Darryl Randall Stasher Sr. v. Shirley A. Stasher

CourtCourt of Appeals of Mississippi
DecidedApril 14, 2026
Docket2024-CA-01302-COA
StatusPublished

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Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF MISSISSIPPI

NO. 2024-CA-01302-COA

DARRYL RANDALL STASHER SR. APPELLANT

v.

SHIRLEY A. STASHER APPELLEE

DATE OF JUDGMENT: 10/21/2024 TRIAL JUDGE: HON. CYNTHIA L. BREWER COURT FROM WHICH APPEALED: MADISON COUNTY CHANCERY COURT ATTORNEY FOR APPELLANT: RICK D. PATT ATTORNEYS FOR APPELLEE: E. CHARLENE STIMLEY PRIESTER MELVIN VINCENT PRIESTER JR. NATURE OF THE CASE: CIVIL - DOMESTIC RELATIONS DISPOSITION: AFFIRMED - 04/14/2026 MOTION FOR REHEARING FILED:

BEFORE BARNES, C.J., LAWRENCE AND EMFINGER, JJ.

LAWRENCE, J., FOR THE COURT:

¶1. Shirley and Darryl Stasher were married for approximately thirty years before

separating. Shirley filed a petition for divorce in the Madison County Chancery Court,

alleging adultery and habitual cruel and inhuman treatment. The chancellor granted Shirley’s

petition on the ground of habitual cruel and inhuman treatment and conducted an equitable

distribution of the couple’s marital property. Aggrieved by the chancellor’s decision, Darryl

appeals. Finding no error, we affirm.

FACTUAL BACKGROUND

¶2. Shirley and Darryl married on August 12, 1989, in Jackson, Mississippi. For the

duration of their marriage, the couple had two children, both of whom were adults at the time of these proceedings. The couple separated on September 4, 2021,1 when Shirley left the

marital home alleging she was “in fear [for] her safety.”

¶3. On September 14, 2021, Shirley filed a petition for divorce in the Madison County

Chancery Court. Her petition alleged habitual cruel and inhuman treatment and adultery or,

in the alternative, irreconcilable differences. She also requested alimony and temporary

restraining orders. The chancellor granted a motion for continuance filed by Darryl on

October 1, 2021. A hearing regarding Shirley’s motion for temporary relief was conducted

on November 9, 2021, and a temporary order was entered the same day. Of note, the

temporary order kept both parties “from disposing of any marital asset without court

approval” and ordered that an appraisal be conducted as to the couple’s real property. Darryl

filed his answer to Shirley’s complaint on November 19, 2021.

¶4. On December 10, 2021, Shirley filed a motion to appoint appraisers for the marital

property as directed in the chancellor’s temporary order. The chancellor granted her motion

on December 14, 2021. On January 5, 2022, Shirley filed a motion for contempt that alleged

Darryl had not complied with instructions to have the property appraised and had, in fact,

prevented appraisals from being conducted. Approximately one month later, she filed a

motion to compel Darryl to answer discovery.

¶5. On November 29, 2022, the chancellor conducted a hearing, first acknowledging,

“The parties have been unsuccessful in determining whether they are in agreement to the end

of the marriage.” Shirley testified first:

1 The date of separation is denoted as both September 4 and September 7, but Shirley testified that she left on September 4.

2 The first year of my marriage a child was conceived during our marriage. Darryl came to me crying saying that a woman was taking him to court for child support, and so he said the child was not his because the lady told him that she could not get pregnant.

He told me that he was being, you know, taken to court for child support for a child, and he said the child was not his. So paternity was done, and it was determined that it was his child.

When asked why she stayed with Darryl after this, Shirley explained that they were “in a

wedge” and that she “was trying to hold this marriage together.” For twenty-one years,

Darryl “pa[id] [$]175 a month” in child support to this woman.

¶6. Shirley then stated that on a Sunday morning in or around 1994, Darryl told her he

was “going to U-Haul.” She “didn’t believe him” based on “what had happened before.”

So I got dressed, went to U-Haul. When I got there he was not there. I looked across the street, and as I was leaving I saw his car parked in front of a hotel. . . . I identified what room he was in. I went up to the room, knocked on the door. He came to the window [naked], opened - - looked right in my face and then closed the curtain. I continued to knock on the door. He did not answer anymore. I went downstairs. I sat in my car. I saw him peeping out of the window, but he never came out.

On the topic of adultery, Shirley also stated:

Throughout the marriage he was always on the phone talking to females. . . . I would walk in, he’s having conversations, “What are you wearing?” I caught him sneaking back into the house at night. One night he went out and he wrecked my car.

¶7. In addition, Shirley testified that in August 2016:

When he was working for [Jackson Police Department, or,] JPD he came home one evening. He came home early, so I knew something was wrong. He started telling my daughter and I about, [‘]There is a video out there, but it’s not true. . . .[’] He found the video somehow, and he showed it to my daughter. Then my daughter shared it with me. He was soliciting sex from a 17-year-old. . . . He said [‘]This is not true. It’s not me. They’re setting me up.[’] But it was

3 clearly his voice.

Darryl’s employment was subsequently terminated with JPD.

¶8. Shirley testified that in August 2021:

[A]s I came in to set up my computer to start working he approached me, and he said that, The check writing account with Ameriprise, I have closed that account. He was walking away. He started calling me all kind of Bs out of my name as he was walking away. At that time, I asked him, Why don’t you just leave? We don’t want you here. He said, This is my MFing house. You can leave. He said, If you keep talking to me, I will end your life. He came over. I was setting up to do my work. He knocked all of my supplies off of the table, my glasses, my pens, my folders. . . . I feared for my life. He told me, I will end your life.

Shirley stated that after this, she began having panic attacks.

¶9. Shirley stated that the following incident occurred soon after the previous incident.

He knocked on the door upstairs, talked to [her] friends. He came down and asked me who were those people upstairs. I told him those were friends of Jasmine’s. They couldn’t check into their hotel room. They were scheduled to go to a wedding and they came here to get dressed. . . . [Darryl] went upstairs, took a shower, put his gun around his waist, came downstairs, and as they were leaving he motioned me to our bedroom. He said, I don’t want anybody in this MFing house. He said When Jasmine gets married she cannot live here, and on Monday I am changing all the locks, all the codes, and she just won’t be allowed to be here. . . . At that point, he was in my face. I was scared. I didn’t say anything. I feared for my life. And when he left the room and her friends left, I went and I started packing. I packed a bag. I waited for him to leave. He put the gun on around 1:00. He did not leave the house until 5:00. I went in. I packed a bag. When he left, I told Jasmine and DJ, it is not safe here. We’ve got to leave.

Shirley explained that Darryl did not typically walk around the house with his gun on him

and that this was his first time doing so.

¶10. Due to an emergency weather alert, the chancellor ended the hearing in the middle of

Shirley’s cross-examination and continued the hearing. The chancellor verbally ordered

4 “both parties to participate in meaningful settlement negotiations” and ordered “the attorneys

to pick a mediator to be paid from marital funds[.]”

¶11.

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