Boling v. Thacker

2019 Ohio 3683
CourtOhio Court of Appeals
DecidedSeptember 13, 2019
Docket2018-CA-109
StatusPublished
Cited by1 cases

This text of 2019 Ohio 3683 (Boling v. Thacker) is published on Counsel Stack Legal Research, covering Ohio Court of Appeals primary law. Counsel Stack provides free access to over 12 million legal documents including statutes, case law, regulations, and constitutions.

Bluebook
Boling v. Thacker, 2019 Ohio 3683 (Ohio Ct. App. 2019).

Opinion

[Cite as Boling v. Thacker, 2019-Ohio-3683.]

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF OHIO SECOND APPELLATE DISTRICT CLARK COUNTY

AMANDA BOLING : : Plaintiff-Appellee : Appellate Case No. 2018-CA-109 : v. : Trial Court Case No. 2015-JV-29 : PRESTON THACKER, et al. : (Appeal from Common Pleas Court – : Juvenile Division) Defendant-Appellant : :

...........

OPINION

Rendered on the 13th day of September, 2019.

VALERIE JUERGENS WILT, Atty. Reg. No. 0040413, 333 North Limestone Street, Suite 202A, Springfield, Ohio 45503 Attorney for Appellant

STACEY ROBERT PAVLATOS, Atty. Reg. No. 0012392, 700 East High Street, Springfield, Ohio 45505 Attorney for Appellee

.............

FROELICH, J. -2-

{¶ 1} Father appeals from a September 17, 2018 judgment of the Clark County

Court of Common Pleas, Domestic Relations/Juvenile Division, which granted visitation

rights to Maternal Grandparents and Mother 1 and from an October 15, 2018 order

clarifying its prior judgment regarding grandparent visitation. For the following reasons,

the trial court’s judgments will be affirmed.

I. Procedural History

{¶ 2} In June 2014, Mother and Father, who were unmarried, had a daughter, W.T.

Mother was initially named the custodial parent, and Father had visitation rights. The

parties broke up and got back together several times, ultimately ending their relationship

in August 2015.

{¶ 3} In December 2016, Mother gave birth to a son, 2 who was found to be

experiencing withdrawal symptoms; Mother admitted that she was using Percocet that

had not been prescribed, and Children Services became involved. In June 2017, Father,

who had relocated to Tennessee, filed a motion for legal custody of W.T. and requested

permission to relocate W.T. The trial court denied the motion to relocate; the motion for

legal custody remained pending. Father’s parents moved for legal custody of W.T., and

the trial court granted them temporary legal custody. In July 2017, Maternal

Grandparents moved for legal custody of W.T. Around the same time, Maternal

Grandparents obtained legal custody of Mother’s son. The next month, Maternal

1 In addition to the visitation issue, this judgment resolved several motions regarding custody of the child. The only portion of the judgment being challenged on appeal is the portion granting visitation to Maternal Grandparents and parenting time to Mother. 2 At the time of the son’s birth, Mother had a different boyfriend, who was the biological father of this child. Although there was extensive testimony concerning the circumstances surrounding the birth of Mother’s son, this action concerns only W.T. -3-

Grandparents filed a motion for visitation with W.T. In August 2017, Mother filed a multi-

branch motion, which is not pertinent to this appeal.

{¶ 4} Over ten days in 2017 and 2018, the trial court held a hearing on the various

motions by the parties. Father resided with his fiancée, her son, and their new child in

Tennessee when the hearings began, but married and relocated to Ohio by the end of

the hearings. Ultimately, the trial court granted legal custody of W.T. to Father, and

granted Maternal Grandparents extensive visitation rights. Mother was to have

supervised parenting time with W.T. when W.T. was with Maternal Grandparents. At

Father’s request, the trial court filed an additional order clarifying Maternal Grandparents’

visitation rights.

{¶ 5} Father appeals, raising three assignments of error. Father claims that the

trial court erred, as a matter of law, in granting visitation to Maternal Grandparents, that

Maternal Grandparents’ visitation times are arbitrary and inconsistent with trial court’s

factual findings, and that Mother’s parenting time is contrary to law and not supported by

the evidence.

II. Trial Court’s Factual Findings

{¶ 6} The bulk of the trial court’s findings were set forth in the context of the parties’

cross-motions for legal custody of W.T. The trial court found that it was not in W.T.’s

best interest for Mother to remain the custodial parent and that Father had not abandoned

W.T., “despite [Maternal Grandparents’] contentions to the contrary.” Addressing

Father’s suitability, the trial court found, in part:

* * * To this end, [Father] was not voluntarily absent from [W.T.’s] life

for a period in excess of 90 days and, in fact, he regularly exercised his -4-

parenting time with her and stayed in regular communications with her while

he was residing in Tennessee. The Court does, however, acknowledge

that it was not in [W.T.’s] best interest for [Father] to relocate to Tennessee

and leave her to be primarily cared for by [Mother], who he knew had

unresolved drug issues. The Court finds, however, from the totality of the

credible evidence, that [Father] has since significantly matured as a person

and as a parent, and the Court finds that it is unlikely that he will make such

an error in judgment in the future. The Court notes that both sets of

grandparents either knew, or should have known that [Mother] had

unresolved drug dependency issues while primarily caring for [W.T.] which

should have resulted in either set of grandparents taking appropriate action

to protect [W.T.] in a more timely fashion.

Despite the foregoing, this is not a contest between grandparents.

Both sets of grandparents in this case could easily provide [W.T.] with a

stable and loving environment to grow up in. That is not, however, the

primary responsibility of grandparents, nor should it be. Grandparents

should be a great resource and support system to assist their children with

the difficulties involved in raising a child in today’s world. Both of these

sets of grandparents will easily do a great job serving in that capacity.

The Court further notes that both sets of grandparents in this case

are closely bonded with [W.T.] because they both have invested more

energy in her upbringing than average grandparents do, primarily because

of the past deficiencies of their respective children coupled with their -5-

absolute commitment to this child.

In some ways, [W.T.’s] situation is not much different than many

cases which this Court sees wherein grandparents step up when their own

children are sometimes lacking.

This case is different, however, than many cases in that they both

have children who are in the process of reclaiming their own lives which

they, for a period of time, threw away to drugs and other irresponsible

decisions. As painful as this litigation may have been on [W.T.’s] parents,

it may well represent a point in their lives which results in positive change

and a new outlook on life.

It is the Court’s hope that some day, when this litigation has long

since ended, all of the parties in this case will recognize the unknowing way

in which this four-year-old little girl made her parents better people.

Clearly, both parents in this case have used their love for [W.T.] as a

motivating force to effectuate positive changes in their own lives. Both

parents and both sets of grandparents should be proud of the efforts that

these kids are trying to make at this point in their lives. Both sets of families

have been through a lot and so has this child, however, her future is bright

in this Court’s opinion, particularly if all of the parties can find a middle

Free access — add to your briefcase to read the full text and ask questions with AI

Related

In re N.S.
2022 Ohio 3988 (Ohio Court of Appeals, 2022)

Cite This Page — Counsel Stack

Bluebook (online)
2019 Ohio 3683, Counsel Stack Legal Research, https://law.counselstack.com/opinion/boling-v-thacker-ohioctapp-2019.