D.D. VS. T.L. (FM-05-0243-13, CAPE MAY COUNTY AND STATEWIDE)

New Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division·Decided November 23, 2021·No. A-3181-19·Unpublished

Opinion

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION

DOCKET NO. A-3181-19

D.D., Plaintiff-Appellant,

v. T.L. (f/k/a T.D.), Defendant-Respondent.1

Argued October 13, 2021 – Decided November 23, 2021 Before Judges Currier and DeAlmeida.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Cape May County, Docket No. FM-05-0243-13.

Ronald G. Lieberman argued the cause for appellant (Adinolfi, Lieberman, Burick, Falkenstein, Roberto and Molotsky, PA, attorneys; Ronald G. Lieberman, of counsel and on the briefs).

Jane Molt argued the cause for respondent (Coalition Against Rape & Abuse Law Project, attorneys; Jane Molt, on the brief).

1 We use initials and pseudonyms to protect the parties' and minors' privacy.

PER CURIAM In this post-judgment matrimonial appeal, plaintiff challenges the trial court's decision denying his request to modify defendant's parenting time and transfer residential custody of the minor child, Logan, to him. He contends the trial court abused its discretion in: (1) denying his request to modify parenting time; (2) holding him responsible for paying $10,000 towards defendant's counsel fees and holding him solely responsible for paying the guardian ad litem (GAL) fees; and (3) granting defendant's crossclaim to modify parenting time. Defendant also requests this court set standards for trial judges to follow when conducting child interviews. We affirm.

I.

The parties divorced in 2013 after seven years of marriage. At the time, Logan was five years old. Under their Marital Settlement Agreement (MSA), the parties shared legal and residential custody of their son. Plaintiff had parenting time on Thursdays after school until 10:00 a.m. on Sundays. Defendant had parenting time from 10:00 a.m. Sunday until Thursday morning. The parents also alternated parenting time on Wednesday nights.

In 2018, plaintiff filed a motion seeking to: (1) transfer residential custody of Logan to himself; (2) modify defendant's parenting time to no longer allow A-3181-19

overnights; (3) require that defendant's parenting time occur outside the presence of defendant's husband and her husband's son; (4) register Logan in plaintiff's school district; (5) direct the parties to share transportation of Logan; and (6) terminate plaintiff's child support obligation. Defendant filed a cross motion seeking, among other things, a modification of parenting time, a request that the child's activities take place in her neighborhood, and for a recalculation of child support.

Although a different Family Part judge initially presided over the matter, the ultimate hearing was conducted by Judge Benjamin Podolnick over five days between September and December 2019. Plaintiff presented himself, his current wife, a counselor from a program which focused on witnesses or victims of domestic violence, an elementary school counselor, and defendant's current husband as his witnesses. Defendant testified on her own behalf. The judge also interviewed Logan in camera.

Plaintiff described his residence as a four bedroom, two-and-a-half-bath home situated on 3/4 acres of land. He discussed family vacations and his second home located in Cape May County. Initially, plaintiff lived in the Cape May home which was only fifteen to twenty minutes from defendant's residence. However, he has since moved to his current residence, located approximately an

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hour away from defendant. He has a nineteen-year-old son from a prior marriage and a child with his current wife. He is employed as a sergeant with the New Jersey State Park Police.

Plaintiff testified that he sought a change of custody because of certain incidents regarding defendant and her husband, as well as events that took place in defendant's home while her stepson was living there. Plaintiff admitted he unilaterally signed Logan up for a soccer league that played games in his town on Sundays. He conceded he was aware the soccer games interfered with defendant's parenting time.

Defendant's husband, Mark, testified that he and defendant have two children together and they experience financial issues from time to time. He also has a son, Larry, who is the same age as Logan. Mark advised that Larry suffers from several mental health issues, specifically attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, oppositional defiant disorder, disruptive mood dysregulation disorder, and bipolar disorder, for which he takes medication. Mark has had full custody of Larry since he was four years old and he described the treatment the child has undergone, including counseling, in-home therapy, and periods of hospitalization.

According to Mark, Logan was aware of Larry's mental health issues, but

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he stated the boys played together, and there were no issues between them. He stated that Logan was not afraid of Larry.

A catalyst to plaintiff's motion was an event that occurred at defendant's home in November 2017. Mark explained that Larry was having an emotional episode and was trying to jump out of the second story window of his bedroom . Mark pulled Larry out of the window multiple times, locked, and blocked the window, and "smacked" him on his butt. He stated Logan was downstairs in the living room when this incident occurred and heard what was happening. Mark reported the incident to Larry's therapist, who in turn reported it to the Division of Child Protection and Permanency (DCPP). He stated DCPP implemented a safety plan under which he was not allowed to be alone with the children, but neither he nor the children were removed from the home. Mark also completed parenting classes where he learned different methods to handle Larry.

Larry voluntarily left Mark's home in November 2018 to live with his mother. Mark stated that Larry does return to Mark's home to visit and stay overnight, but there had been no further incidents and the children "got along fine."

After plaintiff learned of the incident involving Larry, either from defendant or DCPP, he thought Logan was behaving differently and he enrolled

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Logan in a program for domestic violence victims and witnesses. He did not inform defendant he was doing this nor did he seek her consent. Logan attended the program from April to August 2018. The counselor from the program stated the intake risk assessment revealed Logan was a witness to domestic violence but he did not meet the criteria required for a diagnosis of post-traumatic stress disorder. As part of the program, Logan created a safety plan to use as a coping mechanism if he were to witness Larry and Mark arguing.

The counselor stated that after Logan completed the program, she did not think he needed any further support. However, plaintiff and his wife wanted Logan to continue with counseling and so the counselor recommended a second program.

Defendant also testified, stating she worked several jobs and lives in a rented home with Mark, Logan, and a younger child. She advised the court there were times she was behind in paying rent and on her bills. In discussing the issues with Larry, defendant acknowledged the challenges the family faced regarding his disabilities, however, she said he and Logan had a good relationship.

In addressing the November 2017 incident, defendant said Logan was "impacted" by the events but she did not observe any changes in his behavior

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