Bickford v. Bickford

83 Misc. 2d 571, 371 N.Y.S.2d 782, 1975 N.Y. Misc. LEXIS 2940
New York Family Court·Decided July 15, 1975·Published·Cited by 8 cases

Opinion

Leonard J. Litz, J.

This case is considered on an agreed [572]*572statement of facts. Both parties have filed petitions with this court, the petitioner charging the respondent with violation of an order of support and the respondent requesting a modification downward of the support order based upon a change of circumstances. It is generally agreed that the relief to be granted rests solely on questions of law.

The parties to this proceeding were divorced in 1965. The petitioner wife was awarded custody of the four children of the marriage and the respondent was directed to pay the sum of $50 per week for their support and maintenance. In September of 1971, two of the four children were no longer living with the petitioner and accordingly the order of support was reduced to $35 per week which was intended to provide support for the two children who remained at home. In May of 1974, one of the two children who was living with the petitioner, left the home, with the consent of the petitioner, to take up living quarters by herself. The respondent father was not made aware of this until Christmas of that year, at which time he was told that his daughter was married, when in fact she was not, but rather had a child out of wedlock and was residing in her own apartment. Also, unbeknown to the respondent, his daughter had applied for public assistance and was receiving assistance in her own right for herself and her child.

In January, 1975, the respondent unilaterally reduced his payments to $20 a week, contending that his daughter was emancipated and this event terminated his responsibility to support her. The support now being paid by respondent is for the one child who remains at home with the petitioner. A violation petition was subsequently filed charging failure to comply with the existing order of support and the respondent in turn filed a modification petition requesting that an order be made relieving him from the obligation to render any support for the child who had left the petitioner’s home.

Although the Department of Social Services of Schenectady County has no formal petition before the court, they have interceded, and with the consent of the petitioner, have requested that they be made beneficiary of so much of the order of support, which requires support payments for respondent’s daughter who no longer lives with the petitioner. Technically, it could be argued that the Department of Social Services has no standing in the proceeding which is before the court but since there was no objection raised by either party, the court [573]*573in reaching its decision will consider that the Department of Social Services is properly before the court. There can be little argument that under sections 415 and 422 of the Family Court Act, and 102 of the Social Services Law of the State of New York, the officials of the Department of Social Services are authorized to bring a proceeding in this court if public assistance is being furnished.

The respondent’s daughter who has left home and receiving public assistance is 19 years of age. There is no determination to be made by this court as to whether this 19-year-old daughter is emancipated since both parties have stipulated and agreed that she is emancipated. Ordinarily the question of whether there has been an emancipation is a factual one and such a determination is usually made after receiving proof as to whether the act which is claimed as the basis for the change in status is one that occurred by operation of law, by an act or acts of the natural parent alone or by the act or acts of the child. The court may also conclude after receiving proof, that there was only a partial emancipation rather than a total emancipation.

The law is well settled that the burden of proving emancipation of a minor by the parent is upon him who asserts such a position. (Spurgeon v Mission State Bank, 151 F2d 702; Straver v Straver, 26 NJ Mis Rep 218.) In this proceeding both parties agreed that no proof was necessary in that the court was authorized to decide the matter as if proof had been offered to establish total emancipation of the respondent’s daughter. The question to be decided is whether emancipation is a complete defense sufficient to relieve a natural parent from his legal obligation to provide support for his child who is under the age of 21 years.

Prior to September 1, 1974, the statutes which imposed the responsibility of support on the natural parents for the support of their children continued during the child’s minority. (Family Ct Act, §§ 413-416, 437.) These statutes were amended by chapter 937 of the Laws of 1974 by deleting the word minor and substituting in its place the words under the age of 21 years. Section 119 of the Family Court Act was also amended by chapter 937 of the Laws of 1974 which defines a minor to be "a person who has not attained the age of eighteen years”. The Legislature in enacting these amendments, took great pains in leaving no doubt that the responsibility of a natural parent to support his children was not to [574]*574terminate on the child reaching his adulthood, which is 18 years, but under certain conditions, could continue for any child who was under the age of 21 years. This statutory obligation is identical whether the responsibility is established under section 413 or section 415 of the Family Court Act. Therefore, the fact that the respondent’s daughter has attained her adulthood, namely 19 years of age, alone, would not authorize a modification of the present order of support.

As was held in the Matter of Roe v Doe (29 NY2d 188) where a minor daughter abandons her home, she forfeits her right to support. The court determined a minor child, who chooses not. to submit to what the father considers to be proper discipline, cannot enlist the aid of the court in frustrating that authority, reasonably exercised, by requiring that her father accede to her demands and underwrite her chosen lifestyle (p 194). In such instances, the natural parent is relieved of his obligation to support, even though the child is under 21 years of age.

It is the policy within this State that a father of a minor child is chargeable with the discipline of his child. Consistent with this policy, the Legislature, in implementing the basic decision to recognize age 18 years as the focal point of adulthood, continued the right of a parent, guardian or other person entrusted with the care and supervision of a person under the age of 21 years, to use such reasonable means that he believes necessary to maintain discipline or to promote the welfare of such a person.

The legislative intent in requiring a parent to support a child under the age of 21 years presupposes that the parent has the right to the custody and control of that child. This is not to say that a parent is necessarily relieved of this obligation when the right to custody and control may be interrupted by some, involuntary act on the part of the parent as well as the child. (Matter of Jesmer v Dundon, 29 NY2d 5.) Where a child voluntarily leaves a parent’s home, without just cause, the parent loses the fundamental and legal right to supervise the conduct of that child and logically should be relieved of the obligation to support. (Matter of Roe v Doe, 29 NY2d 188, supra.)

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