Crystal Lashaun Flack v. Michael Mendoza, Sr.

Texas Court of Appeals, 8th District (El Paso)·Decided March 26, 2026·No. 08-24-00358-CV·Published

Opinion

COURT OF APPEALS

EIGHTH DISTRICT OF TEXAS

EL PASO, TEXAS

the same month. Both alleged insupportability and adultery as grounds for divorce, and Mendoza additionally alleged cruelty. Both sought to confirm their individual property, and both sought to be awarded a disproportionate share of community property. Both also sought reimbursement for community funds expended by the other party for the benefit of that party or that party’s separate estate. While Flack and Mendoza were both initially represented by counsel, Flack’s counsel was permitted to withdraw before trial and Flack proceeded pro se. A bench trial was held on July 10, 2024. Flack and Mendoza were the sole testifying witnesses.

The couple owned a home together. Flack estimated they had about $196,000 in equity in the home, while Mendoza estimated they had about $169,000. Both Flack and Mendoza were receiving VA disability payments—Flack in the amount of $4,256 per month and Mendoza in the amount of $2,165 per month. Flack and Mendoza also both had federal pension accounts. While the account balances were unknown, Flack worked for about 11 years for the United States Postal Service and spent 8 years in the military, and Mendoza worked for 28 years for the Postal Service and spent 12 years in the military. There was testimony that Mendoza’s military service was reflected in his pension account, but not whether the same was true for Flack. Flack and Mendoza each also had a 401K Thrift Savings Plan account. As of December 2022, Mendoza’s account had $118,000 in it. Flack’s account had between $34,000 to $40,000 in it, but she withdrew the funds and lost them in TD Ameritrade stock trading, leaving a current balance of $4.78 in the trading account. Mendoza testified that he did not agree with Flack’s decision to withdraw the funds in her savings account and use them to engage in trading stocks and advised against it.

As to other financial matters, Mendoza testified that Flack withdrew $54,000 from a joint bank account and deposited these funds in a separate account shortly before filing for divorce, that these funds came from his disability compensation, and that the funds were never reimbursed. In addition, for 2022, the parties’ joint TD Ameritrade account, which was controlled solely by Flack,

reflected an opening balance of $0.43, $52,770 in deposits, $256,078.45 in losses, and a closing balance of $29,646.50.

As to fault, Mendoza admitted that he had an affair “over 16, 18 years ago,” but stated he and Flack were able to reconcile and had a happy marriage afterwards. There was no testimony that Flack had an affair.

As to cruelty, Mendoza testified that at one point he had to temporarily leave the home and rent an apartment because Flack would “constantly just come at [him] for hours,” and be on the phone “for hours” with another man:

[E]very time I come home my wife would constantly just come at me for hours, for hours, wouldn’t get no sleep, couldn’t get no sleep. I get up at 4:00 o’clock in the morning, that’s when I start my day, go to work. She just for hours—and she be on the phone talking with another person, Williams, I think that’s his name, for hours, talking about me, talking about my personal business for hours. I was stressed and I had to leave.

. . .

[S]he’s always talking to him by phone every day, and they always talking. They was trying to do some business, talking -- they did a lot of stuff, they talked about a lot of things over the phone. I mean when I’m home.

Mendoza testified that he thought Williams was “a big influence on [Flack] divorcing [him],” and that the marriage would not have broken down if Williams had not become involved.

Mendoza further testified that on November 18, 2022, Flack permanently moved out:

Q. And when did your wife move out?

A. November 18, 2022.

Q. And how did you learn that she moved out?

A. I came home, excuse me, when I came home I knew she was gone. That’s when everything was gone. She load up, I mean everything was gone. She had her boxes packed, I didn’t know how she was going to leave but I didn’t think she was going to leave. But, yeah, November 18th when I came home from work that evening that’s when I found out she left.2

2 Without further explanation, Flack characterized her leaving the home as “fleeing.”

After Flack moved out, Mendoza was left to pay the mortgage and household expenses by himself. When asked if he had any hope of reconciling with Flack, Mendoza answered:

I did when she first left. I waited a week, then I text her and I sent her an email and told her that I retired, I do -- I want you back, and she never responded to me. I didn’t hear from her no more in over a year. That’s when I next heard from her. And at that time I gave it up, I spent too much money into this divorce. So it was something we both wanted.

At the conclusion of the hearing, the trial court granted the parties a divorce and took the property division issues under advisement. On August 16, 2024, the trial court signed a final decree of divorce based on the ground of insupportability. The decree awarded to each party the following items in that party’s possession or control or bearing that party’s name: household furniture and furnishings; personal effects; vehicles; cash and bank accounts; life insurance; brokerage accounts; profit-sharing, retirement, and other employee benefits; and IRAs, annuities, and pensions. The joint TD Ameritrade account was awarded to Flack, and a joint University Federal Credit Union account was awarded to Mendoza. Flack was also awarded a Cadillac in Mendoza’s possession. The home was ordered to be sold, with Mendoza to pay the mortgage, taxes, insurance, and other household expenses pending the sale, and with Mendoza to receive the first $30,000 in proceeds,3 the remainder to be split evenly between the parties. The trial court made a finding that this distribution reflected a “just and right division of the parties’ marital estate, having due regard for the rights of each party.” Neither party requested findings of fact and conclusions of law. This appeal followed.

II. ISSUES ON APPEAL

On appeal, Flack argues that the trial court abused its discretion in “awarding a property

division that included a disproportionate share of the [community] estate being awarded to

3 The decree states that Mendoza was awarded this amount “due to the lack of good faith participation in the case by [Flack] in addition to her refusal to sign the motion to withdraw of her counsel after discharging her counsel.”

[Mendoza].”

III. STANDARD OF REVIEW AND APPLICABLE LAW In granting a divorce, the trial court must “order a division of the estate of the parties in a

manner that the court deems just and right, having due regard for the rights of each party and any children of the marriage.” Tex. Fam. Code Ann. § 7.001. We review a trial court’s division of community property for an abuse of discretion. Penick v. Penick, 783 S.W.2d 194, 198 (Tex. 1988); Paez v. Rodriguez, No. 03-24-00731-CV, 2025 WL 2325163, at *2 (Tex. App.—Austin Aug. 13, 2025, no pet.) (mem. op.). A trial court abuses its discretion if it rules arbitrarily, unreasonably, without regard for guiding rules or principles, or without supporting evidence. Transcor Astra Grp. S.A. v. Petrobras Am. Inc., 650 S.W.3d 462, 482 (Tex. 2022).

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