B.R. v. R.R. (FM-11-0185-19, MERCER COUNTY AND STATEWIDE)

New Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division·Decided October 11, 2022·No. A-1673-20·Unpublished

Opinion

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY APPELLATE DIVISION

DOCKET NO. A-1673-20

B.R., Plaintiff-Appellant, v. R.R.,

Defendant-Respondent.

Submitted September 13, 2022 – Decided October 11, 2022 Before Judges Gilson and Gummer.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Mercer County, Docket No. FM-11-0185-19.

Hegge & Confusione, LLC, attorneys for appellant (Michael Confusione, of counsel and on the brief).

Maselli Warren, PC, attorneys for respondent (Patricia Agoes, of counsel and on the brief; Deanne J. Lowden, on the brief).

PER CURIAM

Plaintiff B.R. appeals from a final judgment of divorce (FJOD).1 He argues, among other things, that the trial judge erred in holding him in contempt based on his "abhorrent and disruptive" behavior during the trial. Finding no error in that or any other decision challenged by plaintiff, we affirm.

I.

We glean the following facts from the trial record. The parties were married in 2001. They had two children, born in 2005 and 2008, respectively. The parties separated during the summer of 2018. On August 7, 2018, defendant filed a domestic-violence complaint against plaintiff. On November 7, 2018, the court entered a final restraining order (FRO) against plaintiff on behalf of defendant. In the FRO, the court granted defendant temporary custody of the children and banned plaintiff from having contact with defendant and with the children unless permitted by the Division of Child Protection and Permanency. Defendant had filed other domestic-violence complaints against plaintiff dating back to 2004, all of which she withdrew. On August 14, 2018, plaintiff filed a complaint for divorce based on irreconcilable differences. On October 18, 2018, defendant filed an answer and counterclaim for divorce.

1 We use initials to protect the confidentiality of the participants in these proceedings. R. 1:38-3(d)(10).

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Plaintiff's first outburst occurred on the opening day of the trial. While the trial judge and counsel were discussing plaintiff's use of funds and with no question pending, plaintiff declared the funds at issue were his funds and called defendant "a thief." The trial judge instructed plaintiff to "wait until you are in the witness chair and until it’s your turn to tell me your story and certainly not blurting it out. It doesn’t help. I can’t consider it, okay?" Plaintiff, who was represented by counsel, then asked to speak with the judge alone in her chambers. The judge appropriately denied that request.

On the second day of trial, plaintiff took the stand to testify. He refused to look at defendant when his counsel asked him to identify her. Plaintiff repeatedly gave unresponsive and inflammatory answers to the questions posed to him and made extraneous comments when no question was pending. When asked to explain the circumstances of the parties' first meeting, plaintiff described defendant as "standing on a corner" appearing to be "a hooker." When asked if he recalled the date the parties were married, he accused defendant, who originally was from Guatemala, of coming "across the border numerous times illegal[ly]." He also asserted the marriage was "not legitimate."

When asked to state the alleged inaccuracies in the parties' marriage license, he accused defendant of "fraudulently obtain[ing] a birth certificate"

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and a "fraudulent ID." When asked about the allegedly inaccurate date of defendant's birth on the marriage license, plaintiff asserted defendant did not know when she was born and accused her again of fraudulently obtaining a birth certificate and a driver's license. When asked again about the alleged inaccuracies on the marriage license, plaintiff declared for the first time to the apparent surprise of his lawyer that the parties had "committed marriage fraud and immigration fraud for the sole purpose of bringing [defendant] into the country."

When asked what date he was removed from the marital home, plaintiff did not provide a date but stated defendant had stolen his car, had a "paramour," and had threatened to "screw" and "fuck" him, take all of his money, and tell police plaintiff had hit her. When asked what he had left in the house, plaintiff claimed defendant had given the keys to "her boyfriend" and accused them of stabbing him in the back and trying to kill him. When asked how tenants would pay him rent, he accused defendant of stealing his "stuff." When asked if tenants paid the rent in cash or by check, he responded that defendant was "stealing the ones that were given to [him] in cash." When asked to explain what he meant by his "labor" in connection with properties at issue, plaintiff referenced "these girls that want to screw you over." When asked about conditions of other

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properties, plaintiff referred to defendant as a "criminal" and accused her of stealing "everything" from him. When no question was pending, he asserted defendant had "used" him and had forced him to send his children to Catholic schools even though he was Jewish and did not like Catholic schools.

When asked what he meant when he contended his children were "freaking endangered," he stated his children were in danger of "being child molested by these nasty Guatemalan people" and that defendant had told him their daughter's virginity would be taken by "her freaking greasy boyfriend." Ignoring defense counsel's objection, plaintiff went on a diatribe about how Guatemalans were "bad people" who "molest kids" and how child molestation was "common" in Guatemala. The judge advised plaintiff: "If you cannot maintain your composure and follow my instructions, your case will be in danger of being dismissed."

Plaintiff complained about defense counsel's objections, accusing her of trying to confuse him and of being a "hostile attorney." Even though the judge and plaintiff's counsel repeatedly told plaintiff to stop speaking when defense counsel objected, plaintiff continued to testify when defense counsel objected. During the afternoon of the first day of his testimony, plaintiff laid down. When the judge asked him if he was ill, plaintiff stated he did not "want to be in the

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same room with a person who stole everything from [him]." The judge advised plaintiff:

I told you once before, I’ll tell you again. You’re the plaintiff in this action. You have a burden. If you can’t establish your burden, your case will be dismissed.

Okay. So I want to just do this because you have consistently made me repeat myself. I don’t want any more disruptions, I don’t want any loud, heavy breathing, I don’t want any braying, I don’t want any abusive name-calling and I generally want you to maintain your composure which I know you can do.

Otherwise, I will cease these proceedings and I will let her get on the stand and testify because she has a cross -- a counterclaim and I will proceed on her counterclaim and you are at risk of having your pleading dismissed. I don’t want to get into a back and forth with you. I’m just saying this for the record. This is about the sixth time –

Plaintiff then told the judge he needed to vomit and asked if he could go to the bathroom. The judge granted that request.

Plaintiff returned, and his direct examination resumed. His counsel subsequently asked him what he had left in the house. Plaintiff responded "[e]verything" and added "I’m three generations of Trenton. She’s from a different foreign country." The judge sustained defense counsel's objection and instructed plaintiff.

So in terms of the question, focus on the question and not on attacking the defendant in this case, okay?

You’re not to attack her, you’re not to harass her with

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