Buttacavoli v. Buttacavoli, No. Fa 02-0124809s (Jan. 13, 2003)

2003 Conn. Super. Ct. 856
Connecticut Superior Court·Decided January 13, 2003·No. No. FA 02-0124809S·Unpublished

Opinion

[EDITOR'S NOTE: This case is unpublished as indicated by the issuing court.]

MEMORANDUM OF DECISION
Review of the File

This matter first came to the court by virtue of summons and complaint dated March 28, 2002 and returnable April 23, 2002 in which complaint the plaintiff wife sought a dissolution of the marital union, custody of the minor children, alimony, child support, exclusive use and possession of the family residence located at 20 Beechwood Terrace, Griswold, an assignment of the defendant's interest in certain real estate located at 20 Beechwood Terrace, Griswold pursuant to the provisions of § 46b-81 of the Connecticut General Statutes, an allowance to prosecute and such other relief as the court deems fair and equitable.

The complaint was filed on April 9, 2002 and accompanying the complaint was a motion for custody, alimony, child support, exclusive use and possession, allocation of debts, etc.

On June 17, 2002 the court, Devine, J., accepted a certain agreement of the parties dated June 17, 2002 and directed that its terms and conditions should be orders of the court. In addition, the court on that date entered certain orders as concerns medical and dental insurance for the minor children and allied issues including the apportionment for unreimbursed medical expenses.

The usual automatic orders accompanied the complaint as well as the verification of service on the defendant by the state marshal.

The defendant appeared by counsel on April 16, 2002 and on April 24, 2002 the defendant executed an answer and a cross complaint in which cross complaint the defendant claimed a dissolution of the marriage, orders concerning custody and/or access to the minor children, an equitable division of all real and personal property and such other remedy which at law or equity may appertain. CT Page 857

On April 30, 2002 the defendant filed a certain motion as concerns custody and access to the minor children, and pursuant to an agreement between the parties, was accepted by the court, Devine, J.

The file reflects the parenting education form indicating completion of that program by the parties.

Financial affidavits were filed by the parties on June 17, 2002. The June 17, 2002 stipulation concerned itself with the defendant vacating the marital home, the payment of child support, expenses and matters of like nature.

On October 23, 2002 the plaintiff filed a motion for alimony pendente lite, an examination of the file seems to indicate that the motion was not acted upon.

A further agreement of the parties was reached as concerns a gift to each of the minor children from the defendant and an agreement as to access as to the marital home for the purposes of conducting an appraisal thereof.

On December 17, 2002 and on December 19, 2002 the plaintiff and the defendant with their respective attorneys and witnesses appeared before the court and the matter was heard to a conclusion.

The court makes the following findings of fact.

The plaintiff Deborah A. Buttacavoli, whose maiden name was Marshall, married the defendant in Mystic on December 29, 1987 at the home of her parents. Both parties have a residence in the state of Connecticut for more than one year. There are two children of this marriage; to wit, Joseph A. Buttacavoli, born August 23, 1986, and Kristen A. Buttacavoli, born June 21, 1988. No other minor children have been born to the plaintiff wife from the date of the marriage to the present time. Neither party has been a recipient of welfare from the state of Connecticut or any town, city or municipality or subdivision thereof.

Initially at the time of the marriage, the plaintiff was employed at Electric Boat, Division of General Dynamics, as a clerk. After the daughter Kristen was born, the plaintiff stopped work at Electric Boat and the parties agreed that the plaintiff should remain at home and care for the children. When the daughter Kristen attained age 6, the plaintiff returned to the work place.

At one point in time, the plaintiff did volunteer work at the CT Page 858 children's school and was involved in special education work. The plaintiff is age 46. She is a high school graduate. She has some experience in matters of special education.

The plaintiff presently works as an instructional assistant in special education for the Griswold Board of Education. The plaintiff works 30 hours a week under a contract and her hourly rate is $13.71. The plaintiff is compensated bi-monthly.

Problems in the marriage developed several years ago; the plaintiff claiming that she was the subject of verbal and mental abuse.

The children referred to are respectively in the 11th grade and 9th grade. It was the plaintiffs lament that the defendant only rarely engaged in activities with the children and that the defendant was involved in certain athletic workouts four nights a week and that the defendant spent little time with the plaintiff. Apparently there were verbal arguments between the parties. The plaintiff became involved in school conferences and matters of like nature, feeling that the same was in the best interest of the children. The defendant did not participate.

The minor child Joseph has apparently been involved in some problems of late. He has been suspended from riding on the school bus. The young man is receiving counseling.

The plaintiffs activities included her taking care of the home and the children. In March of 2002 the plaintiff and the defendant were involved in an argument where the defendant struck the plaintiff with a broom. The authorities were called and the authorities indicated that the defendant should leave the premises.

It was also the plaintiffs lament that the defendant has always, in her words, put her down; that she could not have friends.

The plaintiff expressed herself with regard to there being no problem as to the custody of the minor children being joint, indicated at the time of trial that the defendant had not seen the children for a period in excess of two months. The plaintiff feels that the defendant is entitled to reasonable rights of visitation. The plaintiffs request was for $182.00 a week in support.

She is desirous of having health insurance for the benefit of the children and the allocation of percentages as concerns uncovered medical expenses. The plaintiff is presently covered under the defendant's medical coverage. The plaintiff indicated that it was possible for her to CT Page 859 get medical insurance coverage incident to her position and that the same would cost her $16.00 every two weeks.

The plaintiff indicated that her request as concerns alimony was to the amount of $150.00 a week for a period often years.

The plaintiff noted that except for the arrival of the minor child Kristen that she has worked throughout the marriage.

The plaintiff requested that she be the beneficiary of any outstanding present life insurance which is in force or in place as concerns the defendant.

The plaintiff testified that the debts shown on her financial affidavit are debts that she incurred or incurred for herself and the children. The plaintiff is desirous of having the court direct the defendant to help her as concerns a certain debt to Sears.

The plaintiff had no objection to an apportionment of tax exemptions and indicated that they might be shared between the parties.

The plaintiff indicated that the defendant has been employed at Electric Boat for over 20 years and she is desirous of having one half of the defendant's SSTP and one half of the defendant's pension as of the date of the dissolution.

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Buttacavoli v. Buttacavoli, No. Fa 02-0124809s (Jan. 13, 2003), 2003 Conn. Super. Ct. 856 (Colo. Ct. App. 2003).

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