Rick's consent and over his objection.

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Adam subsequently alleged Rick repeatedly pinched and hit the children and smoked marijuana in front of them. Adam's allegations led to a new referral to the Division.

On October 6, 2022, a Family Part judge entered an order to show cause filed by Adam. The order to show cause suspended Rick's parenting time with both children and gave DCPP time to "conduct its investigation and report back . . . ."

On October 12, 2022, Mann contacted the Division. She said Adam told her Noah had disclosed that "Papai," the name he used for Rick, put a finger in his butt and that Noah made comments to his nanny about putting penises in butts. Adam also sent Mann a video of Noah saying Rick "will shoot Ms. Debbie with a gun." 2 Mann alerted the police departments in the towns in which she had an office of Rick's threat.3 Mann acknowledged that she obtained most of the information she reported to the Division from Adam, never met Rick, and was aware of the ongoing divorce proceedings and custody dispute involving Adam and Rick.

2 In the video included on appeal, Noah told Adam that Rick wanted to "shoot Miss Debbie with a gun" and that Rick "likes to shoot people." 3 One police department contacted Rick. He denied having threatened Mann. No charges were filed, and Rick was notified not to appear at Mann's offices.

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Also on October 12, 2022, the Division received collateral information from the children's pediatrician stating no child abuse or neglect concerns, with the last visit for Noah the day prior and the last visit for Justin six days earlier.

Later that day, a DCPP worker spoke with Noah at Adam's home. Noah did not disclose sexual abuse. The next morning, Noah's nanny emailed the DCPP worker and told him that after he left the home, Noah asked her to touch his butt when he undressed himself to take a shower. When the nanny told Noah no because no one can touch his butt, he replied "but Papai does." The nanny sought clarification by asking if Noah was referring to when Papai puts eczema cream on his skin. Noah replied, "no, he touch me inside."

On October 16, 2022, Adam reported allegations of Rick's sexual abuse of both children to the local police department. Adam stated that after he showed the children a video about good touches and bad touches, both Noah and Justin said they had received a "bad touch" by Rick. Adam also reported that Noah asked him, "did you know you can stick your pee pee in a butt?" and if he was "going to stick his finger in his butt before he goes into the shower like [Rick]?" Adam reported that Justin asked the nanny, "did you know that you can stick your finger in the butt?" A report created by the police department included Adam's comment that he believed Rick had been sexually abused as a

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child and used cocaine, ecstasy, ketamine, alcohol, and marijuana. The police department thereafter made a referral to DCPP.

Later that day, a Division worker went to Adam's home. Adam told her that a week earlier, while giving Noah a shower, Noah asked Adam to stick his fingers in his butt. When Adam asked Noah where he learned that, Noah said, "Papai does that to [me]." Adam said he recorded the disclosure and showed the police.4 Adam also reported Justin made similar disclosures. Noah and Justin would not talk to the DCPP worker, who observed a very close bond between the children and Adam.

Adam advised he was interested in having the children evaluated at the Metro Regional Diagnostic Treatment Center (RDTC), a facility focused on children who experience sexual abuse, "as per his lawyer." Adam told the Division worker "the allegation carries more weight in court if DCPP completes the referral." The worker informed Adam the Division "must remain neutral." Adam responded that he planned on requesting the family court order Rick's visits be supervised and "no 50/50 custody." Adam also stated that Mann "will not go on record regarding abuse if not received from first-hand knowledge."

4 This recording is not in the record.

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