Dale Steenrod v. Cathlene Pidgeon

CourtCourt of Appeals of Texas
DecidedJuly 25, 2024
Docket03-22-00659-CV
StatusPublished

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Opinion

TEXAS COURT OF APPEALS, THIRD DISTRICT, AT AUSTIN

NO. 03-22-00659-CV

Dale Steenrod, Appellant

v.

Cathlene Pidgeon, Appellee

FROM THE 353RD DISTRICT COURT OF TRAVIS COUNTY NO. D-1-FM-19-005671, THE HONORABLE LORA J. LIVINGSTON, JUDGE PRESIDING

MEMORANDUM OPINION

Dale Steenrod (Father) appeals from the trial court’s amended final divorce

decree appointing him and Cathlene Pidgeon (Mother) joint managing conservators of their

daughter (Daughter), who was ten at the time of the bench trial. Father takes issue with the

decree’s conservatorship and possession provisions and its property division. For the following

reasons, we will affirm the divorce decree.

BACKGROUND

Father filed an original petition in a suit affecting the parent–child relationship

(SAPCR) in August 2019. He included in his petition a request for a temporary ex parte order to

deny Mother access to Daughter, alleging that Mother had engaged in child neglect and

supporting his request with an affidavit. Father also requested a temporary restraining order and

permanent injunction preventing Mother from hiding Daughter from him and withdrawing her from enrollment at school, school activities, or the care of any person caring for her. In his

affidavit, Father averred that Mother “has been diagnosed by a psychiatrist at Austin Oaks

Hospital and other institutions as schizophrenic with episodes of psychosis” and has “at times

completely vanished from the home during the above mentioned episodes.” He further averred

that he had recently been informed by Rock Springs Hospital in Georgetown, Texas, that Mother

was admitted there for inpatient mental-health treatment about a month prior, that Mother had

since been released, and that he and Daughter had not heard from Mother since her admission.

The trial court issued an ex parte temporary restraining order prohibiting Mother from

withdrawing Daughter from school or hiding her from Father, which order remained in effect for

about three weeks.

About the same time, Mother filed an original petition for divorce, alleging that

she and Father ceased living together as spouses in July 2019.1 Thereafter Father filed a plea in

abatement, alleging that no marriage exists or has ever existed between him and Mother and that

the parties merely resided together for many years but had recently separated. Father filed a

motion for summary judgment requesting the court to dispose of all claims related to marriage

and to declare that the parties were never formally or informally married. Mother filed a motion

for declaratory judgment, supported by her affidavit, requesting that the court determine that the

parties are married under common law.

In January 2020, the trial court rendered agreed temporary orders appointing both

parties temporary joint managing conservators, granting Father the exclusive right to designate

Daughter’s primary residence at the parties’ family home, and specifying periods for Mother’s

1 According to the undisputed evidence at trial, after her release from Rock Springs Hospital, Mother left Father and moved to New York, where the parties met and where Mother’s family lives.

2 possession and that such possession shall be exercised at the family home (while Father is gone)

and be supervised by a member of Mother’s family. The temporary orders also required Father

to pay Mother monthly temporary support. In a March 19, 2020 order, the trial court granted

Mother’s motion for declaratory judgment, finding that the parties were common-law married

in Texas as of January 1, 1998; denied Father’s motion for summary judgment; and rendered

further temporary orders permitting Mother to exercise her visitation periods within ten miles of

the family home and, among other provisions, required Father to pay a portion of Mother’s

airfare and hotel expenses incurred to exercise her right to possession.

Trial to the bench occurred, virtually, July 12–15, 2021. Father and Mother each

testified, relating vastly different accounts of the parties’ relationship, assets, and financial

information as well as of Mother’s mental-health issues. Mother testified that she and Father

started dating when she was about twenty and that Father’s “general attitude towards women” is

that “all women are stupid” and he “doesn’t have very good respect for women.” She described

Father as very “controlling” of her whereabouts, her clothing and hairstyles, and her contact with

friends, usually “chas[ing] them away.” Mother did not have a driver’s license, largely because

Father convinced her that women were bad drivers and causing her to become too anxious to

practice her driving or take the exam, and he did not allow her to ride on public buses because

they were dirty or to take taxis because they were expensive. Mother therefore relied on Father

for all her transportation needs. Mother testified that she felt “belittled, put down, [and] basically

worthless” by the way Father treated her, which made her “question [her] own sanity.” Mother

admitted that she has seen many doctors and psychiatrists over the years to help with her mental

health, but she explained that most of the time she “wasn’t able to speak for” herself because

3 Father would “control the conversation” and tell the doctors what was wrong with her, and he

often told her what to say.

Mother testified that she has been prescribed Risperdal since a 2008

hospitalization that was spurred, in part, by her lack of sleep for ten days and leaving the family

home to stay in a hotel because she had received an anonymous call that Father was cheating on

her. Mother testified that she takes two medications currently, Benztropine and Risperdal, and

has been taking them for approximately the last two years. She explained that the Benztropine is

used to “calm the effects” of the Risperdal, which—according to her New York healthcare

providers—is used to help her sleep because she has a hard time sleeping. She testified that

Father helped sneak her out of the hospital after her 2008 hospitalization.

Mother testified that at home, Father always “controlled everything,” including

administering her medicine, which he kept locked up in a safe and administered to her in the

doses and at the times he saw fit, sometimes reducing her dosages or skipping them if he

believed she didn’t need them. Father also gave Mother very expensive jewelry as gifts on

special occasions, and he required her to keep it locked up in a safe; she would have to ask him

to take it out for her if she wanted to wear it. Mother testified to some physical abuse by Father,

and she spoke about how Father slowly over time alienated her from her family. Mother

explained that she has since learned in therapy that Father was “gaslighting” her—manipulating

and controlling her, making her think that what she was saying was not true, and making

her question her own sanity. Mother testified that Father had told her that he would “kill my

nieces and nephews starting with the youngest one working the way up and all the way up to

the oldest one.”

4 Father testified that Mother has serious mental illness—she has been diagnosed

with schizophrenia and bipolar disorder—describing two instances when Mother “vanished”

from the family home without telling him or Daughter where she was for about a month. The

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