Bonner v. Deselm-Bonner, 06 Ca 15 (5-4-2007)

2007 Ohio 2173
CourtOhio Court of Appeals
DecidedMay 4, 2007
DocketNo. 06 CA 15.
StatusPublished
Cited by2 cases

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Bluebook
Bonner v. Deselm-Bonner, 06 Ca 15 (5-4-2007), 2007 Ohio 2173 (Ohio Ct. App. 2007).

Opinion

OPINION
{¶ 1} Plaintiff-appellant Shawn Bonner appeals from the December 30, 2005 and March 14, 2006, Judgment Entries of the Guernsey County Court of Common Pleas, Domestic Relations Division.

STATEMENT OF THE FACTS AND CASE
{¶ 2} Appellant Shawn Bonner and appellee Courtney Deselm-Bonner were married in 1999 and are the parents of Tyler (DOB 4/21/98), Shane (DOB 11/29/99) and Jevon (DOB 11/14/01). Pursuant to a Decree of Divorce filed in November of 2002, the parties were granted a divorce. Appellee was designated as the residential parent and legal custodian of the parties' minor children while appellant was awarded parenting time. Both appellant and appellee are doctors.

{¶ 3} Subsequently, on July 12, 2004, appellant filed a Motion to Modify Parental Rights and Responsibilities, alleging that there had been "a number of substantial changes in the circumstances of the Defendant [appellee] and the minor children . . ." Appellee, on September 10, 2004, also filed a Motion to Modify Parental Rights and Responsibilities alleging that there had been "a number of substantial changes in the circumstances of the Plaintiff [appellant] and the minor children . . ." Pursuant to an order filed on April 8, 2005, the trial court appointed a Guardian Ad Litem for the minor children.

{¶ 4} A hearing on the pending motions commenced on June 13, 2005. Testimony was adduced at the hearing that appellee remarried in June of 2004 and that two stepchildren moved into appellee's house along with appellee's new husband, Jackson Flanigan. Denise Flynt, a licensed professional clinical counselor, testified that *Page 3 she saw the Bonner children in a therapeutic relationship. Flynt testified that she previously was involved with the children during the parties' divorce and that more recently she had provided counseling for the two older children. The following testimony was adduced when Flynt was asked whether she saw a risk of harm to Tyler if something was not changed:

{¶ 5} "A. I believe that in working with Tyler she's showed a great deal of anxiety and depression which are quite clearly mental health concerns surrounding the issues that she's disclosed to me in therapy associated with some visitation issues with her father. I do have mental health concerns regarding those. There are also some concerns about physical discipline but I'm not determining that to be abusive but rather a means of punishment used by the father that can possibly get out of control. It is against my recommendations to spank children but mentally I do have concerns that the child is very anxious and sad, shows sign of fearfulness also." Transcript at 215.1 Flynt further testified that both Shane and Tyler did not want to miss school on Mondays due to Monday visits.

{¶ 6} On cross-examination, Flynt was questioned about problems which the parties' children had with living in appellee's house. Flynt testified that she had concerns about life at appellee's house and answered in the affirmative when asked if the area of concern was relative to a step sibling. Flynt also testified that she suggested ways to alleviate those concerns and that "I just talked to the child last week about it and she told me things have improved significantly in that area of concern." Transcript at 226. *Page 4 She further testified that she had voiced her concerns to appellee and that appellee took steps to address the same by scheduling family therapy involving the step family.

{¶ 7} Vanessa Proudfoot, who worked for appellant as a nurse and administrative assistant from July of 2003 through April of 2004 and who had also worked for appellee, testified that Connie DeSelm, appellee's mother, had indicated to her that Jackson Flanigan, appellee's current husband, used inappropriate and foul language in front of his stepchildren. The following is an excerpt from Proudfoot's trial testimony:

{¶ 8} "Q. Does, to the best of your knowledge, Jackson Flanigan have a son that resides with at least in part resides with Courtney Bonner?

{¶ 9} "A. He has two of them.

{¶ 10} "Q. And were there any comments made by Mrs. DeSelm about her concern for either or both of those children being in the presence of the minor Bonner children?

{¶ 11} "A. Yes.

{¶ 12} "Q. And specifically what and with respect to whom? To which Flanigan child?

{¶ 13} "A. Jackson, little Jackson Jr., they call him Trevor.

{¶ 14} "Q. What was the concern that was raised?

{¶ 15} "A. That she said she was fearful for the children to be around him because of his behavior problems.

{¶ 16} "Q. When you say she was fearful you mean that —

{¶ 17} "A. Mrs. DeSelm, the grandmother. *Page 5

{¶ 18} "Q. The Bonner children's grandmother was concerned for the Bonner children's safety?

{¶ 19} "A. Yes.

{¶ 20} "Q. Because of Trevor Flanigan's past and/or present behavior?

{¶ 21} "A. Yes.

{¶ 22} "Q. Specifically did she state what she was concerned about or was it just a general fear?

{¶ 23} "A. She did not give a pinpoint. She just said that she did not trust him around the children." Transcript at 162-163.

{¶ 24} The following testimony was adduced when DeSelm was asked at the hearing whether she had ever told anyone that she feared for her grandchildren when they are in the presence of Trevor, appellee's stepson and the children's step-brother:

{¶ 25} "A. I don't fear for them so I don't believe I would say I fear for them.

{¶ 26} "Q. Have you ever expressed concern about the well being or welfare of your grandchildren in the presence of Trevor?

{¶ 27} "A. I think they are exposed to seventh grade thinking.

{¶ 28} "Q. Language you didn't like which —

{¶ 29} "A. I never heard the use of bad language.

{¶ 30} "Q. How about your son-in-law Jackson, have you ever been concerned about his foul language in the presence of the children?

{¶ 31} "A. I'm trying to think. I've heard him swear but I don't not [sic] that I would be concerned about his —

{¶ 32} "Q. Have you heard him swear in the presence of your grandchildren." *Page 6

{¶ 33} "A. I'm trying to think. I've not heard him use the Lord's name in vain or anything like that but I've heard him say damn it or something like that, yes.

{¶ 34} "Q. I'm not trying to get too specific on swearing.

{¶ 35} "A. I don't know exactly what you mean.

{¶ 36} "Q. I suppose I mean anything that you would consider to be offensive language or you think the reasonably prudent person in this community would think to be offensive language or perhaps the Court's eyebrows might we [sic] raised if uttered here in open court.

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