D.D.H. v. R.K.
Opinion
RECORD IMPOUNDED
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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION
DOCKET NO. A-2144-23
D.D.H., Plaintiff-Respondent,
v. R.K.,
Defendant-Appellant.
Submitted May 14, 2025 – Decided July 9, 2025 Before Judges Rose and Puglisi.
On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Union County, Docket No. FV-20-0732-24.
R.K., appellant pro se.
Respondent has not filed a brief.
PER CURIAM
Defendant R.K.1 (Ronald) appeals from the February 6, 2024 final restraining order (FRO) entered against him in favor of plaintiff D.D.H. (Debbie) pursuant to the Prevention of Domestic Violence Act (PDVA), N.J.S.A. 2C:25-17 to -35. We affirm.
I.
In October 2023, the parties were in a six-month dating relationship. They obtained temporary restraining orders (TRO) against each other, adjudicated in a single FRO hearing during which Debbie was self-represented and Ronald was represented by counsel.
During her direct examination, Debbie testified that on October 16, 2023, Ronald appeared uninvited and unwelcome at her apartment complex. Knowing Debbie kept a spare key to her outside apartment door in her unlocked vehicle, Ronald searched the parking lot for her car, 2 took the key and then "barge[d]" into her apartment. Although Debbie told him several times to leave and tried to "push him out," Ronald stayed the night.
1 We use initials and pseudonyms to preserve the confidentiality of domestic violence court records, R. 1:38-3(d)(9), and protect the confidentiality of the victim, R. 1:38-3(d)(12). 2 During the hearing, Debbie played a video purporting to be Ronald searching the parking lot for her car, but the court did not rely on this evidence in deciding this matter. The video was not provided to us in the record on appeal.
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Debbie testified Ronald took her cell phone from her so she was unable to call for help and then slept on the floor of her room. Several times during the night, Ronald tried to get into bed with Debbie but she fought him off with a belt.
The next day, Ronald gave Debbie her phone and told her he was going to take her to New York that day. She told him no and again asked him to leave. The conversation escalated into an argument, which then turned physical. Debbie testified Ronald pushed her against the closet door and choked her, then threw her to the ground, stomped and kicked her.
When Debbie tried to leave the apartment to summon help, Ronald grabbed her by the hair and pulled her back into the apartment. Debbie went into the kitchen and grabbed a knife but Ronald "was not afraid at all." He eventually let Debbie go and she went to her next door neighbor, who called 911. When police arrived, they took photos of Debbie's injuries, including a broken fingernail and scratches on her face and neck, and her cracked cell phone screen. Ronald was arrested that day, although the record does not reflect whether he was charged with a criminal offense or the status of any charges.
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Debbie testified to prior acts of domestic violence on different occasions wherein Ronald got "violent" with her, threw her on the ground, kicked and hit her.3 She also stated Ronald began "forcing himself" on her in June.
Debbie explained why she needed an FRO:
If I don't get this restraining order he can come to my house at any time to try to basically do what he did last time which is abuse, and coming into my house unannounced.
I am tired. I don't want to be going through this anymore. And I've warned him several times to please stay away from me. He has not listened and it has gotten to this point where I have to come to court in order for me to get a restraining order.
If I do not have this restraining order I am going to keep going through the same stuff over and over and over again and I don't want to keep going through this.
I want him to stay away from me. This is the reason why I need this restraining order. It is very important not only for my mental health, but for my safety. I have to make sure that he is away from me.
Ronald's testimony disputed much of Debbie's account. Ronald testified he routinely let himself into Debbie's apartment and she permitted him to enter
3 Although the judge commented to Debbie there was "nothing" in her TRO "about a history of domestic violence and him hitting [her] in the past," and noted the TRO "[d]idn't say anything about an aggravated assault or a simple assault," the TRO indicated as a prior domestic violence history "unreported incidents between the parties of domestic issues and possible sexual assault."
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that night. He denied taking her cell phone and instead said the argument began because she was texting someone else, which resulted in his sleeping on the floor. Ronald stated that during the night, Debbie hit him with her belt and tried to bite his ear and neck. He denied hitting her and instead said he only tried to push her away.
Ronald testified that after he made breakfast the next day, they argued again, which turned physical. He said Debbie hit him and, when she tried to get her belt to hit him again, he shut the door on her.
Ronald also testified about a prior history of physical violence against him, which he documented with photos of injuries to his chest, knee and hand from two prior incidents.
After considering the evidence, the judge issued an oral opinion granting each party's request for an FRO against the other. The judge found Debbie established predicate acts of assault and criminal mischief. 4 After defining the elements of assault, the judge noted the parties provided "conflicting testimony" but was satisfied "the two parties did get into a physical altercation, that the two
4 The judge did not explain the basis on which he found Ronald committed criminal mischief. Debbie alleged Ronald pushed her into her television, which broke as a result. However, the judge discounted her testimony in this regard, finding Ronald's actions were neither purposeful nor knowing, and that breaking the television was accidental.
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did attack each other." The judge also noted both parties provided photographs of their injuries sustained at the other's hand.
Based on the nature of the events that gave rise to the TROs, along with "some history of domestic violence between the parties," the judge found there was a need to enter an FRO to protect both parties from future acts of domestic violence.
This appeal followed, in which Ronald argues: (1) the trial court erred by considering altered video evidence which was misleading; (2) Debbie made conflicting statements and untruthful testimony during the hearing; (3) Debbie submitted falsified evidence of injuries that did not occur on October 17, 2023; (4) Debbie's photographs did not depict visible injuries, but his photographs showed evidence of prior domestic violence incidents; and (5) the trial judge erred by allowing Debbie to testify about different incidents unrelated to the incident on October 17, 2023 and not contained in her TRO. We disagree and affirm.
II.
"In our review of a trial court's order entered following trial in a domestic violence matter, we grant substantial deference to the trial court's findings of fact and the legal conclusions based upon those findings." D.N. v. K.M., 429
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