Bounds v. Bounds

108 A. 870, 135 Md. 220, 1919 Md. LEXIS 142

• Court: Court of Appeals of Maryland
• Decided: November 21, 1919
• Status: Published

Opinion

Burke, J.,

delivered the opinion of the Court,

On the 30th day of April, 1913, Katherine E. Bounds, filed a bill of complaint against her husband, William E. Bounds, for a divorce a mensa et thoro and for temporary .and permanent alimony. The Court, after hearing, passed an order fixing the amount of alimony pendente lite at the sum of nine dollars per week. - This order was passed on the 16th day of May, 3913, and the husband paid this sum until March, 1919.

The hill charged the husband with cruelty, adultery, nonsupport and desertion. The parties were married on the 23rd of April, 1883, and lived together over twenty-nine years.' Six children had been born — three of whom had died, and one of the surviving children was a minor at the time the hill was filed, hut has since attained his majority. The answer to the hill denied the allegations which set out- the grounds for divorce and alleged that the wife “was forever grumbling and growling, fussing and scolding and ordering him out of her home, and in order to rid herself of him sold the bed on which he slept and he was compelled to sleep' on a lounge, find his own covering and the greater part- of the time compelled to get his own meals.” The answer was filed on the 24th of April, 1913. Except the filing of a petition in April, 1939. for the reduction of alimony pendente lite, nothing was done in the case until the 28th day of April, 1919, when the husband filed a erossrbill against bis wife for a divorce a vinculo matrimonii upon the ground of abandonment. This bill was filed more than six years after the separation of the parties which occurred on the 28th of E'ebruary, 1913, and which constitutes the desertion charged in the wife’s bill.

In the third paragraph of the cross-bill it is alleged: “That on February 28th, 1913, the said William E. Bounds did not -desert his wife; hut, on the contrary, Katherine E. Bounds then descried and abandoned him in the City of Baltimore; that such abandonment lias continued uninterruptedly for over three years and was deliberate and final, and the separation of the parties is beyond any reasonable expectation, of reconciliation.” The Court below, after bearing the testimony, passed a decree on April 27, 1919, dismissing tbe bill of the wife, and granted the husband an absolute divorce. The appeal before us was taken by tbe wife from that decree. Before adverting to the facts, it may he well to refer to certain principles of law which must guide us in the disposition of the case. It is said in 9 R. C. L., sec. 11, p. 252, thav. “Marriage is a relation in which the public is deeply interested and is subject to proper regulation and control by tbe State or sovereignty in which it is assumled or exists. The public policy relating to marriage is to foster and protect it, to make it a permanent and public institution, to encourage tbe parties to live together, and to prevent separation. This policy finds expression in probably every Sítate in this country in legislative enactments designed to prevent the sundering of the marriage t-ies for slight or trivial causes, or by the agreement of the husband and wife, or in any case except on full and satisfactory proof of such facts as by the Legislature have been declared to be cause for divorce. Such provisions find their justification only in this well-recognized interest of the State in the permanency of the marriage relation. The rigjht to a, divorce exists only by legislative grant, the marriage contract in this respect being regulated and controlled by the sovereign power, and not being, like ordinary contracts, subject to dissolution by tbe mutual consent of tbe contracting parties, but only for the causes sanctioned by law. As said by the Federal Supreme Court: ‘Other contracts may be modified, restricted, or enlarged, or entirely released upon the consent of the parties. Not so with marriage. The relation once formed, the law steps in and holds the parties to various obligations and liabilities. It is an institution, in the maintenance of which in its purity tbe public is deeply interested, for it is tbe foundation of tbe family and of society, without which there would be neither civilization nor progress.’ ” In Childs v. Childs, 49 Md. 514, our predecessors said (quoting Lord Stowell in Evans v. Evans, 2 Hagg. Consist. Rep. 35) : “ ‘The law lias said that married persons shall not he legally separated upon the mere disinclination of one or bath to cohabit together.’ * * * ‘That the duty of cohabitation is released by the cruelty of one of the parties is admitted, but the question occurs, what is cruelty T Declining to define the term the learned judge declares: ‘It is the duty of the courts, and therefore the inclination of the courts., to keep the rule extremely strict. The causes must be grave and weighty, and such as show an absolute impossibility that the duties of tho married life cannot be discharged. In a state of personal danger no duties can be discharged, for the duty of self-preservation must take place before the duties of marriage, which are secondary both in commencement and in obligation; but what falls short, of this is with great caution to be admitted.’ The rule of “per quod consortium amittitur” is but an inadequate test, for it still remains to be inquired, what conduct ought to produce that effect ? Whether the consortium is reasonably lost and whether the party quitting has not too hastily abandoned the ■ccmsoriinm. The same learned judge in the same opinion declares, ‘Marriage is the most solemn engagement which one human being can contract with another’. It is a contract formed with a view not only to the benefit of the parties themselves, but to the benefit of third parties; to the benefit of their common offspring, and to the moral order of civil society. To this contract is superadded the sanctity of a religious vow. * * * There are undoubtedly cases for which a separation is provided, but it must be lawfully decreed by public authority and for reasons which the public approves.’

“Mere turbulence of temper, petulance of manners, infirmity of body or mind, are not numbered amongst those causes; when they occur, their effects are to be subdued by management, if possible, or submitted to with patience; for the engagement was to take for better, for worse, and painful as the performance of this duty may be, painful as it certainly is in many instances, .which exhibit a great deal of misery that clouds human life, it must be attempted to be sweetened by the consciousness of being a duty, and a duty of the very first class and importance.’ ” When parties enter the marriage relation they accept each other, with all their imperfections, and the law will not dissolve the relation except upon the clearest and most satisfactory proof of the necessity for the dissolution. It was said by Judge Alvey, in Shutt v. Shutt, 71 Md. 193, that “it. is quite certain that the courts cannot interfere to furnish relief against all the troubles and distresses that may exist in the matrimonial relation. By far’ the greater number of these must be left to the good sense and management of the parties themselves. As has been said by a great authority (Lord Stowell), it is the law of religion, and the law of the country, that the husband is entrusted with authority over' his wife. He is to practice tenderness and affection, and obedience is her duty.”

The bill filed by the wife was for a decree a mensa. The charges of cruelty, non-support and adultery are not supported. The parties were in very moderate and limited circumstances. His trade was that, of a carpenter, and while the wife in conducting the household and providing for the children, many times endured hard conditions and the inconvenience of poverty, the testimony is not sufficient to warrant us in holding that the husband failed to support, her to the extent that his means permitted. The domestic life of the parties was not happy. There was much contention and many quarrels in the home. This condition was not due alone to the conduct of the wife: He did not do' his duty. He owed more to her than mere food and clothing. He did not treat her with proper consideration and does, not appear to have had any affection for her. He absented himself from his home, spending his evenings, in the society of his friends. He testified that he did not want to marry her, but that his-wife held him to his promise, and he speaks, of her in his testimony as a “cold proposition.” Had his conduct towards his wife been such as the law required it is reasonably certain that, he would not have had so many complaints to make. H!is wife was. exceedingly jealous, due, we think, to marital infidelity on the part of the husband following the birth of their second child, and she was suspicious of his association with other women, and this jealousy and suspicion was the cause of the allegation of adultery as well as. most of the dis¡turbanee in the home. So far as the testimony relates, to the 'grounds of divorce set up in the two bills it must be found almost exclusively in. the evidence of the parties, and upon the material questions is contradictory and uttterly irreconcilable. Practically the only essential facts which are satisfactorily established are that the husband left his wife on the 28th of February, 1913, with the intention of permanently abandoning her and .has never since returned. He stated in his evidence, the circumstances which induced him to leave, but bis testimony is uncorroborated, and his statement that she ordered him out of the house is denied by the wife. We do not find it necessary to recapitulate the evidence. It is largely a. recital of the differences between the parties extending over a period of a quarter of a century, and which we believe to have been greatly magnified. There is no charge affecting the moral character of the wife, and, assunting all that the husband has said as to her quarrelsome disiposition to be true, her conduct was not s.uch as to justify him in leaving her, and we must treat his act as an unjustifiable act of abandonment and desertion on bis part entitling her to the relief prayed for in her bill.

This conclusion, which follows from the application to the facts of the principles of law above stated, results in the reversal of the decree appealed from. The decree will be reversed and the canse remanded in order that decree may he passed dismissing the crosisfifill and granting the relief prayed for in the original bill.

Decree reversed witih costs and came remanded.