Dale Steenrod v. Cathlene Pidgeon

Court of Appeals of Texas·Decided July 25, 2024·No. 03-22-00659-CV·Published

Opinion

TEXAS COURT OF APPEALS, THIRD DISTRICT, AT AUSTIN

NO. 03-22-00659-CV

Dale Steenrod, Appellant

v.

Cathlene Pidgeon, Appellee

FROM THE 353RD DISTRICT COURT OF TRAVIS COUNTY NO. D-1-FM-19-005671, THE HONORABLE LORA J. LIVINGSTON, JUDGE PRESIDING

MEMORANDUM OPINION

Dale Steenrod (Father) appeals from the trial court’s amended final divorce decree appointing him and Cathlene Pidgeon (Mother) joint managing conservators of their daughter (Daughter), who was ten at the time of the bench trial. Father takes issue with the decree’s conservatorship and possession provisions and its property division. For the following reasons, we will affirm the divorce decree.

BACKGROUND

Father filed an original petition in a suit affecting the parent–child relationship (SAPCR) in August 2019. He included in his petition a request for a temporary ex parte order to deny Mother access to Daughter, alleging that Mother had engaged in child neglect and supporting his request with an affidavit. Father also requested a temporary restraining order and permanent injunction preventing Mother from hiding Daughter from him and withdrawing her

from enrollment at school, school activities, or the care of any person caring for her. In his affidavit, Father averred that Mother “has been diagnosed by a psychiatrist at Austin Oaks Hospital and other institutions as schizophrenic with episodes of psychosis” and has “at times completely vanished from the home during the above mentioned episodes.” He further averred that he had recently been informed by Rock Springs Hospital in Georgetown, Texas, that Mother was admitted there for inpatient mental-health treatment about a month prior, that Mother had since been released, and that he and Daughter had not heard from Mother since her admission. The trial court issued an ex parte temporary restraining order prohibiting Mother from withdrawing Daughter from school or hiding her from Father, which order remained in effect for about three weeks.

About the same time, Mother filed an original petition for divorce, alleging that she and Father ceased living together as spouses in July 2019.1 Thereafter Father filed a plea in abatement, alleging that no marriage exists or has ever existed between him and Mother and that the parties merely resided together for many years but had recently separated. Father filed a motion for summary judgment requesting the court to dispose of all claims related to marriage and to declare that the parties were never formally or informally married. Mother filed a motion for declaratory judgment, supported by her affidavit, requesting that the court determine that the parties are married under common law.

In January 2020, the trial court rendered agreed temporary orders appointing both parties temporary joint managing conservators, granting Father the exclusive right to designate Daughter’s primary residence at the parties’ family home, and specifying periods for Mother’s

1 According to the undisputed evidence at trial, after her release from Rock Springs Hospital, Mother left Father and moved to New York, where the parties met and where Mother’s family lives.

possession and that such possession shall be exercised at the family home (while Father is gone) and be supervised by a member of Mother’s family. The temporary orders also required Father to pay Mother monthly temporary support. In a March 19, 2020 order, the trial court granted Mother’s motion for declaratory judgment, finding that the parties were common-law married in Texas as of January 1, 1998; denied Father’s motion for summary judgment; and rendered further temporary orders permitting Mother to exercise her visitation periods within ten miles of the family home and, among other provisions, required Father to pay a portion of Mother’s airfare and hotel expenses incurred to exercise her right to possession.

Trial to the bench occurred, virtually, July 12–15, 2021. Father and Mother each testified, relating vastly different accounts of the parties’ relationship, assets, and financial information as well as of Mother’s mental-health issues. Mother testified that she and Father started dating when she was about twenty and that Father’s “general attitude towards women” is that “all women are stupid” and he “doesn’t have very good respect for women.” She described Father as very “controlling” of her whereabouts, her clothing and hairstyles, and her contact with friends, usually “chas[ing] them away.” Mother did not have a driver’s license, largely because Father convinced her that women were bad drivers and causing her to become too anxious to practice her driving or take the exam, and he did not allow her to ride on public buses because they were dirty or to take taxis because they were expensive. Mother therefore relied on Father for all her transportation needs. Mother testified that she felt “belittled, put down, [and] basically worthless” by the way Father treated her, which made her “question [her] own sanity.” Mother admitted that she has seen many doctors and psychiatrists over the years to help with her mental health, but she explained that most of the time she “wasn’t able to speak for” herself because

Father would “control the conversation” and tell the doctors what was wrong with her, and he often told her what to say.

Mother testified that she has been prescribed Risperdal since a 2008 hospitalization that was spurred, in part, by her lack of sleep for ten days and leaving the family home to stay in a hotel because she had received an anonymous call that Father was cheating on her. Mother testified that she takes two medications currently, Benztropine and Risperdal, and has been taking them for approximately the last two years. She explained that the Benztropine is used to “calm the effects” of the Risperdal, which—according to her New York healthcare providers—is used to help her sleep because she has a hard time sleeping. She testified that Father helped sneak her out of the hospital after her 2008 hospitalization.

Mother testified that at home, Father always “controlled everything,” including administering her medicine, which he kept locked up in a safe and administered to her in the doses and at the times he saw fit, sometimes reducing her dosages or skipping them if he believed she didn’t need them. Father also gave Mother very expensive jewelry as gifts on special occasions, and he required her to keep it locked up in a safe; she would have to ask him to take it out for her if she wanted to wear it. Mother testified to some physical abuse by Father, and she spoke about how Father slowly over time alienated her from her family. Mother explained that she has since learned in therapy that Father was “gaslighting” her—manipulating and controlling her, making her think that what she was saying was not true, and making her question her own sanity. Mother testified that Father had told her that he would “kill my nieces and nephews starting with the youngest one working the way up and all the way up to the oldest one.”

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