B.P. v. J.E.S., by Child's Next Friend S.S. (mem. dec.)

CourtIndiana Court of Appeals
DecidedJune 21, 2017
Docket12A02-1702-PO-317
StatusPublished

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MEMORANDUM DECISION Pursuant to Ind. Appellate Rule 65(D), this Memorandum Decision shall not be FILED regarded as precedent or cited before any Jun 21 2017, 9:15 am court except for the purpose of establishing CLERK the defense of res judicata, collateral Indiana Supreme Court Court of Appeals estoppel, or the law of the case. and Tax Court

ATTORNEY FOR APPELLANT Steven Knecht Vonderheide & Knecht, P.C. Lafayette, Indiana

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF INDIANA

B.P., June 21, 2017 Appellant-Respondent, Court of Appeals Case No. 12A02-1702-PO-317 v. Appeal from the Clinton Superior Court J.E.S., by Child’s Next Friend The Honorable Justin Hunter, S.S., Judge Appellee-Petitioner Trial Court Cause No. 12D01-1611-PO-793

Baker, Judge.

Court of Appeals of Indiana | Memorandum Decision 12A02-1702-PO-317 | June 21, 2017 Page 1 of 13 [1] B.P. appeals the protective order issued by the trial court, which prevents him

from directly or indirectly contacting thirteen-year-old J.S., posting about her

on social media, or encouraging anyone else to communicate with her on his

behalf. B.P. contends that the trial court’s findings are insufficient and that the

evidence is insufficient to support the order. Concluding that the findings and

the evidence are not insufficient, we affirm.

Facts [2] J.S. was born to S.S. (Mother) in (approximately) 2003. Mother was unmarried

at the time of J.S.’s birth, and paternity has never been established. In 2012,

Mother’s husband legally adopted J.S. After the adoption occurred, B.P., who

believes he is J.S.’s biological father, attempted to have the adoption set aside.

He was unsuccessful. He also filed a paternity action after the adoption was

final—that action was dismissed.

[3] Beginning sometime in 2012, B.P. began a course of conduct designed to

publicly claim a status as J.S.’s father. In 2012, he approached Mother and her

children in a Wal-Mart and began “scream[ing]” and “yell[ing]” at her. Tr. p.

38. Also beginning in 2012, B.P. began driving by Mother’s house, up to and

including the summer of 2016. Id. at 39. In March 2013, he went to a softball

game in which J.S. was playing. J.S. was in the field and he yelled to her, “I’m

your real dad. I’m your father.” Id. at 34. She became distraught, started

crying, and had to leave the game. She looked “panicked” and “scared.” Id. at

Court of Appeals of Indiana | Memorandum Decision 12A02-1702-PO-317 | June 21, 2017 Page 2 of 13 35. Since that time, J.S. has almost totally withdrawn from all organized

sports.

[4] B.P. has a public Facebook account. Since 2013, he has posted multiple times a

week about J.S. Id. at 13 (B.P. testifying that he posts about J.S. “probably

everyday almost”). The following is a small sample of his nearly daily posts:

 “love my daughter, she is more of me than her mother allows her to know and see . . . .” Appellant’s App. Vol. 2. p. 14.  “love my daughter, I hope she has this urge to want to get to know me instead of taking the false truth her mother has raised her on when it comes to me . . . .” Id.  “. . . I will not stop until I take my last breath or until you [Mother] decide that the route you have been going down leads to nowhere but heartache and disappointment for our daughter . . . .” Id. at 11.  “[S.S:] You can act like a cockroach when the lights turn on whenever I am around but it still doesn’t change the fact that I am [J.S.’s] father . . . . anyone who is friends with her and I can share this so she can see!” Id.  “love my daughter, I will never give up on wanting to get to know you and for you to actually get to know me . . . .” Id. at 13.  “happy birthday to my beautiful daughter, she is my greatest creation,” with a photograph of J.S. at a school field trip that B.P. did not attend; Mother did not send him that photograph. Tr. Ex. 2.

(Punctuation, spelling, and grammar original.) J.S. was “very aware” of B.P.’s

constant Facebook messages about her, as her friends at school and other

people frequently brought it up to her.1 Tr. p. 36. In fact, she felt as though she

1 Mother did not permit J.S. to have a Facebook account. Mother has a Facebook account, but has blocked B.P. and several other individuals associated with B.P. from accessing her profile.

Court of Appeals of Indiana | Memorandum Decision 12A02-1702-PO-317 | June 21, 2017 Page 3 of 13 was “constantly having to defend herself.” Id. at 48. Around Thanksgiving

2016, J.S. asked Mother if B.P. had posted anything about her that day, and

when Mother checked and replied affirmatively, J.S. asked to see it. After

reading it, “[s]he sat there for a second just looked down at it and she got up

and left the table. She’s in the bathroom crying. Bawling and asking why.

And I mean I just I hugged her and did the best that I could to comfort her.”

Id. at 36.

[5] In November 2016, B.P. sent J.S. a message on Snapchat. Once she realized

who he was, she asked him to leave her alone. B.P. responded, and J.S. then

sent him the following message:

your brother and you are creepy so stay out of my life and take down that white [board] in the [barber] shop[2] and stop telling landen and my other friends that your my dad bc you are obviously nothing to me and I am scared most of my time of you, you’re the main reason why I quit softball bc you scare me the living crap when you showed up at one of my game I can’t go anywhere or be free bc [you] have to stalk me and guess what F*CK OFF”

Tr. Ex. 3 (punctuation, grammar, and spelling original). After that exchange,

J.S. was “upset, crying, tearful, angry” and “asking why why why do why do I

have to go through this every day. Why can’t he just leave me alone. . . . [I]t’s

changed her a lot. She’s more withdrawn. Won’t really talk as much. Doesn’t

2 B.P.’s brother owns a barber shop. The record does not reveal the contents of the white board in the barber shop to which J.S. referred in this message.

Court of Appeals of Indiana | Memorandum Decision 12A02-1702-PO-317 | June 21, 2017 Page 4 of 13 ask to go out as much.” Tr. p. 31. J.S. described her reaction to the interaction

as follows:

I was panicking. Didn’t know what to do. . . . I told him that he needed to leave me alone. I went that I didn’t want nothing to do with him. That he was never there for me ever. A date even when the day I was born. And my mother’s told me that before. He just kind of scares me.

Id. at 69-70.

[6] Throughout the years, Mother has asked B.P. to stop communicating or

attempting to communicate with J.S. “[m]ultiple times. I’ve asked him to leave

her alone. She doesn’t want anything to do with him. . . . It doesn’t matter

what I say or what I ask. He continues to do it.” Id. at 32.

[7] As a result of B.P.’s constant barrage of social media posts about J.S. and

Mother, Mother has “totally had to change the way I . . . do things now.” Id. at

37. Whereas in prior years, Mother had a Facebook account and would often

post pictures of her children to her account, “I don’t do that anymore.

Especially of [J.S.] . . . Because every time I post something of her somehow or

some way he ends up with it.” Id.

[8] Mother also testified that B.P.’s behavior “scares” her:

. . . I don’t know what . . . he’s gonna do. . . . I could be anywhere and when I’m by myself when I have my children with me and I mean I tried with all to avoid him at all costs. I try not to go to places that I think he might be. Or you know when I got into the Wal-Mart I’m always scanning the parking lot looking

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