Clay Jeffrey Moss v. Vicky Rogers Moss

CourtCourt of Appeals of Mississippi
DecidedMarch 14, 2023
Docket2021-CA-00452-COA
StatusPublished

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Opinion

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF THE STATE OF MISSISSIPPI

NO. 2021-CA-00452-COA

CLAY JEFFREY MOSS APPELLANT

v.

VICKY ROGERS MOSS APPELLEE

DATE OF JUDGMENT: 12/14/2020 TRIAL JUDGE: HON. HAYDN JUDD ROBERTS COURT FROM WHICH APPEALED: RANKIN COUNTY CHANCERY COURT ATTORNEY FOR APPELLANT: ANDREW STEPHEN SORRENTINO ATTORNEYS FOR APPELLEE: MATTHEW THOMPSON CHAD KENNETH KING NATURE OF THE CASE: CIVIL - DOMESTIC RELATIONS DISPOSITION: AFFIRMED - 09/20/2022 MOTION FOR REHEARING FILED: 10/18/2022 - DENIED; AFFIRMED - 03/14/2023

EN BANC.

BARNES, C.J., FOR THE COURT:

MODIFIED OPINION ON MOTION FOR REHEARING

¶1. The motion for rehearing is denied. The original opinion of this Court is withdrawn,

and this modified opinion is substituted in its place.

¶2. Clay and Vicky Moss married on February 14, 1987, and separated on or about July

7, 2018. They had two children. On August 14, 2018, Vicky filed for divorce on the

statutory ground of habitual cruel and inhuman treatment pursuant to Mississippi Code

Annotated section 93-5-1 (Rev. 2018).

¶3. In her brief and at trial, Vicky stated that Clay habitually belittled and humiliated her

throughout their thirty-year relationship. She testified that Clay controlled what she wore, called her a “tramp” or “slut” when he deemed her clothing immodest, and inspected her

clothing daily. Multiple times, Clay told Vicky that “you’ve dressed like a tramp our whole

married life.” According to Vicky, Clay would tell her to bend over to test if he could see

her bra or cleavage before she went to work, and he often told her to change clothes. When

he disapproved of her clothing, he stated, “[N]o self-respecting Christian would ever wear

that.” At one point, Vicky gave Clay a picture of herself in her nurse’s uniform, and Clay

called the photograph “appalling and insulting.” Vicky testified that Clay shamed her for

losing her virginity in high school and repeatedly accused her of adultery. In a 2017 note he

wrote to Vicky threatening suicide, Clay questioned the paternity of their eldest daughter.

¶4. According to Vicky’s trial testimony, Clay also habitually criticized Vicky’s

completion of basic household tasks, including how she did the laundry, scooped the kitty

litter, and changed their daughters’ diapers. Vicky testified that Clay regularly called her

“small-minded” and “idiotic” and told her that she was not a good role model for her

children. Additionally, Vicky testified that Clay forced her to quit a women’s softball league

and isolated her from her friends.

¶5. Vicky and Clay worked as Christian missionaries in Africa from 1990 to 1991, in

Malaysia from 2003 to 2011, and in Indonesia for six months in 2008. In 2011, Vicky and

other mission staff grew concerned with the intensity of Clay’s relationship with a fifteen-

year-old girl at the school. Clay constantly communicated with the child and ignored Vicky’s

requests for Clay to “leave her alone.” Vicky testified that she “warned him . . . [he was]

giving this girl too much attention.” During this period, Clay “wanted different sexual

2 favors” from Vicky, began looking at pornography, and asked her to shave her pubic hair for

the first time in their relationship.

¶6. In 2011, the mission placed Clay on immediate leave due to complaints of an

“inappropriate relationship/infatuation with a teenage girl.” The mission cited Clay’s “lack

of boundaries and lack of understanding of the seriousness and inappropriateness of [his]

interactions with a young woman.” The mission required Vicky and Clay to receive marriage

counseling “that leads you to be able to demonstrate commitment to marriage [and] growth

in communication” and required “a significant period of stability and growth after counseling

is completed” in order to return to international service. Clay and his family were told to

make arrangements to leave immediately. The mission instructed Clay that he must refrain

from communicating with any student and that he should not transport his children to or from

school so as to avoid any student interaction. One day after being placed on leave, Clay flew

to Australia without notifying Vicky or his children. As a result of Clay’s conduct, the

Mosses were forced to move back to the United States, and their children were uprooted from

their school mid-year.

¶7. In the years following, Vicky and Clay’s relationship further deteriorated. Beginning

in 2017, Clay and Vicky discussed separation. Clay sent Vicky a series of emails informing

her that he would not agree to a divorce unless she denounced her Christianity or “admitted

[she] was never a true Christian.” He told her that “no authentic Christian gets a divorce”

and called Vicky “a presumptuous sinner.” Clay continued sending these emails after Vicky

repeatedly asked him to stop. In his emails, Clay admitted that he had “crushed [Vicky’s]

3 spirit” and that his conduct constituted “tough love.” Vicky testified that during their

separation, she observed Clay’s car at the family home at night “hundreds of times” and

stated that he knocked on her window in the middle of the night.

¶8. Between 2017 and 2018, Clay left Vicky three notes threatening suicide, including one

entitled “Finishing the Job.” In Clay’s May 2017 suicide note, he asked Vicky to “help him

decide how he was going to go about committing suicide.” In another note, Clay wrote to

Vicky, “Let [our children] know just before I pull the trigger, I will pray for your radical

transformation to Christ.” He suggested Vicky should not remarry after his death and stated

that “I know from experience that you’re not the wifely type.” In his notes, he also told

Vicky to make phone calls relating news of his suicide, told her to cancel his appointments,

and asked her to explain the suicide to their children, saying he was putting “the ball in

[Vicky’s] court.” After Vicky read one suicide note, Clay returned home later that day, stated

that “I guess God doesn’t want me to die today,” and said he was going to get ready for

church. In July 2018, after a suicide threat, Clay checked himself into St. Dominic Hospital

and was released after one day.

¶9. In July 2018, Vicky’s lawyer referred her to a counselor, Mary Barksdale. In 2018,

Vicky’s doctor prescribed her medication for depression, which Vicky took for a short period

before stopping due to side effects.

¶10. Vicky filed for divorce based on habitual cruel and inhuman treatment on August 14,

2018. Clay filed his answer on September 21, 2018. At trial, Vicky testified that Clay’s

conduct made her anxious, made her cry uncontrollably, and resulted in her feeling worthless.

4 She also testified that her symptoms of stress led to picking at her eyelashes, as well as loss

of sleep, chest pain, and headaches.

¶11. On December 14, 2020, the chancellor granted Vicky a divorce on the ground of

habitual cruel and inhuman treatment. The chancellor stated that text communications

between Clay and Vicky showed Clay’s “incessant, constant humiliation, shame, [and]

correction” of Vicky. Clay’s behaviors of calling Vicky impure, his “constant, unfounded

accusation of Mrs. Moss engaging in adulterous affairs” and questioning the paternity of his

daughter were an attempt “to humiliate and shame Mrs. Moss,” according to the chancellor.

Referring to Clay’s suicide notes, the chancellor stated that “the Court does not believe that

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