Bowles v. Bowles, No. 35 61 04 (Apr. 13, 1998)

1998 Conn. Super. Ct. 5397
CourtConnecticut Superior Court
DecidedApril 13, 1998
DocketNo. 35 61 04
StatusUnpublished

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Bluebook
Bowles v. Bowles, No. 35 61 04 (Apr. 13, 1998), 1998 Conn. Super. Ct. 5397 (Colo. Ct. App. 1998).

Opinion

[EDITOR'S NOTE: This case is unpublished as indicated by the issuing court.]MEMORANDA OF DECISIONS

1.Re Motion to Open and Modify Judgment(#372)

These matters comes before the court on a post-judgment motion to open and modify judgment filed by the defendant on November 13, 1997. The parties were divorced in 1994 after a trial. At that time, the trial court ordered that the parties share joint legal custody of the minor children of the parties, Ryan and Thomas. Their residence was ordered to be with the defendant with certain visitation orders in effect. From time to time thereafter there were modifications to those visitation orders, none of a major magnitude. After a lengthy hearing, including expert testimony on a motion to modify filed by the plaintiff regarding issues of custody and visitation, the trial court, on August 7, 1997 issued a written memorandum of decision in which the judgment was opened and the custody and visitation orders were modified. The decision ordered that the plaintiff would have sole legal and physical custody of the minor child Ryan, with certain court-ordered visitation for the defendant. It further ordered that the defendant would have sole legal and physical custody of the minor child Thomas, with certain orders regarding visitation for the plaintiff

In her motion dated November 12, 1997, now before this court, the defendant seeks a modification of the judgment with an order of sole legal and physical custody of Ryan ordered to her with reasonable rights of visitation to the plaintiff. This motion was filed, then, just three months after the modification of custody ordered on August 7, 1997.

Procedural background

In that interim three month period, among other things, the following procedural history occurred in the matter of Bowles v.Bowles. First, notably, no appeal was taken from the decision of August 7, 1997. The defendant. who had been represented by counsel at the time of the custody hearing resulting in the August, 1997 decision proceeded thereafter pro se. Her filings with the court from August 7, 1997 until the November motion now before the court included seven motions for contempt, each and every one regarding the orders affecting the minor child Ryan. No contempt finding has ever issued on these motions against the CT Page 5399 plaintiff. The defendant has seen fit to file seventeen other motions in the window from August, 1997 to the present time. These many motions tax the judicial resources of a busy family court. While the defendant has filed these many motions and pursued most in court requiring the plaintiff's appearance. as well as Ryan's counsel's appearance, the court has not been able to provide hearing time for many of them. The court on numerous occasions attempted to alternatively provide hearing time for the many motions filed by the defendant or to talk things through, on the record. with the parties in hopes of ultimately reducing the discord in this high conflict family. Despite all such efforts, the conflict has persisted.

In her motion to open and modify the defendant alleges that a change of circumstances has arisen since August, 1997 and that the judgment should be opened, that it is in Ryan's best interest to return custody to her, his mother. "Such a change of circumstances is usually a prerequisite for an order modifying custody [citations omitted]; but cf. Simons v. Simons . . . (determination of a change of custody permissible even if no change of circumstances found where it was shown that at the time of dissolution the court had not focused its attention primarily on the best interests of the child.)" Trunik v. Trunik,179 Conn. 287, , 289, 426 A.2d 274 (1979). The latter is not claimed by the defendant; indeed, it would be an unsustainable position, since the entire hearing resulting in the August 7, 1997 rulings was devoted to a consideration of Ryan's (and Thomas') best interests.

In claiming that a change of circumstances has occurred, the plaintiff's motion states, "The minor child has consistently stated from before the trial to the present that he wants to live with his mother and brother."

In her August 15, 1997 Motion for Contempt and Harassment (#338), the defendant stated that "Ryan said, `I do not want to live with him and I do not want to talk to him [reference to plaintiff].'"

On August 20, 1997, the defendant filed a Motion for Contempt (#343) in which she wrote, "Plaintiff's continued patterns of behaviors also are a continuation of not being able to communicate to defendant directly and his need for control. Ms. White [Family Relations evaluator] claims that this behavior had subsided. These continued actions by plaintiff show otherwise. CT Page 5400 Defendant asks the court to return the minor child to defendant's custody due to plaintiff's lack of insight and `his behavior and its negative effect on Ryan.'"

On August 26, 1997 the defendant filed a Motion for Contempt (#344) in which she wrote. "Defendant also asks the court toreturn the minor child Ryan Bowles to defendant's custody and care so these continual motions for plaintiff's behavior of notacting in the best interests of the minor child Ryan Bowles canbe stopped." (Emphasis added.).

On September 15, 1997 the defendant filed a Motion for Contempt (#354) in which she wrote, "The minor child Ryan Bowles did not want to go to soccer practice. Minor child wanted to spend the visitation time with the defendant." She further wrote, "Plaintiff's behavior has not largely subsided' as Flora White stated during the sole custody trial. Furthermore, that plaintiff does not have insight into his behavior and its negative effect on Ryan for which Flora White claims the opposite to be true. Plaintiff is an unfit parent as shown by his continuing behaviors. As a result, defendant also requests minor child Ryan Bowles be returned to her proper care and custody."

In her Motion for Contempt dated October 21, 1997 (#367), she stated, "During the conversation with the minor child, the defendant told the child that she had tried to reach hem the previous night and gave him the times she had called." It further stated, in regard to another telephone conversation, "The minor child told the defendant that dinner was on the table. The minor child confirmed to the defendant that he was forced to eat food he did not like and to sit at the table until he finished his meal."

In her Motion for Contempt dated October 13, 1997 (#361), the defendant stated, "On September 12, 1997 minor child told defendant the plaintiff never calls him from outside when defendant calls and he is usually right outside near the door to the house." It also, inter alia, states, "On August 30, 1997, defendant called for minor child . . . [m]inor child told defendant he never got the message."

In the Motions for Contempt dated September 23, 1997 (#355), October 13, 1997 (#361), October 17, 1997 (#364), October 21, 1997 (#367), the defendant has stated, "the Plaintiff is an unfit parent." CT Page 5401

The defendant filed a Motion for Contempt dated December 19, 1997 (#385), in which she wrote: ". . . the defendant requests to order the plaintiff to return the minor child to the defendant where he wants to live and belongs."

Many of the additional motions filed by the defendant in this three month period since the August, 1997 custody change have been addressed to the custody and visitation orders regarding Ryan.

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In Re Anthony R. Martin-Trigona
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481 A.2d 68 (Connecticut Appellate Court, 1984)

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