Dasilva v. Dasilva, No. 525616 (Jan. 31, 1994)

1994 Conn. Super. Ct. 1020
CourtConnecticut Superior Court
DecidedJanuary 31, 1994
DocketNo. 525616
StatusUnpublished

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Bluebook
Dasilva v. Dasilva, No. 525616 (Jan. 31, 1994), 1994 Conn. Super. Ct. 1020 (Colo. Ct. App. 1994).

Opinion

[EDITOR'S NOTE: This case is unpublished as indicated by the issuing court.] MEMORANDUM OF DECISION CT Page 1021 The plaintiff wife commenced this action for a legal separation by complaint returnable February 2, 1993. She alleges that the marriage of the parties has broken down irretrievably and seeks alimony, a property settlement and other relief. The defendant husband admitted in his answer that the marriage had broken down irretrievably, and in his cross-complaint affirmatively alleged that ground, and seeks a dissolution of the marriage, an equitable division of the marital assets and other relief. Both parties were represented by counsel throughout the proceedings, including trial.

At the hearing, the parties testified, filed financial affidavits, submitted proposed written claims for relief and introduced a number of documentary materials into evidence. At the conclusion of the hearing on November 30, 1993, the parties requested and were granted until January 18, 1994 to file simultaneous briefs, social security benefit statements for each party in the light of their ages and present employment status, pro forma rental income and expense statements for each of their rental properties, and other information relating to husband's pension/retirement plan benefits, the current value of his Keough plan, and health and life insurance. The parties also desired time within which to determine whether it would be advantageous for them to file joint federal and state income tax returns. The court advised that it would declare the trial completed on the date the briefs were to be filed, and if reply or supplemental briefs were to be filed, no later than January 31, 1994. The parties filed briefs and supplemental materials and did not file reply briefs.

From the evidence, the court makes the following findings.

The plaintiff wife, whose birth name was Mary Gonsalves, married the defendant husband on March 2, 1957 in Stonington, Connecticut. She has resided continuously in this state for at least one year before the date of the complaint, which was December 8, 1992. All statutory stays have expired and the court has jurisdiction. The parties had three children, issue of the marriage, all of whom have reached their majority. No other minor children were born to the wife since the date of the marriage, and neither party is a recipient of public CT Page 1022 assistance.

The wife will be 61 years of age on January 13, 1994, is in good physical health, completed one year of high school in Portugal, and is not a United States citizen, but has established legal residence here. She entered this country in 1951 and worked at a velvet mill as a factory worker for twelve years including the first seven years of the parties' marriage. She left that employment after her first two children were born, and was the primary caretaker of the parties' children throughout the marriage, with the assistance of the husband's mother in the early years. She also did the majority of the household cooking cleaning, shopping etc. She was the primary homemaker, after she left her velvet mill employment, throughout the marriage. In addition, she regularly cleaned the parties' rental properties. From time to time, she also managed them when the husband was out to sea on his commercial fishing trips.

The husband will be 64 years of age on June 30, 1994, is in good health, received a high school equivalency diploma, and is a United States citizen. He worked steadily throughout the marriage; first, as a welder for about 26 years at Electric Boat, until he was fired (about 1977); then until recently, he worked as a commercial fisherman. He also managed the parties' rental properties which consisted of a twelve unit apartment house, a three unit apartment house, and two condominium units. When not at sea he made plumbing electrical and other repairs on the properties. He is now unemployed.

This marriage of more than 36 years duration, finally broke down when the parties separated September 1992 as the immediate result of the husband hitting the wife several times with a pan. He also destroyed much of her clothing by cutting it up with a sheet metal knife. She obtained a restraining order forcing the husband to move out of the family home, where she now resides with an adult daughter who pays some room and board. The husband resides alone in one of the rental units.

The marriage was punctuated by isolated acts of violence committed by the husband upon the wife. He also had a sexual relationship with his stepmother over 25 years ago. The husband claims however, that the wife was stubborn and rigid, and that they were unable to reasonably and rationally discuss family matters. This court finds this claim supported by the evasive manner in which the wife testified and her demeanor on CT Page 1023 the witness stand. Despite this claim, the court also finds that the husband was the dominant and domineering partner in this marriage, and that a larger share of the responsibility for its breakdown must be placed upon his shoulders.

The parties have accumulated significant assets as can be seen from their financial affidavits, tax returns and the evidence. The husband forged his wife's name to their 1992 federal income tax return and obtained a tax refund of $5308.25 which he used for his own purposes. He also withdrew $50,000 from his Keough plan, from which was withheld $19,000 for income taxes. He claims to have paid bills and taxes with the $31,000 net proceeds of that withdrawal, but the court does not find this claim wholly credible, as there was little, if any, supporting documentation.

The wife showed no income received from her adult daughter by way of rental, room and board or the like, on her financial affidavit; and this casts doubt on her credibility. The husband similarly neglected to show his small monthly pension and his interest in real property inherited by him from his parents in Portugal. The court does not condone the parties' actions in this regard, as they frustrate the ability of the court to determine the true financial status of the parties. The court and the parties have the right to rely on financial affidavits submitted in an action for dissolution, and it is the duty of each party to fully and fairly disclose his or her assets, income, expenses and liabilities. See Billington v. Billington, 23 Conn. App. 45 (1990), rev'd 220 Conn. 212, 219-220 (1991).

Although the amount of each party's annual earnings throughout the marriage was not introduced into evidence, with the exception of the parties' tax returns for the years 1990-1992, inclusive, it is clearly evident that the husband's earnings were substantially greater than those of the wife throughout the marriage, and therefore, so must have been his monetary contributions to the assets of the marriage. Despite his age, he has some employability. He also has superior vocational skills to those of the wife, and she has minimal employability. The wife's earnings which also were contributed to the marriage were supplemented by an inheritance from her mother's estate of $8,000 which went to pay down the mortgage on the 20 Granite Street property. The family dwelling at 193 Flanders Road, Stonington, was purchased with joint funds over CT Page 1024 30 years ago. It was mortgaged to enable the parties to purchase the 21 Grove Street property in 1966, and also to purchase the 20 Granite Street rental property in 1969. All of the parties' five properties were indeed in a sense joint ventures and their acquisition and maintenance and appreciations in value were accomplished by the efforts of both.

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