Contra Costa County Social Services Department v. Gerald K.

14 Cal. App. 4th 549, 18 Cal. Rptr. 2d 22, 93 Cal. Daily Op. Serv. 2438, 1993 Cal. App. LEXIS 346
CourtCalifornia Court of Appeal
DecidedMarch 19, 1993
DocketNo. A057245
StatusPublished
Cited by3 cases

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Contra Costa County Social Services Department v. Gerald K., 14 Cal. App. 4th 549, 18 Cal. Rptr. 2d 22, 93 Cal. Daily Op. Serv. 2438, 1993 Cal. App. LEXIS 346 (Cal. Ct. App. 1993).

Opinion

Opinion

ANDERSON, P. J.

By amended notice of appeal appellant Gerald K. seeks review of (1) an order sustaining jurisdictional findings concerning his son, Alexander (Sasha) K., bom September 6, 1984; and (2) a dispositional order prohibiting visitation and contact between father and son except as agreed upon by their respective therapists.

I. Background

A. Pre-Petition Events

During a six-month period in 1985, appellant assaulted his wife, Ana C., five times. He grabbed her neck and choked her. Sasha screamed and appellant would hold him, saying the mother was too upset. The couple [552]*552separated in October of that year when Sasha was 13 months old. Appellant was Sasha’s primary caretaker the first year of his life.

Sasha lived with his mother after the separation; visitation was by informal arrangement, and there were some overnights. A more formal schedule was worked out with a mediator from family court services. Appellant lived in Kansas from about March 1987 to April 1988 and Sasha visited him there on several occasions.

From Ms. C.’s perspective, visitation “went pretty well” during this time frame and Sasha generally “was very excited to see his father . . . .” After a visit he would be “quite excitable” and sometimes had stomach pain.

In May 1989 Ms. C. reported a change in Sasha’s attitude toward visiting his father. On May 5 Sasha got out of the car as usual but when his mother started to leave, he grabbed her and said he did not want to stay. Appellant had to carry Sasha to the house, kicking and screaming. On May 12 Sasha again started saying he did not want to go to his father’s. Upon arriving at appellant’s house, Sasha locked the car doors and rolled up all the windows. During the next couple of days Sasha told his mother he did not want to “see his daddy ever again.”

Sometime around one of the May 1989 visits Sasha complained that it hurt to urinate. Ms. C. noticed Sasha’s penis was red and inflamed and there were spots of blood in his underwear. Two weeks later she took him to a doctor who described the symptoms as being consistent with an uncircumcised male. Also after one of the visits, Sasha vomited early in the morning and woke up crying.

After these incidents Ms. C. refused to take Sasha for his May 19 visit and, instead, filed a report with child protective services (CPS). She felt “Sasha had been mistreated, possibly sexually molested, by his father.” At this time Sasha began having supervised visits and started seeing a therapist, Dr. Michael Baar. CPS did not initiate any proceedings.

Sasha did “pretty well” with these visits and seemed to “want to go” to see his father. Then, in February 1991, he again hid under Ms. C.’s coat, cried and said he did not want to stay with his father. Around this time Ms. C. also observed that Sasha’s penis was inflamed, with a mucus discharge. Sasha’s doctor prescribed a homeopathic remedy. Sasha often complained of nausea and stomach pain after visiting his dad. And, for the first time Sasha “French kissed” his mom, explaining his friends at school taught him.

The next month George Schumer, Sasha’s stepfather, took Sasha for a visit with his dad. Schumer reported that Sasha crawled into the back of the truck and did not want to get out; appellant had to carry him out of the truck.

[553]*553Then on March 6, 1991, appellant and Sasha went to Nation’s restaurant for dinner. John and Erin Hennessey were sitting at a nearby table and saw the two eating and working on a puzzle. When puzzle pieces fell on the floor, Sasha crawled under the table, picked them up and placed them back on the table. Mrs. Hennessey testified that on five occasions she saw Sasha put his hands on appellant’s crotch and move his hands. Appellant reacted only once, when he said “Sasha,” which Mrs. Hennessey thought was a pet name for penis.1 She called her husband’s attention to the situation; he reported seeing the last three incidents. The Hennesseys reported the matter to the police.

The Contra Costa County Department of Social Services (Department) filed a petition on March 15, 1991, alleging that Sasha’s father had molested him on numerous occasions. The next month the Department filed an amended petition with six specific allegations.

B. Jurisdictional Hearing

The jurisdictional hearing was held over the course of seven months, during which time two counts were dismissed. We summarize the pertinent testimony.

(1) Mental Health Experts

A number of experts testified as to Sasha’s and appellant’s mental health. Dr. Baar, clinical psychologist, saw Sasha during the period June 1989 through March 1991. He concluded “there was a disturbance in Sasha’s relationship to adult male figures.” This disturbance manifested itself in Sasha’s erratic relationship with the therapist. At the beginning of the therapeutic relationship, Dr. Baar found Sasha withdrawn, somewhat frightened and mildly depressed; these characteristics became less problematic with treatment. Dr. Baar also found him to be “quite angry.” He felt Sasha had been the recipient of some level of trauma, but could not exactly identify the source. Possible sources were his parents’ divorce; the history of violence between his parents; the absence of his father for approximately one year; and his mother’s addictive relationship to marijuana until early 1989. Dr. Baar did not discover anything indicating Sasha had been sexually abused.

Sasha did not want to talk about his refusal to visit in May 1989. That summer he voiced some objections to seeing his father, but these were [554]*554typical objections against reasonable parental limits. Once visits resumed, Sasha’s feedback generally was positive; at times he was “thrilled” about seeing his dad again.

Dr. Baar also had an opportunity to meet with appellant. In the summer of 1989 Dr. Baar was concerned about appellant’s anger and intrusive behavior. However, once Dr. Baar set limits, appellant would “normalize.” Dr. Baar felt “rebuffed” by appellant, but did not take it personally. Rather, he attributed this behavior to appellant’s belief that he was an innocent victim being manipulated by the child abuse industry and perhaps by Ms. C.

Psychologist Rosemary Bower also met several times with Sasha, administered some tests, met with appellant and observed a father-son visit. Based on observing Sasha during play therapy, she concluded he was “very frightened of one particular person,” he felt alone and that he was facing overwhelming forces. Dr. Bower thought Sasha was both frightened and protective of his father. Sasha expressed to her that he was “kind of scared” of his father and did not want to see him. The Rorschach test brought out that Sasha was very depressed, anxious, afraid, and felt out of control in his world.

Dr. Bower also commented on the “frantic episodes” of stuffing rocks into orifices of anatomically complete dolls. She did not “necessarily” interpret this to mean that Sasha had been sexually molested; however, the behavior did indicate he was anxious about sexual matters and had experienced sexuality. He also demonstrated that when he did not like little girls, he would grab his penis and point at them. Sasha said his dad told him to do that, then said God told him. Dr.

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