Dellacamera v. Dellacamera, No. Fa97-0399144s (Aug. 4, 1999)

1999 Conn. Super. Ct. 10761
CourtConnecticut Superior Court
DecidedAugust 4, 1999
DocketNo. FA97-0399144S
StatusUnpublished

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Bluebook
Dellacamera v. Dellacamera, No. Fa97-0399144s (Aug. 4, 1999), 1999 Conn. Super. Ct. 10761 (Colo. Ct. App. 1999).

Opinion

[EDITOR'S NOTE: This case is unpublished as indicated by the issuing court.]

MEMORANDUM OF DECISION
This is an action instituted by the plaintiff wife, Janice DellaCamera against the defendant husband, Raymond DellaCamera seeking a dissolution of their marriage. The parties have resided in the State of Connecticut for more than one year prior to the bringing of this action and the court has jurisdiction over the marriage and the parties. Neither party has been a recipient of public assistance during the period of the marriage. The parties were married on November 21, 1964. They have two children, Todd, CT Page 10762 who is 32 years old, and Susan, who is 30 years old. The parties' marriage has broken down irretrievably. There is no reasonable hope of reconciliation, and the court orders a dissolution of the marriage.

The court has carefully considered the statutory criteria for the granting of a I dissolution of marriage, the awarding of alimony and attorney's fees, and the dividing of the parties' assets and liabilities. The court makes the following findings and orders.

The wife is 53 years old and in good health. In 1985 she received a bachelor of science degree in accounting. The husband is 56 years old and his health is not good. In 1990, he underwent surgery for prostate cancer and the cancer is currently in remission. He has carpel tunnel syndrome in both hands for which he is receiving a disability pension from the New Haven Police Department. He retired from the New Haven Police Department in February 1998. In or about March 1998, after he started receiving this pension, he became employed as a police officer with Southern Connecticut State University. In February 1999, he underwent surgery for a spinal fusion of the cervical spine and he missed weeks from work recovering from this operation. At the end of the trial proceedings, he was scheduled to return to work in June 1999, but it was unclear whether his medical condition would allow him to do so.

The parties do not dispute many of the facts concerning the history of their marriage. About six months prior to their marriage in November 1964, the husband became a New Haven police officer. The parties' marital residence on Belvedere Road, North Haven, Connecticut was purchased by them in 1967. After the children were born, the plaintiff stopped working outside of the home and remained at home until 1976 when the youngest child started first grade.

Between 1964 and 1978, the parties began to have marital difficulties and began to grow apart. The wife claims that her husband became abusive and excessively demanding. He began to remain away from home often, working and socializing. After the children were born, he did not regularly participate with their care and upbringing. On the other hand, the husband claims that his wife was snobbish, lazy and controlling. In any event, in 1978 the wife learned and confirmed that the husband had an affair with another woman. This woman claimed that the husband CT Page 10763 was the father of her infant child. The wife claims that the husband hit her and knocked her down when she confronted him with this information. The husband denies this accusation. Paternity was never definitively established, but the husband admitted to the affair. Primarily as a result of this incident, the husband left the marital residence. In 1979, he ultimately began to reside with a Miss Ann Massaro. In 1982, approximately four years later, the husband returned home in an attempt to reconcile with his wife. In a matter of months, these reconciliation efforts failed and the husband returned to live with Miss Massaro. He has continued to live with Miss Massaro since that time. Miss Massaro has worn an "engagement" ring for at least the past three years, and she and the husband have referred to her as the husband's fiancee. Although the wife contributed to the breakdown of the marriage, the evidence clearly establishes that the husband's conduct caused the irretrievable breakdown of the parties' marriage.

Thus as indicated above, except for a brief period in 1982, these parties have lived apart and have lead separate lives since 1978 or for about 21 years. The husband stated that at least for some period of time, he chose not to file for divorce because he wanted to leave open the possibility of reconciliation. The court discounts this explanation, noting the length of the separation and his very close relationship with Miss Massaro. The parties attempted reconciliation 17 years ago. This effort only lasted a matter of months, failed miserably, and ended with the husband resuming his residence with Miss Massaro. The wife claims that she did not file for divorce sooner because she was intimidated by the husband's threat that she would lose the house if she did. The court finds no credibility to the wife's claim and finds the husband's other testimony more credible — the parties became comfortable with their arrangement and voluntarily chose to live apart without a formal divorce. During their separation, the husband provided financial support to the family, including support for the children's education, but often not in the amounts or on as regular a basis as desired by the wife. This support continued on a fairly regular basis at least through 1987. Also, as — indicated above, the wife attended college full time during this time period graduating in 1985.

The wife presently works as an accountant with the State of Connecticut Department of Revenue Services. According to her financial statement, she earns $1,150 a week gross and $616 a week net from this employment. She also has dividend and interest CT Page 10764 income from investments of approximately $15 a week. She estimates her total net weekly income to be about $627. However, it should be noted that her calculation of her net earnings reflects her voluntary contribution of $125 a week into her credit union savings account. Without this deduction, her net income would be $752 a week.

According to the wife's financial affidavit, she also has personal weekly expenses of about $750 a week, but the court finds that at least $100 of these expenses are either excessive or purely discretionary expenditures. her financial affidavit also indicates that she owns the following: a 1995 Honda Accord having an equity value of $10,000; bank accounts having about $1,500 in cash; stocks and bonds having an approximate value of $73,000; a 1/3 ownership interest in real estate in Branford, Connecticut valued at $33,000; and other personal property having an approximate value of $3,000. She has an Aetna annuity and a State of Connecticut pension. The Aetna annuity is valued at approximately $126,806. The plaintiff offered expert testimony that her pension with the State of Connecticut has a value of $97,270. She lists liabilities on her financial affidavit totaling $4,887, which includes a $1,387 debt owed for attorney fees related to this action.

The parties jointly own the wife's present residence on Belvedere Road in North Haven Connecticut. According to their post-trial memoranda, the parties agree that this property has an equity value of approximately $128,000. This property is not mortgaged.

As stated above, the husband works as a police officer for the Southern Connecticut State University. According to his financial affidavit, he earns $807 gross and $510 net a week from this employment. He earns about $898 gross and about $746 net a week from his City of New Haven pension which is in pay status. He also receives rental income from real estate that he owns and interest income from investments. His total net weekly income from all these sources is about $1,293 a week.

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