Abrams, J.
On March 9, 1994, a District Court jury found the defendant, Martin F. Delaney, Jr., guilty of five counts of violating a protective order issued pursuant to G. L. c. 209A.1 The defendant appeals from the convictions, as well as from an order denying his motion for a new trial on various grounds. We transferred the case here on our motion. We affirm.
The following facts are not in dispute. On August 31, 1992, the victim, the defendant’s former female companion, obtained an ex parte protective order against the defendant pursuant to G. L. c. 209A, § 4. The order stated that the defendant was to refrain from having any contact with the victim, and specifically restrained the defendant from following the victim and making telephone calls to her. The order also stated that there was to be a hearing on September 11, 1992, to determine whether the order would be extended and that the defendant “may appear, with or without an attorney, to oppose any extension or expansion of this [ojrder. If the defendant does not appear, an extended or expanded [ojrder may remain in effect for up to one year.” Service of the temporary order was made by leaving a copy of it at the defendant’s last and usual place of abode on September 1, 1992. On September 11, 1992, the defendant did not appear at the hearing; the order was extended for one year to September 10, 1993. The extended order contained the same [589] terms as the temporary order, but there is no evidence that the extended order was ever served on the defendant.
There was evidence from which the jury could have found the following facts. On September 14, 1992, the defendant telephoned the victim and stated, “You got a restraining order against me.” The defendant offered to put a clutch in the victim’s automobile for free if she would “drop” the restraining order against him. The defendant again telephoned the victim on September 18, 1992, and asked the victim to “give [him] another chance.” On September 28, 1992, the defendant forced the victim’s automobile off the road and apparently referring to charges in an unrelated matter told her, “You are going to drop the charges or else.” The defendant was arrested following this incident. On October 8, 1992, the defendant pulled his vehicle up behind the victim and asked her “if [they] could handle their problems outside of court.” Again, the defendant was arrested. Finally, on November 2, the defendant blocked the victim’s vehicle as she tried to leave a gasoline station.
On appeal, the defendant argues that, because he never was served with the extended order he was charged with violating, the judge improperly asserted jurisdiction over this case and denied him his due process rights under the Fourteenth Amendment to the United States Constitution and art. 12 of the Massachusetts Declaration of Rights. The defendant also argues that the Commonwealth improperly joined the charges against him; he alleges error in the jury instructions and claims that the judge’s biased treatment of defense counsel deprived him of his right to a fair trial. Finally, the defendant claims that his motion for a new trial was improperly denied because the Commonwealth’s closing argument distorted the evidence against him.2
1. Failure to serve the extended order. The defendant first argues that the failure to serve him with a copy of the extended order deprived the District Court judge of subject matter jurisdiction over his case. Because it is clear that the District Court had subject matter jurisdiction,3 we treat the defendant’s argument as asserting that the statute requires that there be [590] personal service on the defendant before he can be convicted of violating the order. We conclude that personal service of the extended order is not required.
General Laws c. 209A, § 7, requires that a copy of an order issued under §§ 3, 4, or 5 of G. L. c. 209A be served on a defendant.4 The defendant argues, therefore, that, absent such service, he cannot be convicted of violating an order issued pursuant to G. L. c. 209A. The defendant’s argument, however, [591] ignores the fact that the temporary order was served on him at Ms last and usual place of abode and that the evidence warranted a finding that he had knowledge of the order. TMs order warned the defendant that, if he failed to appear, “an extended or expanded [o]rder may remain in effect.”5 Section 4 mandates that “the temporary order[] shall continue in effect without further order of the court” when the defendant fails to appear (emphasis added).6 The jury could have found that the defendant had actual and constructive notice of the order and that it continued in effect after the hearing date. In these circumstances the service of the extended order on the defendant was not a prerequisite to his prosecution for violating the terms of the order. This, however, does not end our inquiry. The defendant also argues that prosecuting a defendant for violating an order that has not been served on him violates the defendant’s due process rights.
As the defendant points out, “[t]he fundamental requisite of due process is an opportumty to be heard at a meamngful time and in a meaningful manner.” Matter of Kenney, 399 Mass. 431, 435 (1987). See Langlitz v. Board of Registration of Chiropractors, 396 Mass. 374, 376 (1985); LaPointe v. License Bd. of Worcester, 389 Mass. 454, 458 (1983). The defendant, however, does not argue that he was deprived of an opportumty to be heard before the judge entered the extended order.7 Apparently, the defendant’s argument is that, because he was not served with a copy of the extended order, he was precluded from moving to have the extended order vacated. G. L. c. 209A, § 3 (“[t]he court may modify its order at any subsequent time [592] upon motion by either party”). The ex parte order informed the defendant that an extended order might be entered against him if he did not appear at the hearing. This information was certainly sufficient to put the defendant on notice, for “[njotice of facts which would incite a person of reasonable prudence to an inquiry under similar circumstances is notice of all the facts which a reasonably diligent inquiry would develop.” Commonwealth v. Olivo, 369 Mass. 62, 69 (1975), quoting Essex Nat’l Bank v. Hurley, 16 F.2d 427, 428 (1st Cir. 1926). Indeed, a party may not “shut his eyes to the means of knowledge which he knows are at hand, and thereby escape the consequences which would flow from the notice if it had actually been received.” Commonwealth v. Olivo, supra, quoting NLRB v. Local 3, Bloomingdale Dist. 65, Retail, Wholesale & Dep’t Store Union, 216 F.2d 285, 288 (2d Cir. 1954). Thus, the defendant, who with reasonable inquiry could have discovered that the temporary order had been extended, cannot be heard to complain that he was deprived of an opportunity to seek to have that extended order vacated.
Due process also requires that a person be given a “reasonable opportunity to know what the order prohibited, so that he might act accordingly.” Commonwealth v. Butler, 40 Mass. App. Ct. 906, 907 (1996). See Commonwealth v. Freiberg, 405 Mass. 282, 289, cert, denied, 493 U.S. 940 (1989) (due process requires that individuals receive fair notice of conduct proscribed by statute); Department of Youth Servs. v. A Juvenile, 398 Mass. 516, 522 (1986) (same); Commonwealth v. Williams, 395 Mass. 302, 304 (1985), quoting Kolender v. Lawson, 461 U.S. 352, 357 (1974) (“penal statute must ‘define the criminal offense with sufficient definiteness that ordinary people can understand what conduct is prohibited and in a manner that does not encourage arbitrary and discriminatory enforcement’ ”). Clearly, a showing that a defendant was served with a copy of a court order is strong evidence that a defendant had knowledge that certain conduct would not be permitted and could result in a criminal conviction. The failure of such service, however, is not fatal where the Commonwealth can prove beyond a reasonable doubt that the defendant had actual knowledge of the terms of the order. Bongiovi v. LaBeet, 155 A.D.2d 320, 321 (N.Y. 1989) (“[a]t any rate, respondent conceded that she was, in fact, aware of the order of protection and, therefore, personal service need not be demonstrated”). Cf. [593] State v. Delap, 466 N.W.2d 264, 269 (Iowa Ct. App. 1990) (whether order sufficiently clear, definite and unambiguous to support contempt adjudication irrelevant because defendant had actual knowledge of “no contact condition” in order and consequences of violating condition). Indeed, as long as a defendant had actual knowledge of the terms of the order, there is no danger that a defendant will be convicted of conduct not known to be violative of a court order. Cf. Lambert v. California, 355 U.S. 225, 229 (1957) (where there was “absence of an opportunity either to avoid the consequences of the law or to defend any prosecution brought under it,” defendant’s conviction violated due process).
We conclude then that the failure to serve a copy of the extended order on the defendant is not a bar to charging him with violating that order. Failure to serve the defendant, however, with a copy of the extended order is, of course, relevant to a determination as to whether the defendant possessed the knowledge required to convict him of violating the order. See note 5, supra. Evidence that the ex parte order delivered to the defendant’s last and usual address was actually received warrants the conclusion that the defendant had actual knowledge of the terms of the extended order, as does the defendant’s testimony that, following his arrest after the September 28 incident, he was aware that there was a protective order against him.
2. Joinder. Prior to trial, there was a joinder of numerous charges pending against the defendant.8 The defendant argues that the offenses joined did not involve a “pattern of conduct” and that he was severely prejudiced by the joining of these charges. We disagree.
A decision on “whether joinder is appropriate is committed to the sound discretion of the trial judge.” Commonwealth v. Montanez, 410 Mass. 290, 303 (1991). See Commonwealth v. Shelton, 37 Mass. App. Ct. 964, 964 (1994). The defendant bears the burden of demonstrating that prejudice will [594] result from a failure to sever the charges. Commonwealth v. Gallison, 383 Mass. 659, 671 (1981). Indeed, Mass. R. Crim. R 9 (a) (3), 378 Mass. 859 (1979), provides that where offenses are related, “[t]he trial judge shall join the charges for trial unless he determines that joinder is not in the best interests of justice.”
Related offenses are defined in part as “arising] out of a course of criminal conduct or series of criminal episodes connected together or constituting parts of a single scheme or plan.” Mass. R. Crim. P. 9 (a) (1), 378 Mass. 859 (1979). We have stated that offenses are related if the evidence “in its totality shows a common scheme and pattern of operation that tends to prove all the indictments.” Commonwealth v. Feijoo, 419 Mass. 486, 494-495 (1995). Time and space play an important role in determining whether offenses are related offenses for the purposes of joinder. See Commonwealth v. Mamay, 407 Mass. 412, 417 (1990); Commonwealth v. Cruz, 373 Mass. 676, 690 (1977).
In the instant case, the judge joined for trial the charges of violating a c. 209A order, stalking, and intimidating a witness. All the incidents giving rise to the charges involved the same victim. All the incidents occurred between September and November of 1992; indeed, the six counts of c. 209A violations, which include the five counts of which the defendant was ultimately convicted, occurred within an approximate eight-week period. Thus, the offenses charged demonstrated a pattern of conduct by the defendant toward the victim because of his unhappiness with the ending of their relationship and his desire to reunite with her. See Commonwealth v. Feijoo, supra at 495 (joinder appropriate where offenses indicated scheme whereby defendant used his position as karate teacher to induce students to engage in homosexual activity); Commonwealth v. Mamay, supra at 416 (joinder appropriate where offenses indicated scheme whereby defendant used his position of authority and trust to commit sexual crimes on female patients visiting his office). As such, evidence of each offense would have been admissible at trials for a separate offense. See Commonwealth v. Feijoo, supra. Indeed, if the charges were tried separately, much testimony would be duplicated at each trial merely establishing the relationship between the victim and the defendant. See Commonwealth v. Hoppin, 387 Mass. 25, 32 (1982) (“(¡joinder may promote economy in the trial of criminal offenses, particularly [595] when the same witnesses will testify concerning more than one offense”). Finally, we note that, in the instant case, the defendant has failed to demonstrate that he was prejudiced by the joinder of these offenses. The defendant’s burden is “not satisfied by a showing merely that the defendant’s chances for acquittal would have been better had the [complaints] been tried separately.” Commonwealth v. Montanez, supra at 304. Rather, the defendant’s burden is to show that “the prejudice resulting from a joint trial is so compelling that it prevented] [him] from obtaining a fair trial.” Commonwealth v. Clarke, 418 Mass. 207, 217 (1994), quoting Commonwealth v. Moran, 387 Mass. 644, 658 (1982). See Commonwealth v. Ferraro, 424 Mass. 87, 90 (1997). In the instant case, the jury acquitted the defendant of the stalking charge and the charge that he intimidated a witness. The defendant was also acquitted of one of the counts charging him with violating a protective order. Thus, it is clear thát the jury carefully considered the evidence with regard to each crime charged.
3. Jury instructions. The defendant argues that, in order to be convicted of violating a c. 209A order, the Commonwealth must show a manifest intent on the part of the defendant to violate that order. We disagree.
The judge instructed the jury that, in order to convict the defendant of the crime of violating a c. 209A order, the Commonwealth must prove “first . . . that a court had issued an order pursuant to Chapter 209A of our General Laws, which ordered the defendant to refrain from abusing the alleged victim. Second, that such order was in effect on the date that this violation of the order allegedly occurred. Third, that the defendant knew that the pertinent terms of the order were in effect, either by having received a copy of the order or in some other way. And fourth, that the defendant violated the order by failing to vacate the household or by abusing alleged victim.”
The defendant argues that this charge was erroneous because, by allowing the jury to convict the defendant based solely on the fact that there was a violation of the order instead of requiring a finding that the defendant intended to violate the order, the instruction lowered the Commonwealth’s burden of proof. The defendant urges us to look to the law of contempt and conclude that an essential element of the crime of violating a c. 209A order is a finding that the defendant intended to violate the order. Because there was no objection at trial, we review the [596] charge to determine whether it “was so erroneous that it created a ‘substantial risk of a miscarriage of justice.’ ” Commonwealth v. Preziosi, 399 Mass. 748, 751 (1987), quoting Commonwealth v. Murray, 396 Mass. 702, 705 (1986).
We have read § 7 as limiting to the enumerated offenses those actions which will constitute a criminal violation of G. L. c. 209A. Commonwealth v. Gordon, 407 Mass. 340, 345 (1990). All other violations of a c. 209A order cannot be prosecuted as a statutory offense; rather, they can be prosecuted as criminal contempt. Commentary to § 8:02 of the Guidelines for Judicial Practice: Abuse Prevention Proceedings (Oct. 1996).
In order to prove a defendant guilty of criminal contempt, the Commonwealth must prove beyond a reasonable doubt that “there was a clear, outstanding order of the court, that the defendant knew of that order, and that the defendant clearly and intentionally disobeyed that order in circumstances in which he was able to obey it.” Commonwealth v. Brogan, 415 Mass. 169, 171 (1993), quoting Furtado v. Furtado, 380 Mass. 137, 145 (1980). See United Factory Outlet, Inc. v. Jay’s Stores, Inc., 361 Mass. 35, 45 (1972) (Tauro, C.J., concurring) (“[t]he rule that intent is not an element of civil contempt is a direct consequence of the separate functions of criminal and civil contempt”).
While intent is an element of criminal contempt proceedings, § 7 of G. L. c. 209A establishes a distinct statutory crime for certain violations of c. 209A orders. The statute does not speak explicitly to the defendant’s state of mind; it is conceded, however, by the Commonwealth that, in order to convict a defendant of violating an order, it must be proved beyond a reasonable doubt that the defendant knew of the order. See Commonwealth v. Crosscup, 369 Mass. 228, 234 (1975) (“clear statutory language would be needed ... to buttress an interpretation that knowledge was irrelevant”); Commonwealth v. Wallace, 14 Mass. App. Ct. 358, 364 (1982) (“[bjecause traditionally, at common law, some element of intent or knowledge was required before punishment could be imposed . . . and because due process considerations may, in some cases, require some degree of notice . . . courts are reluctant to infer a legislative intent to impose absolute liability” [citations omitted]). This statute, however, requires no more knowledge than that the defendant knew of the order. We decline to read [597] any additional mens rea requirements into the statute.9 Simon v. Solomon, 385 Mass. 91, 103 (1982) (“[although the requirement of due process places some limits on legislative power to penalize innocent conduct, legislatures generally have broad power to define and limit the mens rea element of criminal offenses”); Commonwealth v. Jackson, 369 Mass. 904, 909 (1976) (“Legislature has great latitude to determine what conduct should be regarded as criminal and to prescribe penalties to vindicate the legitimate interests of society”). The defendant does not argue that the failure of the statute to require a showing of intentional violation is unconstitutional.
4. Failure to allow certain arguments. The defendant also argues that the judge erred in failing to allow the defendant to pursue certain avenues of argument.10 The defendant attempts to cite five instances where the judge improperly discarded the defendant’s arguments. We think that this argument is without merit.
At trial, the defendant did not object to the judge’s rulings, instructions, or comments. Therefore, we examine whether the judge’s actions constituted a “substantial risk of a miscarriage of justice.” Commonwealth v. Boyer, 400 Mass. 52, 59 (1987).
The first occasion occurred during.the defendant’s opening statement where defense counsel made the following comment: “[The victim] has a motive in this trial, and you will hear it. She has a credibility problem, you will find out, that she has a hard time telling the truth.” Following an objection by the prosecutor, the judge instmcted: “The credibility and believability of witnesses is the sole province of the jurors. Refrain from making comment.” There was no error. Defense counsel’s statement was improper argument. See United States v. Dinitz, 424 U.S. 600, 612 (1976) (Burger, C.J., concurring). The judge [598] did not create a. substantial risk of a miscarriage of justice with his instruction. The defendant’s second instance involved his discussion of a note left on a witness’s automobile that related that the defendant “had tried to break [the victim’s] arm” and that he was “violent.” The judge reminded the jury that the opening statements were not evidence. The judge acted properly because the evidence from the note regarding the victim’s arm was inadmissible hearsay and therefore improper to discuss as evidence during opening statements. See Commonwealth v. Murray, 22 Mass. App. Ct. 984, 985 (1986). The note was not offered as an exhibit.
The next two allegations of error involve the judge’s refusal to allow the defense to pursue during cross-examination a line of argument that the victim had been on welfare. The defense contended that the issue was relevant to the defendant’s credibility. Despite being given an opportunity to do so, the defense was unable to produce a relevant link between the victim’s welfare status and her credibility. These rulings were not erroneous.
The defendant argues that the judge’s instructions to the jury on an employer’s obligation to report monies paid to employees did not permit the defense’s point to reach the jury. However, the fact that the witness evaded taxes did reach the jury.11 The judge’s instruction to the jury merely clarified the distinction between the employer’s obligation to report income and the employee’s obligation to file a tax return. An error, if any, on the part of the judge was harmless.
[599]*5995. Closing argument. The defendant also argues that the prosecutor misstated the evidence in her closing argument. He claims that the prosecutor mislead the jury by implying that the proof of service was for the permanent order, rather than for the temporary order. We do not agree.
Because the defendant failed to object to the closing argument, the standard of review is whether the prosecutor’s argument created a substantial risk of a miscarriage of justice. See Commonwealth v. Mello, 420 Mass. 375 (1995); Commonwealth v. Marquetty, 416 Mass. 445, 450 (1993); Commonwealth v. Kozec, 399 Mass. 514, 518 n.8 (1987). Under that standard, “[w]e analyze the remarks in ‘light of the “entire argument, as well as in light of the judge’s instruction to the jury and the evidence at trial.” ’ ” Commonwealth v. Marquetty, supra, quoting Commonwealth v. Yesilciman, 406 Mass. 736, 746 (1990). The defendant’s argument, however, ignores that standard and focuses on one sentence out of context. To adopt the defendant’s position we would have to abandon our responsibility to analyze the prosecutor’s remarks in light of the entire argument. See Marquetty, supra at 445.
Read in context, the relevant portion of the Commonwealth’s closing argument breaks down into two distinct parts. The first part of the excerpt addresses the process through which the victim obtained a restraining order against the defendant. The second half of the excerpt switches to the defendant’s claim that he never received the original temporary restraining order. The Commonwealth simply highlighted the return of service from the temporary order.12 The prosecutor was entitled to reply to the defendant’s main contention that he had never received the [600] temporary or the extended order.13 The prosecutor’s reply was based on evidence admitted during the trial.
The defendant argues that it was never brought out that a copy of the extended order was not served on him. However, that fact was brought out during the trial by the defendant and in the defendant’s closing. If the defendant desired to focus on the fact that the extended order was not served, he had the opportunity to do so by noting the absence of service of the extended order in his closing argument.14 Instead, the defendant’s argument at trial attempted to convince the jurors that there was no service of any kind.
The Commonwealth noted that the return of service was left at the address which the defendant admitted was his primary [601] place of residence for twelve years. The evidence highlighted by the prosecutor was how and where the defendant received his mail, evidence which came from the defendant himself. The prosecutor simply was arguing facts in evidence and reasonable inferences from those facts. Commonwealth v. Paradise, 405 Mass. 141, 152 (1989).
Further, the prosecutor encouraged the jurors to look at the proof of return of service by bringing their attention to the exhibit which was the temporary order, and which was extended on September 11, 1992. In doing so, the prosecutor made clear her intention that the jurors look at the evidence including the proof of return of service. The proof of service unequivocally shows the date and time of service as “9/1/92 10:00 AM.”15
We also trust the citizens that serve as the foundation of our jury system. The judge told the jurors both before the trial began and after the closing argument that they were the sole finders of fact and that arguments by the attorneys should not be viewed as evidence.16 The judge’s instructions should have cured the prejudicial effect, if any, of the statement that the defendant would like us to use to conclude there was a substantial miscarriage of justice. “[T]he judge made it clear that the arguments of counsel were not evidence. The argument was forceful but fair. It did not exceed the limits of propriety.” Commonwealth v. Haskins, 411 Mass. 120, 122 (1991).
Judgments affirmed.