David L Forrester v. Phyllis E Rienzo-Forrester

Court of Appeals of Virginia·Decided October 22, 2002·No. 0348024·Unpublished

Opinion

COURT OF APPEALS OF VIRGINIA

Present: Chief Judge Fitzpatrick, Judge Benton and Senior Judge Overton

Argued at Alexandria, Virginia

DAVID L. FORRESTER MEMORANDUM OPINION * BY

v. Record No. 0348-02-4 JUDGE NELSON T. OVERTON OCTOBER 22, 2002

PHYLLIS E. RIENZO-FORRESTER

FROM THE CIRCUIT COURT OF FAIRFAX COUNTY M. Langhorne Keith, Judge

Robert D. Dain (Cherise Dyann Cuevas; Dain, Oxley, Markley & Nicoli, P.L.L.C., on briefs), for appellant.

Susan Massie Hicks (Susan Hicks & Associates, P.C., on brief), for appellee.

David L. Forrester, father, appeals the decision of the trial court awarding sole legal custody and sole physical custody of the parties' two children to Phyllis E. Rienzo-Forrester, mother. Father contends the trial court erred in: (1) failing to consider all of the factors of Code § 20-124.3 in awarding sole custody to mother; (2) determining the quantity of visitation awarded to father; (3) finding that mother was and is the primary caregiver of the children and that mother and father are unable to cooperate on issues involving the children; (4) failing to consider father's payment of

* Pursuant to Code § 17.1-413, this opinion is not designated for publication.

one-half of the mortgage payment on the jointly owned marital residence as a deviation in calculating child support; (5) ordering father's continuing payment of one-half of the mortgage; and (6) determining the amount of child support awarded to mother. Mother also requests attorney's fees incurred in this appeal. Finding that the trial court did not err, we affirm the decision of the trial court. We also deny mother's request for attorney's fees.

FACTS

The parties were married for about fifteen years. They have two children, who were twelve and eight years old at the time of the November 20, 2001 custody hearing. At that time, the court had ordered exclusive use of the marital residence to mother. Father continued to pay one-half of the mortgage payment.

Mother is a computer sales representative who works about sixty percent of the time out of her home office. She has a flexible work schedule, allowing her to attend children's functions during the day. Mother's annual income was about $130,000 in 2001. Mother earned $300,000 the previous year, but she indicated that she had cashed some stock options during that year, which were added to her income. Mother also stated that the field of technology sales is now "difficult."

Mother testified that, during the marriage, she performed about eighty to ninety percent of the household activities and care of the children. She did the family's laundry, grocery shopping, and cooking. Both parties drove the children to and from activities.

Prior to the custody hearing, the parties had reached several mutual agreements concerning child custody and visitation, but mother testified there had been problems with overnight visitation with father during the school year. Mother stated that the children would get less sleep, lack school supplies, and generally have less stability in their lives when they stayed with father overnight during the school week. Mother also testified concerning several incidents where father made last minute changes to planned visitation schedules. Mother described father as a "reasonably good parent."

Mother testified she would encourage the children to spend as much time as possible with father in the future. However, she also stated that she believes father uses "poor judgment sometimes." She gave examples such as when he left the children unattended in the home.

On one occasion when father expressed a desire to have the children visit his therapist, mother took the children to her parents' home in Fredericksburg and advised father that she refused to return with the children until he agreed not to take

them to his therapist. Father obtained an emergency custody hearing for the next day, and the parties then entered a "fifty-fifty" custody schedule.

Several of mother's friends testified that mother is a good parent and often attends functions with the children. Several witnesses testified on father's behalf, but most of the witnesses knew father through work or tennis relationships and had not witnessed many interactions between him and the children.

Mother requested that she have custody of the children during the school week since she has been their primary caregiver and so that the children would have stability and consistency in their lives.

Father testified that he earns about $91,250 per year.

Father testified he has been close to the children their whole lives, and he had an "equal important part" in their parenting. He stated that he changed diapers, attended soccer games and swimming lessons, and read books on parenting, children's development, and discipline. Father testified he meets the children's emotional and intellectual needs and is involved in their activities. Father described himself as caring and loving and stated that he has not interfered with the children's relationship with their mother, although he and mother have had disagreements on certain issues.

Father believes he has been flexible with visitation changes requested by mother. He testified that mother has unreasonably denied him access to the children on two occasions. There was also an altercation between the parties which resulted in mother being arrested. The charges were later dropped.

Father stated he has attempted to communicate with mother "via whatever medium [she] will accept." He has used e-mail, voice mail and telephone calls. The parties have used a mediator in an effort to determine visitation issues, but were unable to resolve the issues. Father stated that the children love to visit him overnight.

Father testified that his job offers a flexible schedule, allowing him to attend activities with the children. Father disagreed with mother's testimony that the children get less sleep when they stay with him during the week.

Father asked for shared custody and presented a proposed visitation schedule.

The trial court awarded mother sole legal and physical custody of the children. The court then established a visitation schedule. The trial court stated:

I've considered the appearance in the manner of the witnesses on the stand and the credibility of all the witnesses in making this decision. And in particular course I've considered all the factors in [Code §] 20-124.3. But in particular, and I'll

mention these factors, three, four, five and seven.

The court found that both parents had a "strong relationship" with the children and "there's certainly no way the scales come down one way or the other on that issue." The court further found that the ability to accurately assess the needs of the children favored mother. The trial court found that father's request for an "equitable division of time" seemed to focus on father's needs and not the children's needs. The court expressed concern that father on occasion made decisions "of questionable judgment" concerning the children.

The trial court found mother's testimony that the children need stability to be "very credible." The court also found that, while father "had a major role in the upbringing" of the children, mother "had been and continues to be the primary caregiver." The court stated that both parents are "extremely willing and have demonstrated that willingness to maintain a close relationship." However, the trial court found the evidence was "overwhelming" that the parents "do not cooperate and can't resolve their disputes." The court stated that this was one of the "major factors" it considered in deciding that shared custody was "just not an option" in the case.

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