David Hardisty v. Mary Hardisty

2021 Ark. App. 396
CourtCourt of Appeals of Arkansas
DecidedOctober 20, 2021
StatusPublished
Cited by1 cases

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David Hardisty v. Mary Hardisty, 2021 Ark. App. 396 (Ark. Ct. App. 2021).

Opinion

Cite as 2021 Ark. App. 396 Elizabeth Perry ARKANSAS COURT OF APPEALS I attest to the accuracy and integrity of this document DIVISION IV 2023.07.12 13:24:18 -05'00' No. CV-20-689 2023.003.20215 Opinion Delivered October 20, 2021 DAVID HARDISTY APPEAL FROM THE BAXTER APPELLANT COUNTY CIRCUIT COURT [NO. 03DR-19-69] V.

HONORABLE ANDREW S. BAILEY, MARY HARDISTY JUDGE APPELLEE AFFIRMED

N. MARK KLAPPENBACH, Judge

Appellant David Hardisty and appellee Mary Hardisty were divorced by an August

2020 decree. David and Mary have two daughters and one son, all of whom were under

the age of eight when their parents divorced. Mary was granted custody, and David was

granted standard visitation periods but was not permitted to have the children stay overnight.

David appealed, asserting that the circuit court erred by not granting joint custody and

further erred by not allowing overnight visitation. We affirm.

David separated from Mary in December 2018. David moved in with his girlfriend,

Krystle, and her four children (three sons and a daughter). In February 2019, Mary filed a

complaint for divorce and sought custody of their children. David counterclaimed for

divorce and sought custody of the children.

In May 2019, the parties agreed to a temporary order concerning their children:

Mary would have custody; David would have specified daytime-hour visitation with the children three days a week; David was not allowed overnight visitation because he did not

have his own residence; and neither parent would expose the children to any romantic

partner or have overnight guests to whom they were not married or related. In August

2019, the parties agreed to a settlement to resolve most of the issues related to property

division, debts, and visitation. They agreed that David could have overnight visitation if he

got married or obtained a separate residence that was adequate to house their three children;

overnight visitation was contingent on their children having a separate bedroom,

appropriate beds, and no other children sleeping in that bedroom.

The divorce hearing was conducted on August 5, 2020. Child custody and visitation

were the primary issues to be litigated. Mary wanted custody and for David to have visitation

but for the children not to stay overnight with him. David wanted joint custody or, in the

alternative, unrestricted visitation.

Mary testified that she and David lived about a forty-minute drive apart because

David moved in with his girlfriend in Mountain Home. Their children were ages seven,

four, and two. Mary said she was the children’s primary caregiver, and David exercised his

visitation inconsistently. According to Mary, David’s demeanor changed toward the end of

their marriage, he was inexplicably gone for many hours, and he ultimately decided he had

to leave. When she realized David was living with Krystle and her children, she became

worried that Krystle’s sons would take out their aggression on her much-younger children.

She was also worried that David would not, or could not, consistently take their children

to school or take their oldest daughter to her speech-therapy sessions, particularly since he

lived so far away. Mary regretted making the temporary visitation agreement (that provided

2 circumstances in which David could exercise overnight visitation) because she learned more

and more about how severe Krystle’s children’s problems were and how that could impact

her children’s safety. Mary said her children generally seemed to enjoy going to see their

father, although she would observe their behavior being “off” when they came back.

David testified that he wanted joint custody, that his older two children could sleep

in Krystle’s daughter’s bedroom, and that the youngest could sleep in a crib in his and

Krystle’s bedroom. David and Krystle were currently living in a rent house, but he was

looking for a bigger home. David said his children got along well with Krystle’s children

and that he would never allow his children to be put in a dangerous situation. David said

he is close to his children, he cares for them, and they have fun and enjoy being together.

David wanted a week-on-week-off schedule because it was best for the children to be raised

equally by and taught life lessons by both parents. He admitted that he had been very

depressed toward the end of the marriage but said he no longer felt that way. David

committed to driving the children to school and any other place they needed to go; he said

his work schedule is flexible enough to do this, but Krystle could help too. He thought it

would be “possible” after the divorce for him and Mary to talk through things related to

their children, and he was willing to put the children’s best interest first.

Krystle testified that she has bipolar disorder, and she acknowledged having had

eleven prior reports against her alleging physical abuse or neglect of her children. Krystle’s

children ranged in age from fifteen to nine. Her three sons have mental-health issues, receive

SSI disability benefits, and are prescribed medication for their issues. At times, their out-of-

control behavior has required inpatient treatment. Fifteen-year-old K has bipolar disorder

3 and autism; he had tried to commit suicide and had been hospitalized as recently as

November 2018. Twelve-year old V and ten-year-old T also have bipolar disorder. Krystle

said V had run away from home, the options for him at that time were jail or residential

care, and he had not yet been released to go home. T had been unstable on his medications;

he would become defiant, scream, and run around. T had also recently been hospitalized.

Krystle’s nine-year-old daughter B did not have any mental-health diagnosis. Krystle said

that if she and her sons were on their medications, they were able to function well, but she

acknowledged that her sons had experienced “episodes” in recent months.

According to Krystle, David and Mary did not agree on much of anything, but she

just stayed out of it and would go to her bedroom when David’s children were visiting. She

and David planned to get married.

Kyla Martin testified that she had helped Krystle and her children move to Arkansas

in 2018, and Krystle’s children broke windows, put holes in walls, and destroyed furniture

in the house. Kyla had witnessed Krystle’s and her children’s chaotic and violent behavior;

she saw T and V punch Krystle, and Krystle would hit back. Several years prior, she had

witnessed K throw tables across the room. Kyla had also witnessed David and Mary arguing

and making a scene in a parking lot.

The circuit court took the custody and visitation issues under advisement for several

days. In the divorce decree, Mary was awarded primary custody subject to David’s visitation:

4. The Court has significant concerns about the children staying overnight in Mr. Hardisty’s home based on the evidence presented. Therefore, Mr. Hardisty is awarded visitation with the minor children every other Saturday from 8:00 a.m. until 8:00 p.m. and on the following Sunday from 10:00 a.m. until 6:00 p.m. Weekend visitation will begin by taking place on Saturday, August 15, 2020 and Sunday, August 16, 2020.

4 5. Mr. Hardisty will also have visitation with the children every Thursday afternoon from the time they are released from school, or by 3:00 p.m. if they are not in school, until 6:00 p.m.

6. Mr.

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