Cohen v. Hefetz

CourtCourt of Appeals of North Carolina
DecidedFebruary 4, 2026
Docket25-39
StatusPublished
AuthorJudge John Tyson

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Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF NORTH CAROLINA

No. COA25-39

Filed 4 February 2026

Alamance County, No. 20CVD001016-000

HILLA ZIV COHEN, Plaintiff,

v.

YOSEF HEFETZ, Defendant.

Appeal by defendant from judgment entered 1 June 2024 by Judge Kathryn

Whitaker Overby in Alamance County Superior Court. Heard in the Court of Appeals

14 January 2026.

Steven C. McRae, P.A., by Steven C. McRae, for the plaintiff-appellee.

Sandlin Family Law Group, by Deborah Sandlin, for the defendant-appellant.

TYSON, Judge.

Yosef Hefetz (“Father”) appeals from the permanent child custody order

entered 1 June 2024 awarding Hilla Ziv Cohen (“Mother”) primary custody of their

minor child, “Sam,” and permitting Mother to relocate to Israel with the child. See

N.C. R. App. P. 42(b) (pseudonyms used to protect the identity of minors). For the

following reasons, we vacate the order and remand for further findings of fact and

entry of a new custody order.

I. Background COHEN V. HEFETZ

Opinion of the Court

Sam was born on 12 April 2020. Mother is a citizen and resident of North

Carolina, but was born in Israel, where her family still lives. Father is a citizen and

resident of North Carolina, but is also originally from Israel, where his mother and

brother still live.

Mother filed for permanent custody on 10 June 2020. This matter came on for

hearing 29 April 2024. The evidence and testimony presented at the hearing tended

to show the following.

Mother and Father never married. Father had an extramarital affair while

married to the mother of his two daughters, during which time Mother became

pregnant with Sam.

While Mother was pregnant, she began experiencing abdominal pains and

called Father to drive her to the emergency room. He indicated he was busy at a

poker game. Mother drove herself to the emergency room. The mother of Mother,

Ms. Hanny Cohen, traveled to North Carolina in March of 2020 to stay with Mother

until approximately three months after Sam was born.

Before Sam was born, Mother approached Father about signing a parenting

agreement to delineate custody and placement schedules. He did not sign an

agreement. Mother asked Defendant if he would like to be listed on Sam’s birth

certificate, but he did not respond to her request. Father’s name is not listed on Sam’s

birth certificate. Mother asked Father to relinquish his rights to the minor child. He

indicated he would think about it, but he ultimately did not agree to relinquish his

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rights. Mother had an emergency cesarean section delivery on 12 April 2020. Father

did not come to the hospital before or after Sam’s birth.

The minor child was circumcised on the eighth day, consistent with Jewish

tradition, in Durham, North Carolina. Ms. Hanny Cohen, the mother of Mother from

Isreal, was present for the ceremony. Father participated virtually via Zoom video

call.

Father first saw Sam in person in April of 2020. During 2020, Father would

visit occasionally with Sam while he was traveling for work. These visits usually

lasted from between 15 to 20 minutes.

Mother requested of Father to agree for her to obtain a passport for Sam.

Father agreed and the passport was issued. Mother traveled to Israel for

approximately six weeks in the fall of 2020 for the holidays. During this visit, Sam

visited with his maternal relatives and with his paternal grandmother.

Within one week of her return to North Carolina, Mother filed a notice of

hearing in order to establish visitation arrangements between Father and Sam.

Father saw Sam only two times between late October 2020 and the end of 2020.

Father saw Sam very infrequently during 2021. Mother and Sam traveled to

Israel in the spring of 2021 for Passover. Sam again visited with his maternal

relatives and with his paternal grandmother.

Father requested a paternity test in 2021, which confirmed he is the biological

father of Sam. Mother and Sam traveled to Israel in the fall of 2021 and again in

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2022 for the holiday season. Both times, Sam visited with his maternal relatives and

with his paternal grandmother.

By November of 2022, the parties agreed on a temporary parenting agreement.

Father had six weeks of approximately two and one-half hours with Sam at a public

place on alternating weekends. On the last Sunday visit, Father’s visit with Sam was

at his residence. For the next six weeks, Father had four hours of time with Sam on

alternating Saturdays at Father’s residence. Beginning on 3 June 2023, Father was

to have twenty-four-hour overnight visits with Sam on an alternating weekend basis.

For all of the visits between Father and Sam in December of 2022, Father brought

along his daughters. Father was habitually late for his visits.

Mother and Sam visited Israel for Passover in March of 2023. Once again, Sam

visited with his paternal grandmother and with his maternal relatives.

In April of 2023, Sam turned three years old. Mother’s family participated in

a hair-cutting ceremony with him, consistent with Jewish tradition. Mother invited

Sam’s paternal grandmother to this ceremony, but Mother did not invite Father.

In August of 2023 Father purchased a vacation home in Mexico and planned a

trip there at the beginning of August 2023. He asked Mother to allow Sam to go on

this trip. She did not think it was a good idea for Sam to go on a trip with Father for

five days since the three-year-old had previously only spent one night at a time with

the Father.

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Mother and Sam traveled to Israel in October of 2023. While she was there,

Hamas began the war. She stayed almost two weeks longer than she had planned

due to the outbreak of the war and travel restrictions. During this time, Father called

Mother almost daily.

Mother filed a motion to modify the temporary parenting agreement on 22

December 2023. In the motion, she expressed her desire to relocate to Israel

permanently and her belief that she and her son would have a better life there.

The parties entered into a temporary consent order on 4 March 2024. Father

received every other weekend from Friday at 6:00 p.m. until Monday drop off at

daycare by 10:00 a.m. Father shared placement with Sam during the Passover

holiday in April 2024.

On 12 April 2024, Father and one of his daughters came to the celebration of

Sam’s fourth birthday. Since that time, Father began to spend more time with Sam.

They have a good time together. Mother indicated she has stopped asking Father for

help with childcare for Sam because he has declined her requests multiple times in

the past.

A. Mother’s Assertions

The trial court entered a child custody order on 1 June 2024, finding, in

relevant part, the following facts: Mother wishes to relocate to Israel for several

reasons. First, she does not have a lot of friends or deep relationships in North

Carolina; she avers her real support group is her family in Israel. Mother wishes to

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birth another child. She learned in vitro fertilization would be free under her health

insurance in Israel. Mother wishes to raise Sam in Jewish traditions and religion.

Though Israel has been at war since October of 2023, she testified she believes Israel

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